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Do any women put out likes or message guys first

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By *arkhorse69xxx OP   Man
6 weeks ago

dalgety bay

Yeah that's my topic today! Do women initiate conversation and wink or like on this site?

As i would love to find out your thoughts.

To me it seems incredibly rare. Maybe I'm not what women want. Maybe some women get there rocks off with the attention us guys give you.

Happy days everyone x

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By *iss stiletto loverWoman
6 weeks ago

Motherwell

Absolutely! If someone catches my eye i will let them know. Maybe not straight away with a message but a few views and a wink to see if its reciprocated

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By *andsCouple
6 weeks ago

Edin

Always happy to message or wink if I find what I’m looking for!

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By *arkhorse69xxx OP   Man
6 weeks ago

dalgety bay

Thanks for your feedback so far. Much appreciated 👍

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By *exy gentMan
6 weeks ago

Midlothian


"Always happy to message or wink if I find what I’m looking for! "

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By *azzle99Woman
6 weeks ago

Fabulous

Have done numerous times, more so when working away.

The amount of guys that think it’s a wind up, that I’m fake etc.

Can’t win on here!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
6 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If I like the look of someone Im not shy when it comes to messaging .

Whats the worst that can happen !?

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
6 weeks ago

NEC next month, Usually Dundee and around


"Have done numerous times, more so when working away. "

I know Razzle messages. Because she has messaged me. Some women can think twice about fabbing or messaging because some guys think it represents a definite!

When it often is just the start of interactions to see how things go.

Guys, we only have ourselves to blame.

The messages that kill me every time are the ones where they say "I didn't think you'd be interested!" So they thought they'd self deselect rather than asking me if I was.

I know there is the whole rejection thing, but you get that on here whatever, you become anesthetized to it.

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes yes.

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By *hyme2020Woman
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

I messaged someone who was just out my age range and also who I thought was completely out of my league, because I had noticed him looking at my profile multiple times. He was local and this has ended up becoming a nice friendship and some amazing sex. Nothing ventured nothing gained 😉

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

Women certainly do message, from experience. Generally I wish more would as so many are reticent to do so. 🩶

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By *hehighlander88Man
6 weeks ago

inverness

I would love for women to message me 1st

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By *sm265Woman
6 weeks ago

Perthshire

I dont use winks. I regularly fab pictures that I like (but that's not necessarily a sign of interest, simply means that I like the photo).

Over the years I have sent many first messages to profiles that have captured my interest and inspired me to find out more. A lot of these have resulted in further interactions and in some cases to very enjoyable meets.

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By *aithlessangelCouple
6 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I do if someone catches my eye. I've also turned off single male messaging so it's the only way for me to start a conversation with someone I like the look of.

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By *4rk4ndL1ghtMan
6 weeks ago

Bonnybridge


"I dont use winks. I regularly fab pictures that I like (but that's not necessarily a sign of interest, simply means that I like the photo).

Over the years I have sent many first messages to profiles that have captured my interest and inspired me to find out more. A lot of these have resulted in further interactions and in some cases to very enjoyable meets. "

I agree, I fab pics too, if they appeal to me.

Doesn't mean it's a sign of interest in the person.

Nice to get fabs too, I often check out their profiles.

Has lead to some fun meets

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
6 weeks ago

perth

Yes they do thankfully.

I think too many females get inundated with messages so its good to wait for them to make the 1st contact

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have messaged first but it's rare, I tend to use a wink but I know not everyone looks at them.

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By *ULGEWHATBULGEMan
6 weeks ago

Sunnyville

Nawty is on my hotlist & wondering if she likes hairy dad bods?

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By *aughty Curvy VixenWoman
6 weeks ago

Motherwell

I have done.

Normally someone that has looked at me, and they have something interesting on their status.

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
6 weeks ago

paisley


"Have done numerous times, more so when working away.

The amount of guys that think it’s a wind up, that I’m fake etc.

Can’t win on here! "
lol yeah, I always double check..... You message women without response for days then a beautiful woman messages you out of the blue 😁

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By *976scottMan
6 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

It does happen but not very often. Probably down to the ratios Male to female on fab plus the women have to look through the 300 cock pics in their inbox before they get a chance to message anyone

Single guys don’t help themselves on fab

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair


"It does happen but not very often. Probably down to the ratios Male to female on fab plus the women have to look through the 300 cock pics in their inbox before they get a chance to message anyone..."

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No, it isn't that at all. What occurs in their inbox is irrelevant and they are more than capable of managing the dross... because they can run their own searches, peruse from the forums or look at their local feed.

Women (most women, not all) are reluctant to send the first message. They rarely do, if at all. Apathy, fear of rejection and issues concerning confidence are some of the factors for their reticence.

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By *luebell888Woman
6 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I have messaged loads of men first. It's usually to pay them a compliment or to ask them something about their update or profile.

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By *yantico86Man
6 weeks ago

drumchapel

Of course they do

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Yes, I'm flooded.

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