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By *ara25x OP   Woman
16 weeks ago

Angus

Ok whats the thoughts on clubs in Scotland.

Im a newbie i do have a fwb would I be best with him.

Or single ladies how have you found going alone

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By *eetootsWoman
16 weeks ago

Glasgow

Single female here 🙋‍♀️ I went to a club solo and not knowing anyone at all, was a bit overwhelming tbh but I stuck with it and went 2 an organised social (through this) and met so many great gals who we go 2 the club as a group now 😀. Defo go, everyone is friendly and you wont be sat alone for long.

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By *ara25x OP   Woman
16 weeks ago

Angus


"Single female here 🙋‍♀️ I went to a club solo and not knowing anyone at all, was a bit overwhelming tbh but I stuck with it and went 2 an organised social (through this) and met so many great gals who we go 2 the club as a group now 😀. Defo go, everyone is friendly and you wont be sat alone for long."

Thank you glad to hear you had good time could I ask where you went x

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By *eetootsWoman
16 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Single female here 🙋‍♀️ I went to a club solo and not knowing anyone at all, was a bit overwhelming tbh but I stuck with it and went 2 an organised social (through this) and met so many great gals who we go 2 the club as a group now 😀. Defo go, everyone is friendly and you wont be sat alone for long.

Thank you glad to hear you had good time could I ask where you went x"

Cj's its a great club, staff look after u and everyone is so friendly x

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By *iss stiletto loverWoman
16 weeks ago

Motherwell

Im a club newbie, I went to an organised social but still struggled tbh then I became friends with a couple who are regulars on the club scene. They took me to AD with them and introduced me to loads people. Im now in a group chat and have made loads new friends. If you're chatty and outgoing you will be absolutely fine. Keep an eye on the forum for organised socials there is loads coming up

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By *ara25x OP   Woman
16 weeks ago

Angus


"Im a club newbie, I went to an organised social but still struggled tbh then I became friends with a couple who are regulars on the club scene. They took me to AD with them and introduced me to loads people. Im now in a group chat and have made loads new friends. If you're chatty and outgoing you will be absolutely fine. Keep an eye on the forum for organised socials there is loads coming up "

Thats brilliant xx

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By *bcums3Couple
16 weeks ago

lanarkshire

There’s also female only socials ran a few times a year if that helps 💕💕 usually most attend the club after xx

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By *nteresting worldMan
16 weeks ago

alexandria

I'd love to go with other newbies dip our toes in together

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By *ighlandballsMan
16 weeks ago

DUNKELD

Clubs are safe if going solo

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By *wingers4uCouple
16 weeks ago

Scotland

It can be overwhelming. Best advice is pick an event that interests you. We go to GGGB and they can be full on. Going with a partner is a good idea as they can keep an eye on things and give you support. Good luck xx

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By *hehighlander88Man
16 weeks ago

inverness

I’ve often wondering about the social scene

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By *1KE1982Man
15 weeks ago

Highlands/Aberdeen/Dundee

Clubs are a great place to meet new people and make connections in the scene.

In Scotland we are somewhat limited in options, (Bacchus in Dundee, After Dark in Edinburgh, Ecclesia and CJ’s in Glasgow and Maximus in Stevenson) but luckily they are all within a relatively short travel distance.

It’s well worth trying a few visits and seeing what they are like for yourself.

The club environment is generally very safe with staff and plenty of other club goers to look out for you. So visiting solo or as a pair or group are all options.

Generally most people that attend are lovely and will welcome you to sit with them in the social areas if you would like to join them.

Some days/events are going to be quieter and have more of a social slant with the option for play and may be a better first time experience if you are apprehensive about going.

However the busy events can be a lot of fun.

Best piece of advice is just to take that first step and see for yourself what it’s like.

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