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Many Couples just interested in Soft swinging these days?

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By *auldub2 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hi all, male half of a mainly straight couple, although herself may play a little with other girls if the moment feels right,

But so many people have soft swing listed on their profiles yet the also have a lot more listed and reviews from a playing a lot more so it's hard to actually search for what we are trying to find,

But again myself and herself are genuinely looking for another couple who are actually looking to try Soft swing - ideally same room fun together with each other in the same room with another couple doing the same together and see how it goes from there?

Does this stuff even happen much anymore?

We are based in Inverclyde but can possibly travel if planned in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Ah, the male half of a couple eh…

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By *martin9Man
10 weeks ago

greenock

I think it depends for me. We’re usually just happy to go with the flow and take things at the pace that suits everybody I don’t have a set plan or agenda for a meet my main goal is that everyone has a good time

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By *WeePurpleDragonCouple
10 weeks ago

East Lothian

yes we like that as well ,,,,, get in touch with your addys.

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
10 weeks ago

Derby

Irrespective of what you might find, looking for a couple from a poor single male account is like pissing in the wind. Set up a photo verified couples profile with pics of both of you and a well written text describing what you are looking for. Then look for similar and go from there. Keep in mind that people can play soft and full swap depending on what's been discussed and agreed. Just because somebody has more than you want to do on their profile doesn't mean they are not interested soft swapping only. It's like wine, sometimes you just want a glass, other times you fancy a whole bottle. Both are enjoyable depending on what mood you are in

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By *anarkshirecouple84Couple
10 weeks ago

Motherwell

we're looking for soft swap but would never organise through a single males profile. Get in touch via a photo verified profile and we'd be happy to chat

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
10 weeks ago

New Cumnock

We're happy to do either, we usually discuss expectations with potential meets before hand but it does state on our profile happy with full or soft swing.

I agree with others on here though, you need a couple profile.

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By *eeJayCoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Soft swap would be our pref but still to find the right couple.

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
10 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

This is why we usually like to do a social first. Good way to see if you click and get on and then it's easier to discuss what you're looking for 🙂

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By *estless NativesCouple
10 weeks ago

Central Scotland

We ideally seek soft swap couples or FF for play dates.

Our main issue has been meeting lads who I am attracted to and can maintain an erection.

It's also difficult to find couples where all 4 are attracted as nobody should take one for the team.

That's why we now predominantly look for soft swap BUT if the vibe and attraction is there then a full swap is a distinct possibility.

We've learned the hard way over the last few years on here and in the lifestyle.

Respect others wants and wishes always.

Happy Fabbing xx

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By *ampervanfun2000Man
10 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Op. Who is we???? Your profile doesn't mention anybody else?

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By *ifeIsShort69Couple
10 weeks ago

ayrshire

Yes we would prefer a soft swap its hard to tick all the boxes for everyone… but then its hard finding that elusive unicorn

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By *oneyandbearCouple
10 weeks ago

Dundee

We enjoy soft swing with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

We want to do a soft swap

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By *eaAndBiscuits8788Couple
9 weeks ago

moray

We are a very open minded couple so open to trying new things, we usually do a full swap but can do soft. We usually chat for a bit and see what everyone is into and take it from there

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By *alaisllamaMan
9 weeks ago

Midlothian

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By *erryandjuneCouple
9 weeks ago

Livingston

We are a soft swap couple. We have made that conscious decision that we want to keep penetrative sex special between us. Its actually hard to find a genuine soft swap couple as it does seem to be a deal breaker for many couples.

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By *auldub2 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

You guys seem like your into the same as us so, we mainly want play with each other alongside another cpl doing the same and maybe a bit more but as you mentioned we are not interested in penetrative sex with others, and kinda want to meet a cpl with the same principles you are more then welcome to sent a private message if you guys fancy talking more

As you already mentioned though it is extremely hard to find another cpl who want the same and are not hoping to go further, wish there was more people wanted simular , not going the full hog so to speak

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By *heJammyDodgersCouple
8 weeks ago

Falkirk


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But so many people have soft swing listed on their profiles yet the also have a lot more listed and reviews from a playing a lot more so it's hard to actually search for what we are trying to find,

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They are not mutually exclusive. You can enjoy both.

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By *indy777Couple
7 weeks ago

Hampshire

We’ve been playing for quite a few years and always soft swing. X

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