FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

Curious as to people's thoughts on how long you think an average meet should last?

I'm finding more and more guys want to just have a quickie and personally they do nothing for me...I think if your in a relationship that's different but not when your single.

If im making an effort to meet I expect at least an hour as a minimum (obv prefer longer)

Interested to see if im just looking for something thats not there!

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm married but occasionally have solo meets, if I'd went out of my way to arrange it and it was just an hour I would be disappointed. I would say somewhere between 2 - 4 (if it's a really good meet).

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By *ugehandsMan
8 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

I'd agree that between 2-4 hours is about right. For me I like the build up from general chat to hot and sexy chat following onto kissing and plenty of foreplay before hot passionate sex.

But hey that's just me

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I'm married but occasionally have solo meets, if I'd went out of my way to arrange it and it was just an hour I would be disappointed. I would say somewhere between 2 - 4 (if it's a really good meet). "

Thank you for replying and I totally agree. I do have a couple of guys who spend hours but they really are in the minority (or unique as one will say ☺️). Think going forward when meeting for a social I need to ask the question

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By *HE PROBLEMMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Aye we can discuss your needs, likes and dislikes when we have a social

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By *merald1971Woman
8 weeks ago

dundee

Agree an hour at the least bit prefer a good couple of hours

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Aye we can discuss your needs, likes and dislikes when we have a social

Sounds like a plan, I will pop the kettle on the next time your passing 🤣🤣

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By *ighlandballsMan
8 weeks ago

DUNKELD

Longer the better

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By *hyme2020Woman
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have to agree with you. I much prefer to spend a bit of time , but it just doesn’t seem to go that way very often. Maybe I need to find some new friends 🤣

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By *ilveraddo5-9Man
8 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

From what I’ve been told by other women, the majority of men on here are just after a quickie, urges satisfied, and be on their way… and I’m sure there are some women who just want that too. But I agree, the best sex comes with a connection, which means meets should be a few hours. Foreplay takes time!

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By *ekked JackMan
8 weeks ago

South Lanarkshire

I would say for a social and hour to an hour and a half is sufficient, its nice to leave with both wanting more. For a play meet 2 and a half hours minimum. A drink, soft or alcohol chat, flirt, build up, kiss and take things further and a bit of chat after too.

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By *roy the GardenerMan
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

I think it’s a case of lining your expectations up with someone else’s.

I’ve had meets both social and otherwise that have been short and sweet or prolonged and enjoyed, circumstances very much dictate those for me. Work, distance to and from a meet, accommodation, free time etc.

The longer the better when those circumstances allow but if it’s a previous meet and it’s a case of scratching an itch for one or both then it’s all good too.

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By *exySinners2Couple
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

we're definitely not into quickie meets

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By *HE PROBLEMMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Aye we can discuss your needs, likes and dislikes when we have a social

Sounds like a plan, I will pop the kettle on the next time your passing 🤣🤣 "

Perefct ...hopefully i can last your minimum 1 hour time scale.....might need to re boil that kettle

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By *heltiemanMan
8 weeks ago

Lerwick

If you've never met the longer you have with each other the better the connection is gonna be.

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By *inkyjijoMan
8 weeks ago

Angus

Unless the woman specifically wants just a fuck n go meet, you should be doing at least 2 hours. Bit of chat, maybe a drink and guage how things are going. Sometimes theres no click so better being honest and politely decline, than have some bad sex and just be all awkward and uncomfortable after. But hopefully its not and there is a real spark in the bedroom 😉👍

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I prefer longer too, a quickie just feels wrong rushed and I can't enjoy it anymore I used to be ok with them though

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By *ay2571Man
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

If i’m with a guy it’s usually a quickie. most just want to cum and go. And TBH i’m fine with that. especially as i’m not normally looking to cum.

With women i like a longer meet. at least a couple of hours.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
8 weeks ago

greenock

"Curious as to people's thoughts on how long you think an average meet should last?

I'm finding more and more guys want to just have a quickie and personally they do nothing for me...I think if your in a relationship that's different but not when your single.

If im making an effort to meet I expect at least an hour as a minimum (obv prefer longer)

Interested to see if im just looking for something thats not there! "

An hour, or three is just about right. Dayuse hotels are perfect for it.

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By *hybutnot2Woman
8 weeks ago

South West Scotland

I like a longer meet just so it’s not rushed, but also like a quickly ( with someone I have met before )

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I prefer longer too, a quickie just feels wrong rushed and I can't enjoy it anymore I used to be ok with them though

I find quickies just make me hornier as I want more. Maybe just too greedy 🤣

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By *akedrob2025Man
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I do have to agree op, for me as being single too, I feel meets should be longer. Build up that connection.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
8 weeks ago

Dundee

Men lie though. More than once I've had a meet where the guy claims to be single and is then practically running out the door afterwards as he's lied to his partner about his whereabouts and needs to get home.

Just rude. If I've spent time getting ready for the meet I expect the person to not treat me like a cum dump. Really puts me off meeting single guys tbh

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By *allowizardMan
8 weeks ago

Livingston

An hour is the absolute bare minimum

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By *oewiththeflowMan
8 weeks ago

West Coast

"I have to agree with you. I much prefer to spend a bit of time , but it just doesn’t seem to go that way very often. Maybe I need to find some new friends 🤣"

New friends right here. A few hours means you can get to know each other

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Aye we can discuss your needs, likes and dislikes when we have a social

Sounds like a plan, I will pop the kettle on the next time your passing 🤣🤣

Perfect ...hopefully i can last your minimum 1 hour time scale.....might need to re boil that kettle

Pmsl id be like a budgie on trill after 2 coffee's 🤣🤣 might need to invest in decaf

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By *eardyBikerMan
8 weeks ago

nr stonehaven

"Curious as to people's thoughts on how long you think an average meet should last?

I'm finding more and more guys want to just have a quickie and personally they do nothing for me...I think if your in a relationship that's different but not when your single.

If im making an effort to meet I expect at least an hour as a minimum (obv prefer longer)

Interested to see if im just looking for something thats not there! "

Oh aye, at least an hour ...essentially as long as you can manage ...for what ever reason, a quickie has its place but longervthe better

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I prefer longer too, a quickie just feels wrong rushed and I can't enjoy it anymore I used to be ok with them though

I find quickies just make me hornier as I want more. Maybe just too greedy 🤣"

😂 well there is that reason for me too aswell as the others I mentioned

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By *eardyBikerMan
8 weeks ago

nr stonehaven

"I prefer longer too, a quickie just feels wrong rushed and I can't enjoy it anymore I used to be ok with them though

I find quickies just make me hornier as I want more. Maybe just too greedy 🤣

😂 well there is that reason for me too aswell as the others I mentioned "

Excellent

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By *aylorMan
8 weeks ago

Fife

I'm a greedy guy so longer is better for me, all night is best.

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I'm a greedy guy so longer is better for me, all night is best.

Lol with a statement like that your inbox should be overflowing!!

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By *otrock-cplCouple
8 weeks ago

Glenrothes

We enjoy a good few hours.

Not into rushed meetings if its social or fun.

We like the build up tease and flirting chat and play about before the XXX fun starts with other couples and single females x

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

Typically for me I mostly do overnight dates, a sustained experience over dinner; evening and overnight passions and sensuality, followed by brunch the following morning.

Otherwise it's from noon until very late evening.

I don't do bonk-by-the-hour experiences. I'm not a teenager.

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By *yantico86Man
8 weeks ago

drumchapel

I hate quickies

Why rush a good time x

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By *HE PROBLEMMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Aye we can discuss your needs, likes and dislikes when we have a social

Sounds like a plan, I will pop the kettle on the next time your passing 🤣🤣

Perfect ...hopefully i can last your minimum 1 hour time scale.....might need to re boil that kettle

Pmsl id be like a budgie on trill after 2 coffee's 🤣🤣 might need to invest in decaf "

Plenty to keep you quiet

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By *awk3y3Man
8 weeks ago

West Lothian

Something I am very keen on is building friendships - that way when an itch needs scratched from either party the dance with no pants can take various forms from a risque outdoor quickie to a long afternoon or even a weekend away where it build trust and the friendship which just enhances things

Not sure there is a right or wrong answer OP - just finding the right person that matches what you are looking for - those that are blessed with some ** staying power ** to the top of the pile surely ?

Hope you find what you are looking for though

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By *aughtyjamesMan
8 weeks ago

Inverclyde

At least 3 or 4 hours, preferably an overnight meet

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By *ydo2025Man
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Always think one or two’s at least had a couple of hotel meets were it be a full night

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Typically for me I mostly do overnight dates, a sustained experience over dinner; evening and overnight passions and sensuality, followed by brunch the following morning.

Otherwise it's from noon until very late evening.

I don't do bonk-by-the-hour experiences. I'm not a teenager."

To me what your suggesting is a FWB night out, tbh I wouldnt want to go for dinner and do the overnight sleeping part followed by breakfast the next day. All im looking for is a decent meet thats not a quickie!

And personally i dont think having a decent few hours meet is teenager behavior but everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

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By *wings and RoundaboutsMan
8 weeks ago

Falkirk

I like to spend as much time as possible to chat before anything happens and cuddles and chat thereafter

Can be difficult to put timescales on it as due to people own availability and time restraints.

We all have a life outside of fab but it does interfere!

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By *oDownEasyMan
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

A few hours is good, some chat, lots and lots of foreplay, followed by sex: hard and rough or slow and sensual ( or both!) it all takes time

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Typically for me I mostly do overnight dates, a sustained experience over dinner; evening and overnight passions and sensuality, followed by brunch the following morning.

Otherwise it's from noon until very late evening.

I don't do bonk-by-the-hour experiences. I'm not a teenager.

And personally i dont think having a decent few hours meet is teenager behavior but everyone is entitled to their own opinion. "

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I wasn't poopoo'ing your approach. I was merely emphasising my aversion to short meets. You have your penchants; rejoice in them.

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By *-97Man
7 weeks ago

Johnstone

I would say 2-4 hours for first time then a few hours here and there also if the guy cums quick and can keep going a suppose it’s a bonus for all you woman on here.

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By *exy gentMan
7 weeks ago

Midlothian

I think it's depends on the folks request, quick cum and go has it's place, but equally 2-4hrs is a more personal meet which is great, as nothing is rushed and you get to know each another better socially and sexually

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By *uperstar76Woman
7 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Last meet i had, we chatted for afew days about likes dislikes what we would like to do etc, got all ready went to his and was back in my car 20 mins later, deffo not worth the effort id put in.

Would much rather a good few hours of mixed chat and sex

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By *iss stiletto lover OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Last meet i had, we chatted for afew days about likes dislikes what we would like to do etc, got all ready went to his and was back in my car 20 mins later, deffo not worth the effort id put in.

Would much rather a good few hours of mixed chat and sex "

So many guys don't get it... it takea us longer than 20mins to get ready!

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By *vmelTV/TS
7 weeks ago

lisburn

Omg at leaat a few hours as want to make sure the lady is well pleased then just might get more meets from her. Xxxc

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
7 weeks ago

NEC next month, Usually Dundee and around

I completely agree with 2-4 hours, but I'd say that's "play" in addition to social time before...

I have had a few meets that have started with a drink (30mins) then if we click and both want to it has some times proceeded to flirting and more in hotel pool/jacuzzi (30-60min) then up to room for rope fun and more 2-4h

When starts align and time allows, why wouldn't you want to spend the time!

I wouldn't have thought the time taken to get a meet on here was worth a blow-n-go!

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
7 weeks ago

New Cumnock

A meet "should" last as long as the participants have discussed they want it to last. There is no should or shouldn't we all have different needs and wants. Sometimes a quickie is fun and sometimes a few hours or even a weekend can be fun. All depends on what you want from who you meet... There's no set duration.

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