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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My profile probably goes against the grain a bit, at least for just now anyway, since I don't have any pics of my cock taken beside a tv remote or deodorant, and with no public pics on display (I've private pics).

What I am looking for, just now, is mainly to get to know and chat to intelligent women and/or women who are decent. Not necessarily to always want to have sex 24/7 or pressure them for meets every time they are online.

My contacts with intelligent females is the thing that I most value from fab.

If I'm sitting this time next year with at least one more intelligent women on my friend's list, I'll view my time on here as worthwhile.

So, any intelligent women want to look at more profile and send a message, please.

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

Oh dear that removes me from applying as im too thick, don't know nothing, cant strike a conversation ill leave to all the intelligent ones to apply pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Your not the only one, I definitely look for people who can stimulate my mind as well as my body

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I'd just be happy with a woman to talk dirty to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile probably goes against the grain a bit, at least for just now anyway, since I don't have any pics of my cock taken beside a tv remote or deodorant, and with no public pics on display (I've private pics).

What I am looking for, just now, is mainly to get to know and chat to intelligent women and/or women who are decent. Not necessarily to always want to have sex 24/7 or pressure them for meets every time they are online.

My contacts with intelligent females is the thing that I most value from fab.

If I'm sitting this time next year with at least one more intelligent women on my friend's list, I'll view my time on here as worthwhile.

So, any intelligent women want to look at more profile and send a message, please.

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Nice nice,, you dont want to pressure anyone, whilst all at the same time you feel pressured enough to highlight your profile on here? Or am i reading it wrong,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am happy to talk any women

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I'd just be happy with a woman to talk dirty to me "

You would be happy just getting them to talk to you full stop!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Mr G.....Good luck...

There are plenty women here be happy with what you are asking.....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I'd just be happy with a woman to talk dirty to me

You would be happy just getting them to talk to you full stop! "

......lol ok i'll gie you that 1 lol

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"I'd just be happy with a woman to talk dirty to me "

ffs bunk now how many times have i done that to you lololol and ans yer bloody mail lol xxxxxxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I'd just be happy with a woman to talk dirty to me

ffs bunk now how many times have i done that to you lololol and ans yer bloody mail lol xxxxxxx

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Give him time to clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr G.....Good luck...

There are plenty women here be happy with what you are asking....."

ok, im being a weeeeeee bit cynical here, and if every single guy on fab in scotland did this in forums, ohhhhh guess how exccccccccccciting clicking on forums would be?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

IF every single guy did it id be telling them to get a fkn grip....

BUT...only one guy has done it....so good luck to him.....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I'd just be happy with a woman to talk dirty to me

ffs bunk now how many times have i done that to you lololol and ans yer bloody mail lol xxxxxxx

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I'll speak to temp when i get in from work and get back to you bren....might not make it ...its wee 1's birthday that weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"IF every single guy did it id be telling them to get a fkn grip....

BUT...only one guy has done it....so good luck to him.....

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Thank you. That's appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is someone taking the piss here

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Take the piss on here never what ever makes u think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely intelligence comes in numerous guises....or is the Op requesting contact from only academically successful women?

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

Kunty talks to me. I don't think that qualifies.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely intelligence comes in numerous guises....or is the Op requesting contact from only academically successful women?

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mabes looking for women of a similar

Intelligence to his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kunty talks to me. I don't think that qualifies..... "

Nope.....durty talk doesn't count lol

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"Kunty talks to me. I don't think that qualifies.....

Nope.....durty talk doesn't count lol "

Knew it...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely intelligence comes in numerous guises....or is the Op requesting contact from only academically successful women?

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And how does the OP determine the level of "intelligence"...

There is a certain irony about his post......which given his level of intelligence I'm sure he'll get...

Would Marilyn Munro pass his intelligence test I wonder...

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Your not the only one, I definitely look for people who can stimulate my mind as well as my body "

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Oh dear that removes me from applying as im too thick, don't know nothing, cant strike a conversation ill leave to all the intelligent ones to apply pmsl "

One thing you most DEFINITELY are Bren is a havering slaver!!!! Too thick indeed

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Mr G.....Good luck...

There are plenty women here be happy with what you are asking....."

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Sw Scotland


"Surely intelligence comes in numerous guises....or is the Op requesting contact from only academically successful women?

And how does the OP determine the level of "intelligence"...

There is a certain irony about his post......which given his level of intelligence I'm sure he'll get...

Would Marilyn Munro pass his intelligence test I wonder...

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Marilyn Monroe ... Is she no deed?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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Would Marilyn Munro pass his intelligence test I wonder...

Marilyn Monroe ... Is she no deed?"

And she would still outdo some on here

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"Oh dear that removes me from applying as im too thick, don't know nothing, cant strike a conversation ill leave to all the intelligent ones to apply pmsl

One thing you most DEFINITELY are Bren is a havering slaver!!!! Too thick indeed "

ha ha jan im a woman of many talents xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anne Widdecombe is academically intelligent, Cheryl Cole isn't.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is someone taking the piss here "

Nope. Not that I am saying you are, or anyone else is, but I imagine some women do not like speaking to Neanderthals and guys who use text speak and who cannot string a sentence together. Or if a message is sent to a woman, she sits and mentally corrects all of the messages errors. Which is what some women have told me they do.

Or if a guy contacts a lady and the only thing he says is 'hows u babes'. He contacts her then says nothing, expecting her to then sort of take the lead or the mails will just fizzle out: chats end and the potential to meet is ended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is someone taking the piss here

Nope. Not that I am saying you are, or anyone else is, but I imagine some women do not like speaking to Neanderthals and guys who use text speak and who cannot string a sentence together. Or if a message is sent to a woman, she sits and mentally corrects all of the messages errors. Which is what some women have told me they do.

Or if a guy contacts a lady and the only thing he says is 'hows u babes'. He contacts her then says nothing, expecting her to then sort of take the lead or the mails will just fizzle out: chats end and the potential to meet is ended. "

So you would meet Anne Widdecombe socially over Cheryl Cole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some women don't like talking to cheesy blokes either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is someone taking the piss here

Nope. Not that I am saying you are, or anyone else is, but I imagine some women do not like speaking to Neanderthals and guys who use text speak and who cannot string a sentence together. Or if a message is sent to a woman, she sits and mentally corrects all of the messages errors. Which is what some women have told me they do.

Or if a guy contacts a lady and the only thing he says is 'hows u babes'. He contacts her then says nothing, expecting her to then sort of take the lead or the mails will just fizzle out: chats end and the potential to meet is ended. "

Yep, some messages may have spelling errors, but we shouldn't assume that's down to someone being uneducated.

Some folks are dyslexic...their message would therefore not be a reliable indicator of either intelligence or education

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely intelligence comes in numerous guises....or is the Op requesting contact from only academically successful women?

And how does the OP determine the level of "intelligence"...

There is a certain irony about his post......which given his level of intelligence I'm sure he'll get...

Would Marilyn Munro pass his intelligence test I wonder...

"

Marilyn Monro (or Monroe to spell her name correctly) is often mentioned when I have made similar posts. Yes, she often played the role of a dumb blond in her films, but her own personal library at home contained a great deal of classic literature which was full of hand written markings. And her walls were full of original art works.

Although she didn't really get the opportunity, much, she was still able to perform these difficult roles, from memory, on stage. I would say anyone who could read that, understand it, and then perform it from memory was clever. Being brought up in an orphanage, she was the American dream. She didn't rely on the bank of mum and dad to fund opportunities for her. So yes, she would pass my test, not that I have one.

Not to mention the fact that she was still able to argue with her playwright husband, Arthur Miller, and to challenge him.

I'm sure there has been lots of beautiful who have not made a living from their looks, but she did have some drive and ambition to become the highest paid actress in the world.

Anyway, it's all fairly superfluous as she isn't on here.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

can see where ops coming from . I have to have a mental connection before any physical connection even considered. stimulating a woman's mind is sadly over looked .a guy doesn't have to be a university graduate but I do want someone who can hold an interesting conversation as well as there being a physical attraction . have had some very aesthetically pleasing guy mail but conversation skills were limited to "id fuck you all night " and "bet I can smash your back doors in " . needless to say left me cold ! lol !

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Id be happy if the guys that mailed me had more than half a brain cell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, any intelligent women want to look at more profile and send a message, please.

"

No thanks but good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is someone taking the piss here

Nope. Not that I am saying you are, or anyone else is, but I imagine some women do not like speaking to Neanderthals and guys who use text speak and who cannot string a sentence together. Or if a message is sent to a woman, she sits and mentally corrects all of the messages errors. Which is what some women have told me they do.

Or if a guy contacts a lady and the only thing he says is 'hows u babes'. He contacts her then says nothing, expecting her to then sort of take the lead or the mails will just fizzle out: chats end and the potential to meet is ended.

So you would meet Ann Widdecombe socially over Cheryl Cole?"

Yes, if Ann was the same age as Cheryl, I would. Nothing against Mrs Cole, but she is a bit too thin for me. I've rarely been attracted to the Anorexia look. I'd always be worried in case she breaks.

Ann was an Oxford graduate, in Latin. I'm sure she would be more interesting, than chatting over the lyrics to some of Mrs Cole's songs 'Yeah yeah yeah we gotta fight fight fight for this love'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I remind op that anorexica is a serious disease and should not be joked about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can see where ops coming from . I have to have a mental connection before any physical connection even considered. stimulating a woman's mind is sadly over looked .a guy doesn't have to be a university graduate but I do want someone who can hold an interesting conversation as well as there being a physical attraction . have had some very aesthetically pleasing guy mail but conversation skills were limited to "id fuck you all night " and "bet I can smash your back doors in " . needless to say left me cold ! lol ! "

Thank you.

I will admit, there's nothing wrong will great sex, at times, with someone who still looks great.

Maybe a mind, and how someone behaves, MIGHT appeal to some women. I mean, someone genuine, and who doesn't use flowerly language to be someone he is not or to try and tell a woman what she might want to hear.

Sometimes, maybe not always, but sex can be better if it's with someone I like. A mind can help.

Some women I know have left here. If I really struggled to communicate with them, there is no way they would be interested in keeping in touch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"May I remind op that anorexica is a serious disease and should not be joked about "

You do not have to remind me about anything, I was not joking about anything. I see nothing wrong with me saying that women who are too thin are not my type. And if they are too thin, I would be worried and could not relax, should they get injured.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, any intelligent women want to look at more profile and send a message, please.

No thanks but good luck "

Cool, good luck to you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can see where ops coming from . I have to have a mental connection before any physical connection even considered. stimulating a woman's mind is sadly over looked .a guy doesn't have to be a university graduate but I do want someone who can hold an interesting conversation as well as there being a physical attraction . have had some very aesthetically pleasing guy mail but conversation skills were limited to "id fuck you all night " and "bet I can smash your back doors in " . needless to say left me cold ! lol !

Thank you.

I will admit, there's nothing wrong will great sex, at times, with someone who still looks great.

Maybe a mind, and how someone behaves, MIGHT appeal to some women. I mean, someone genuine, and who doesn't use flowerly language to be someone he is not or to try and tell a woman what she might want to hear.

Sometimes, maybe not always, but sex can be better if it's with someone I like. A mind can help.

Some women I know have left here. If I really struggled to communicate with them, there is no way they would be interested in keeping in touch. "
May I ask if they do keep in touch as u say why are u looking for others , why not just keep chatting and whatever else u do way them , that sounds rather intelligent in my book but there again I meant not be intelligent enough to have thought off that on my own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely intelligence comes in numerous guises....or is the Op requesting contact from only academically successful women?

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I'm certainly not requesting, or would want only academically women.

I never used the word 'academically' on my profile or in my posting. I am aware that it's often people who are supported by their parents and given opportunities that are able to achieve things academically. (And before anyone says anything, I know there are exceptions) People's social circumstances can be a real barrier with education.

I'd never judge anyone. Someone could be self taught and have no qualifications, while someone who has been highly educated has not read a book since they graduated.

As I say on my profile, I do look at the person holistically. Besides, it's not just smart women, but nice decent women too.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

fuck this.. im too thick to even read the forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 8 but in no way does that make me anorexic just like some larger women can't lose weight some of us skinnier 1s can't put it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" May I ask if they do keep in touch as u say why are u looking for others , why not just keep chatting and whatever else u do way them , that sounds rather intelligent in my book but there again I meant not be intelligent enough to have thought off that on my own "

Why not look for more ladies?

To do what you suggest is a bit like me saying 'I've enough contacts etc now, I do not need any more'.

Or for me to say to you, you have an x number of meets now, so you should leave fab as you have had that quota.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a discerning man... Makes a big change from guys on here who fire mail at anything they think has at least a 10% chance of having tits and a vagina.

Hope you find what you are seeking, Mr G... X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a size 8 but in no way does that make me anorexic just like some larger women can't lose weight some of us skinnier 1s can't put it on "

Cool, good on you. Just be happy with who you are! You look great to me! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a discerning man... Makes a big change from guys on here who fire mail at anything they think has at least a 10% chance of having tits and a vagina.

Hope you find what you are seeking, Mr G... X"

Thank you. When you mentioned mail from guys, I bet you can tell, all the guys who have mailed you with a cut and paste mail, and it all has no relevance to your own profile. And you can tell that they have not read your profile, any of it, before they have mailed you. hehe

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I'm a size 8 but in no way does that make me anorexic just like some larger women can't lose weight some of us skinnier 1s can't put it on "

well said lass, I am a size 6 and can't put weight back on for love nor money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and I bet you get people saying you need to put weight on I get that all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr G.....Good luck...

There are plenty women here be happy with what you are asking.....

ok, im being a weeeeeee bit cynical here, and if every single guy on fab in scotland did this in forums, ohhhhh guess how exccccccccccciting clicking on forums would be? "

Doesn't sound like a bad thing to me, if it would get more people to join in on the forums.

How likely is it that every guy in Scotland, would want an intelligent women? Even if they got one, would they be able to deal with her?

You say you are a wee bit cynical. Now it's my turn to be a wee bit cynical too - and I'm not having a go at anyone - my posting was about intelligent and/or nice women. Maybe if I had more confidence that there was more intelligent men on fab, I could also have added men of intelligence wanted too.

Although there are some great men on fab, if I had more confidence that there were more intelligent men out there, and if there was would want to speak to me, then I would have added 'men' in the posting.

Just now, I have a single guy filter on, so I will not get mail from any men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not the only one, I definitely look for people who can stimulate my mind as well as my body "

Kind of funny, that it's mostly the women who are agreeing with me while the men are questioning my views!

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..


"well said lass, I am a size 6 and can't put weight back on for love nor money "

you missing them tynie pies ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My profile probably goes against the grain a bit, at least for just now anyway, since I don't have any pics of my cock taken beside a tv remote or deodorant, and with no public pics on display (I've private pics).

What I am looking for, just now, is mainly to get to know and chat to intelligent women and/or women who are decent. Not necessarily to always want to have sex 24/7 or pressure them for meets every time they are online.

My contacts with intelligent females is the thing that I most value from fab.

If I'm sitting this time next year with at least one more intelligent women on my friend's list, I'll view my time on here as worthwhile.

So, any intelligent women want to look at more profile and send a message, please.

Nice nice,, you dont want to pressure anyone, whilst all at the same time you feel pressured enough to highlight your profile on here? Or am i reading it wrong,,,, "

Nope, I do not feel pressured about anything. I do not see myself as highlighting my profile.

My posting here doesn't have a one liner like, 'Girls I'm here, check out my profile'. Or 'I'm new and need some advice, what would you suggest on my profile'.

I think what I am looking for, is maybe a bit rare. on here. Certainly I've not seen a similar posting.

I see nothing wrong with my posting and forwarding any ladies to read more information about me on my profile.

My posting was a particular

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Where does 1 find these "intellegent ladies"

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

And do they like to talk durty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Nice nice,, you dont want to pressure anyone, whilst all at the same time you feel pressured enough to highlight your profile on here? Or am i reading it wrong,,,, "

ps, maybe some women on here get enough mail to deal with, and enough offers, for them not to then go looking or making the first move.

I have maybe highlighted something on here rather than myself sending 100s of messages to women, who might not be looking for what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile probably goes against the grain a bit, at least for just now anyway, since I don't have any pics of my cock taken beside a tv remote or deodorant, and with no public pics on display (I've private pics).

What I am looking for, just now, is mainly to get to know and chat to intelligent women and/or women who are decent. Not necessarily to always want to have sex 24/7 or pressure them for meets every time they are online.

My contacts with intelligent females is the thing that I most value from fab.

If I'm sitting this time next year with at least one more intelligent women on my friend's list, I'll view my time on here as worthwhile.

So, any intelligent women want to look at more profile and send a message, please.

Nice nice,, you dont want to pressure anyone, whilst all at the same time you feel pressured enough to highlight your profile on here? Or am i reading it wrong,,,,

Nope, I do not feel pressured about anything. I do not see myself as highlighting my profile.

My posting here doesn't have a one liner like, 'Girls I'm here, check out my profile'. Or 'I'm new and need some advice, what would you suggest on my profile'.

I think what I am looking for, is maybe a bit rare. on here. Certainly I've not seen a similar posting.

I see nothing wrong with my posting and forwarding any ladies to read more information about me on my profile.

My posting was a particular "
ok, cool, not due to a lack of interest you thought posting this up may help, more because what you seek is rare compared to most?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" ok, cool, not due to a lack of interest you thought posting this up may help, more because what you seek is rare compared to most?"

I think you are maybe reading into this too much.

I'd just like more intelligent and/or decent female contacts, so I made a posting for it. Simple.

As for 'lack or interest' etc: I cannot comment on that as it would involve me disclosing information on my mailbox, which I view as no one else's business.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Are intellegent women better in bed or do they have bigger tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ok, cool, not due to a lack of interest you thought posting this up may help, more because what you seek is rare compared to most?

I think you are maybe reading into this too much.

I'd just like more intelligent and/or decent female contacts, so I made a posting for it. Simple.

As for 'lack or interest' etc: I cannot comment on that as it would involve me disclosing information on my mailbox, which I view as no one else's business.

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Well good luck with it, not sure how one recognises/pinpoints an up in intelligence using the site.

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"Are intellegent women better in bed or do they have bigger tits "

ive got both darling pmsl xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Just as well I dont go for "intelligence" really....

Id be a dried up prune by now

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Are intellegent women better in bed or do they have bigger tits "

I am and I do ....pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, yes we are and yes we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are intellegent women better in bed or do they have bigger tits

ive got both darling pmsl xxxxxxxxxxxxx"

Sits _1cebren4u doon in the mastermind chair. And your specialised subject is?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I have no interest in how intelligent someone is....

Can they talk properly? Got a great SOH?

TYPE properly? Make me laugh? (thats important)....am I attracted to his looks?

That will do me....and im a fussy bitch!!!

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"and im a fussy bitch!!! "

Really?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"and im a fussy bitch!!!

Really? "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"and im a fussy bitch!!!

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Aww ffs just my luck

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"and im a fussy bitch!!!

Aww ffs just my luck "

Dont worry...il drop my standards one of these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no interest in how intelligent someone is....

Can they talk properly? Got a great SOH?

TYPE properly? Make me laugh? (thats important)....am I attracted to his looks?

That will do me....and im a fussy bitch!!! "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And do they like to talk durty "

Some of the intelligent ladies can be filthier...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no interest in how intelligent someone is....

Can they talk properly? Got a great SOH?

TYPE properly? Make me laugh? (thats important)....am I attracted to his looks?

That will do me....and im a fussy bitch!!! "

I'm with you on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???"

I want to see a degree, at least.

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"Are intellegent women better in bed or do they have bigger tits

ive got both darling pmsl xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sits _1cebren4u doon in the mastermind chair. And your specialised subject is?"

Lets see i have many

1 working on above and below very posh cars .

2 Bookeeper OCR

3 Medical Admin diploma

4 A good artist with my hands and mouth and my lady parts.

is that enough qualities

???

pmsl here cheers tony but all is true lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is someone taking the piss here

Nope. Not that I am saying you are, or anyone else is, but I imagine some women do not like speaking to Neanderthals and guys who use text speak and who cannot string a sentence together. Or if a message is sent to a woman, she sits and mentally corrects all of the messages errors. Which is what some women have told me they do.

Or if a guy contacts a lady and the only thing he says is 'hows u babes'. He contacts her then says nothing, expecting her to then sort of take the lead or the mails will just fizzle out: chats end and the potential to meet is ended.

Yep, some messages may have spelling errors, but we shouldn't assume that's down to someone being uneducated.

Some folks are dyslexic...their message would therefore not be a reliable indicator of either intelligence or education "

Point taken, for me I don't assume anything. Some messages can have spelling errors, while some messages can be nothing but spelling errors or full of text speak.

Messages can only be small part of it and some people can read between the lines and get a sense of someone's character by what they say on their profile, the company they keep or how they interact with me and others in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Would Marilyn Munro pass his intelligence test I wonder...

Marilyn Monroe ... Is she no deed?

And she would still outdo some on here "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id be happy if the guys that mailed me had more than half a brain cell "

Exactly, I can imagine what it must be like for some women and the mail they get from some men. It might be draining at times, but after a while I imagine it becomes easier to keep a dignified silence and delete. Not to be very polite and take the time to answer or argue, but just ignore.

It must be beneficial to just delete mail without reading it, by seeing who it comes from or not answering it, and not feeling guilty about it. No point starting or continuing an argument with some people. Just ignore them and ignore their mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

I want to see a degree, at least. "

ok, 45 degree's. 90 degree's or 180 degree's?????

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

I want to see a degree, at least.

ok, 45 degree's. 90 degree's or 180 degree's????? "

How far do they open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

I want to see a degree, at least.

ok, 45 degree's. 90 degree's or 180 degree's?????

How far do they open "

far enough lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

I want to see a degree, at least.

ok, 45 degree's. 90 degree's or 180 degree's????? "

Diana Ross and the Three Degrees, sound good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear that removes me from applying as im too thick, don't know nothing, cant strike a conversation ill leave to all the intelligent ones to apply pmsl "

Aww Bren. Don't put yourself down.

You CAN hold a conversation....

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

I want to see a degree, at least.

ok, 45 degree's. 90 degree's or 180 degree's?????

Diana Ross and the Three Degrees, sound good to me! "

It was Diana Ross and the Supremes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do we need to sit some sort of test, or provide certificates???

I want to see a degree, at least.

ok, 45 degree's. 90 degree's or 180 degree's?????

Diana Ross and the Three Degrees, sound good to me!

It was Diana Ross and the Supremes "

I never said it wasn't the name of a band , just that they sounded good.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Its nice to see a man who actually wants some intelligence along with his fun, have said since day one on this site , if u cannot stimulate my mind you have no chance of stimulating my body.

Finding men on here who can say more than hi is very hard , so not having a lot of success on the intelligence front doesnt surprise me , but then maybe we should go on the mensa site and ask if anyone there wants to shag lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its nice to see a man who actually wants some intelligence along with his fun, have said since day one on this site , if u cannot stimulate my mind you have no chance of stimulating my body.

Finding men on here who can say more than hi is very hard , so not having a lot of success on the intelligence front doesnt surprise me , but then maybe we should go on the mensa site and ask if anyone there wants to shag lol "

Thank you! It's nice to see another lady in some agreement, while it's still mainly the men who seem lost, or not taken my post seriously (which doesn't surprise me)

I've seen on some female's profiles, something like, I like intelligent men etc. Is it that unusual for a guy to look for the same thing in a woman, or to want a women for her and not just sex (or a fuck hole). Or to actually want to chat to a woman and not pester her for meets every time she is online.

I would like to think too that if I am not a particular woman's type sexually, we could maybe still have chats, an online friendship or maybe even a real friendship or fun.

I think as well some meaning has been misinterpreted by my thoughts on 'intelligence' with people thinking it's only qualified people that I want to know, when nothing further could be truth.

I certainly would never ever judge anyone on their job, or if they didn't have a job.

Some women jump on and off here while some others are in it for the long haul. Might it be something a bit different that I'm interested in and for those women who get messages like 'Im fuckin gonna destroy your pussy and get u to open your mouth so u can take my hot load down your slutty throat and make u gag bitch', might want an alternative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love intelligence amongst a womans qualities...being specific..clued up...street wise..sharp witty women too...but i just dont clinically specify it via a forum ask or add it to my profile because a big part of the fun is finding that out when you chat/meet usually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i love intelligence amongst a womans qualities...being specific..clued up...street wise..sharp witty women too...but i just dont clinically specify it via a forum ask or add it to my profile because a big part of the fun is finding that out when you chat/meet usually."

ok, cool, if you don't do it in the forum and it works for you not to, I'm pleased for you. Some of us here maybe look for different things from time to time and have different ways going about looking for what we like.

When you say 'clued up...street wise..sharp witty', it almost puts me in mind of some women (and men) who just do nothing but criticize or judge others, especially individuals that they have not met. That might not be your intention, that's just what the word choice puts me in mind of.

Intelligence is certainly not the only quality I look for, and it comes in many forms. But if it is there, it can be a bonus. And part of the fun is meeting new people, but it does help as well, if there is some common attraction or having things in common to avoid awkward moments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ps, just out of interest, I wonder if an attractive woman was to come onto the forums and say 'I like smart men, anyone around?', I think some of the guys, and some of the guys who usually cannot string a sentence together, might be going out of their way to try and impress her.

Or if a woman was to say on her profile 'I'm tired of dealing idiots, from now on I'd like smart men', her wishes would be ignored and idiots would still write to her anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have fun with a guy than have to impress him with brains which btw I have but I choose when to use them and that certainly aint gonna be when in bed

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"ps, just out of interest, I wonder if an attractive woman was to come onto the forums and say 'I like smart men, anyone around?', I think some of the guys, and some of the guys who usually cannot string a sentence together, might be going out of their way to try and impress her"

If a fugly woman was to come on and say "i like smart men" anyone around, do you think the responses would be because of her looks or intelligence or because she had a pussy the same as the attractive woman ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well when alls said and done its a swinging site not mastermind

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Well when alls said and done its a swinging site not mastermind "

If she's nice looking and manages to go omph ah yes harder that will dae me along with her being a cheeky bassa as that appeals to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ps, just out of interest, I wonder if an attractive woman was to come onto the forums and say 'I like smart men, anyone around?', I think some of the guys, and some of the guys who usually cannot string a sentence together, might be going out of their way to try and impress her

If a fugly woman was to come on and say "i like smart men" anyone around, do you think the responses would be because of her looks or intelligence or because she had a pussy the same as the attractive woman ?"

I'd rather not comment if there was an 'ugly' women: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If I was to see a woman who was less than a conventional beauty, I would like to think I wouldn't think: she's ugly, what a dog. I would try and see something I liked in her.

I think we both know how other guys would react though, so I do not wish to say, or put words into their mouths, as I can see some people are doing that with me in other posts.

I think I would probably contact her before the Neanderthals put her off and she left the site, or I might just leave it, if there was enough mental toughness in her profile, knowing that if she was really smart, then our profiles would gravitate towards each other eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when alls said and done its a swinging site not mastermind

If she's nice looking and manages to go omph ah yes harder that will dae me along with her being a cheeky bassa as that appeals to me "
that made me chuckle pp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd rather have fun with a guy than have to impress him with brains which btw I have but I choose when to use them and that certainly aint gonna be when in bed "

Cool if that works for you. And yes, the site isn't mastermind (which incidentally, I applied for once). I enjoy the social aspect to it and chatting to women outside the bedroom: phone and text, so a mind can help. But if it's just purely sex, and only sex, then it doesn't matter.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"If she's nice looking and manages to go omph ah yes harder that will dae me along with her being a cheeky bassa as that appeals to me "


"that made me chuckle pp "

You tick all the above boxes then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying just sex there has to be some sort of connection but I spent a lot of years being serious when my kids were growing up now I want fun and btw I'm in mensa

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I do like men to be witty and able to hold a conversation .... But I can't stand judgemental ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ps, just out of interest, I wonder if an attractive woman was to come onto the forums and say 'I like smart men, anyone around?', I think some of the guys, and some of the guys who usually cannot string a sentence together, might be going out of their way to try and impress her

If a fugly woman was to come on and say "i like smart men" anyone around, do you think the responses would be because of her looks or intelligence or because she had a pussy the same as the attractive woman ?

I'd rather not comment if there was an 'ugly' women: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If I was to see a woman who was less than a conventional beauty, I would like to think I wouldn't think: she's ugly, what a dog. I would try and see something I liked in her.

I think we both know how other guys would react though, so I do not wish to say, or put words into their mouths, as I can see some people are doing that with me in other posts.

I think I would probably contact her before the Neanderthals put her off and she left the site, or I might just leave it, if there was enough mental toughness in her profile, knowing that if she was really smart, then our profiles would gravitate towards each other eventually. "

Sorry but i do, now see a pattern to what you say. Verging on patronising/condescending towards any other males that simply are on here swinging, we "all do this and that,which makes you look bad" etc, you want you chance of a wee bit swinging success on here, yes?

But, it certainly reads as if your daring to suggest a big percentage of women,,,wont qualify, are'nt of the correct outlook, have the suitable ideal of swinging that matches yours which is possible. And your free to say all that. But it too is dangerously reading, patronising and condescending.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Sorry but i do, now see a pattern to what you say. Verging on patronising/condescending towards any other males that simply are on here swinging, we "all do this and that,which makes you look bad" etc, you want you chance of a wee bit swinging success on here, yes?

But, it certainly reads as if your daring to suggest a big percentage of women,,,wont qualify, are'nt of the correct outlook, have the suitable ideal of swinging that matches yours which is possible. And your free to say all that. But it too is dangerously reading, patronising and condescending.

"

You are perfectly free to interpret anything I say and to draw your own conclusions from it. I think fortunately, for me, women, of the right mindset, are able to come to a different conclusion.

I would also add that one reason why I have my verifications hidden is because I don't give a f*ck what anyone thinks of me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Sorry but i do, now see a pattern to what you say. Verging on patronising/condescending towards any other males that simply are on here swinging, we "all do this and that,which makes you look bad" etc, you want you chance of a wee bit swinging success on here, yes?

"

Another thing as well, a couple of weeks ago I thought you were getting a hard time in the forum. I broke my filter to write to you to ask if you were ok, then I made a posting within the same posting to support what u said. And you know we haven't met. I was perfectly happy to write to a stranger, then publicly support him.

Given that I did that, I dont see how you can then turn around and say I'm condescending to other males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thhanks..but i was' nt rallying for any kind of support..most likely explaining a situation that struck a chord with you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry but i do, now see a pattern to what you say. Verging on patronising/condescending towards any other males that simply are on here swinging, we "all do this and that,which makes you look bad" etc, you want you chance of a wee bit swinging success on here, yes?

But, it certainly reads as if your daring to suggest a big percentage of women,,,wont qualify, are'nt of the correct outlook, have the suitable ideal of swinging that matches yours which is possible. And your free to say all that. But it too is dangerously reading, patronising and condescending.

You are perfectly free to interpret anything I say and to draw your own conclusions from it. I think fortunately, for me, women, of the right mindset, are able to come to a different conclusion.

I would also add that one reason why I have my verifications hidden is because I don't give a f*ck what anyone thinks of me. "
I have a variety of possible reasons for verifications hidden by anyone, not just yourself, one of them being the contrary that they very do give a f*ck,

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Having been in initial agreement with your original post, you've kept talking and come across as a bit of a smart arse. A quality way less attractive than any text speak

Having looked at this thread I think that women do want a level of intelligence as a way to stimulate interest. A dull, self-opinionated bore isn't interesting.

You're approach of undermining the single guys might work for some but as a long term strategy it's not destined for success.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Having been in initial agreement with your original post, you've kept talking and come across as a bit of a smart arse. A quality way less attractive than any text speak

Having looked at this thread I think that women do want a level of intelligence as a way to stimulate interest. A dull, self-opinionated bore isn't interesting.

You're approach of undermining the single guys might work for some but as a long term strategy it's not destined for success. "

Oh and what Aston said too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically. "

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental.."

Never have I used the word 'only', but I have gone out of my way to explain why or to desire other things. You either have missed it or not understood.

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental..

First did i say you did mention the word only perhaps you didnt read my post correctly as i did state WHY DONT YOU PUT ON YOUR HEADER (ONLY INTELLIGENT WOMEN CONTACT ME)

Never have I used the word 'only', but I have gone out of my way to explain why or to desire other things. You either have missed it or not understood. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having been in initial agreement with your original post, you've kept talking and come across as a bit of a smart arse. A quality way less attractive than any text speak

Having looked at this thread I think that women do want a level of intelligence as a way to stimulate interest. A dull, self-opinionated bore isn't interesting.

You're approach of undermining the single guys might work for some but as a long term strategy it's not destined for success. "

Cool, I think this is just the case if you cannot beat me in an arguement then you need to resort to trying to attack me personally.

Only in the forums could it happen, that a single guy might be interested in a decent woman with a mind that he would be attacked for it.

Nevertheless, I am still confident that some woman would be able to read, and understand my desire. Rather than going by what others have tried to say for me by putting words into my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I said before I would rather a man could make me laugh and have fun than try and impress me with how intelligent he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental..

Never have I used the word 'only', but I have gone out of my way to explain why or to desire other things. You either have missed it or not understood.

"

I have neither missed or not understood. It is irrelevant whether or not you used the word "only".....by seeking "intelligent" women you are being judgemental. So don't claim be otherwise. You have a judgmental attitude in almost every post most strikingly when you call the men on here "neanderthal". You are also judging yourself to be superior to most of the males on here. You are trying to set yourself apart from them. All judgmental traits...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental..

Never have I used the word 'only', but I have gone out of my way to explain why or to desire other things. You either have missed it or not understood.

I have neither missed or not understood. It is irrelevant whether or not you used the word "only".....by seeking "intelligent" women you are being judgemental. So don't claim be otherwise. You have a judgmental attitude in almost every post most strikingly when you call the men on here "neanderthal". You are also judging yourself to be superior to most of the males on here. You are trying to set yourself apart from them. All judgmental traits... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental..

Never have I used the word 'only', but I have gone out of my way to explain why or to desire other things. You either have missed it or not understood.

I have neither missed or not understood. It is irrelevant whether or not you used the word "only".....by seeking "intelligent" women you are being judgemental. So don't claim be otherwise. You have a judgmental attitude in almost every post most strikingly when you call the men on here "neanderthal". You are also judging yourself to be superior to most of the males on here. You are trying to set yourself apart from them. All judgmental traits... "

You said it's irrevelant whether I used the word 'only'. I think it does matter. That word can change the whole meaning of things. Please do not misquote me, again.

Does anyone really think that if I get a message from any women, the first thing I'd think about or be concerned about is that if this one is intelligent or not.

Maybe if the word, Neanderthal, had not been said to me, so often, by women, privately, I might not have used it here.

I think I may have said probably enough, on this, with you, and if my desires fall on deaf ears, not understood or misinterpreted then there is little point in me trying to convince you otherwise. I would like to try and keep a dignified, silence, with you, so I'm asking you kindly not to put words into my mouth so I do not have to jump back on and say something. We have both made our opinions clear enough. I am here for various reasons, but one of them is not to repeat myself or get into protracted quarrels.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Its nice to see a man who actually wants some intelligence along with his fun, have said since day one on this site , if u cannot stimulate my mind you have no chance of stimulating my body.

Finding men on here who can say more than hi is very hard , so not having a lot of success on the intelligence front doesnt surprise me , but then maybe we should go on the mensa site and ask if anyone there wants to shag lol

Thank you! It's nice to see another lady in some agreement, while it's still mainly the men who seem lost, or not taken my post seriously (which doesn't surprise me)

I've seen on some female's profiles, something like, I like intelligent men etc. Is it that unusual for a guy to look for the same thing in a woman.

"

No, it isn't unusual....but as you can see you will get a totaly different reaction to what you are saying than if you were a woman starting this thread.

I really don't understand why it is ok for many women or couples to start threads like these and not get the defensive reaction that is on this thread.

We like NSA sex, but we have to be able to get on with the person for the chat inbetween the play, so for us yes intelligence comes into it and we are not looking for people who can't string a sentance together or dare I say it no class.

What other people use the forum to highlight is up to them you using the forum to highlight what you are after is fine too.

What I would say though, at times these type of OP ( from women and couples too ) can come across as condesending if people keep talking about the "lesser" male who doesn't know how to converse....maybe if you concentrated on what you have to offer rather than what others don't it might come across better.

Ok now a question.....is there anyone on this thread who likes to meet people who can't converse with you / stimulate your mind ( as often been said by single women before now ) ?

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"I've no time for judgmental people: men or women, and I have said several times, how I do not judge - and look at things holistically.

Ironic. Says he has no time for judgemental people....but he himself only seeks "intelligent women".....What is that but judgemental..

Never have I used the word 'only', but I have gone out of my way to explain why or to desire other things. You either have missed it or not understood.

I have neither missed or not understood. It is irrelevant whether or not you used the word "only".....by seeking "intelligent" women you are being judgemental. So don't claim be otherwise. You have a judgmental attitude in almost every post most strikingly when you call the men on here "neanderthal". You are also judging yourself to be superior to most of the males on here. You are trying to set yourself apart from them. All judgmental traits...

You said it's irrevelant whether I used the word 'only'. I think it does matter. That word can change the whole meaning of things. Please do not misquote me, again.

Does anyone really think that if I get a message from any women, the first thing I'd think about or be concerned about is that if this one is intelligent or not.

Maybe if the word, Neanderthal, had not been said to me, so often, by women, privately, I might not have used it here.

I think I may have said probably enough, on this, with you, and if my desires fall on deaf ears, not understood or misinterpreted then there is little point in me trying to convince you otherwise. I would like to try and keep a dignified, silence, with you, so I'm asking you kindly not to put words into my mouth so I do not have to jump back on and say something. We have both made our opinions clear enough. I am here for various reasons, but one of them is not to repeat myself or get into protracted quarrels. "

Okay lets be pedantic. Words ending in "ly" are known as weak adverbs and in almost all cases are irrelevant. They can be omitted from the sentence with out affecting the meaning. See William Shrink Jrn The Element of Style or Stephen King On Writing. What is the difference between saying I only seek intelligent women...and I seek intelligent women. The implication is the same.

And secondly yes I do think the first thing you think is are they intelligent or not. You judge that by the style, grammer and content of message. That is obvious from your postings.

Thirdly you have been repeating yourself on this post since day one.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS another question.....how many women have complained about nethanderal ( insert whochever word word you use to describe them )men before now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like boobies LOL.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"PS another question.....how many women have complained about nethanderal ( insert whochever word word you use to describe them )men before now?

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I know this isnt an answer but

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Ok now a question.....is there anyone on this thread who likes to meet people who can't converse with you / stimulate your mind ( as often been said by single women before now ) ?"

Nope

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

oppss that should have been whichever

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over a year ago

I think that some men can sound stupid. A ned type voice like Plunge McNugget will send me running for the hills before I even assess brain skill, regardless how handsome or bright he may be.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I think that some men can sound stupid. A ned type voice like Plunge McNugget will send me running for the hills before I even assess brain skill, regardless how handsome or bright he may be."
awright doll ah heard you like it rough so lets go check out that roughcasting down the lane seriously woman and intelligence a dangerous mix

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over a year ago


"I think that some men can sound stupid. A ned type voice like Plunge McNugget will send me running for the hills before I even assess brain skill, regardless how handsome or bright he may be.awright doll ah heard you like it rough so lets go check out that roughcasting down the lane seriously woman and intelligence a dangerous mix "

You smooth talker. You gonnae smash am back doors in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS another question.....how many women have complained about nethanderal ( insert whochever word word you use to describe them )men before now?

"

I have! Neanderthal about sums it up sometimes. Between first contact messages saying "hi willing to meet, when do you want me to come over and fill up your slut ass" (oh, right now, I shall just give you my address!) and nasty messages saying I'm too fat or ugly to be picky about who I meet, it can get a bit tiresome on here and I get a little jaded at times, and I have said this to the OP in the past. However, the good ones wind up tipping the scale in favour of the site, however few and far between they may be!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"PS another question.....how many women have complained about nethanderal ( insert whochever word word you use to describe them )men before now?

I have! Neanderthal about sums it up sometimes. Between first contact messages saying "hi willing to meet, when do you want me to come over and fill up your slut ass" (oh, right now, I shall just give you my address!) and nasty messages saying I'm too fat or ugly to be picky about who I meet, it can get a bit tiresome on here and I get a little jaded at times, and I have said this to the OP in the past. However, the good ones wind up tipping the scale in favour of the site, however few and far between they may be! "

That was her point

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"No, it isn't unusual....but as you can see you will get a totaly different reaction to what you are saying than if you were a woman starting this thread.

I really don't understand why it is ok for many women or couples to start threads like these and not get the defensive reaction that is on this thread.

We like NSA sex, but we have to be able to get on with the person for the chat inbetween the play, so for us yes intelligence comes into it and we are not looking for people who can't string a sentance together or dare I say it no class.

What other people use the forum to highlight is up to them you using the forum to highlight what you are after is fine too.

What I would say though, at times these type of OP ( from women and couples too ) can come across as condesending if people keep talking about the "lesser" male who doesn't know how to converse....maybe if you concentrated on what you have to offer rather than what others don't it might come across better.

Ok now a question.....is there anyone on this thread who likes to meet people who can't converse with you / stimulate your mind ( as often been said by single women before now ) ?"

Well fuck me gently just witnessed the first semi intelligent post in years ruggers, note i said semi

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over a year ago

Give the guy a break. He has stated what he wants...some of you agree and all other factors being equal might be interested in meeting him. Some of you don't; so almost certainly wouldn't meet him. That is the point of the forums. Be has successfully added a dimension to his personality that you might not get from his profile. No one has any need to be offended by it.

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over a year ago


"PS another question.....how many women have complained about nethanderal ( insert whochever word word you use to describe them )men before now?

I have! Neanderthal about sums it up sometimes. Between first contact messages saying "hi willing to meet, when do you want me to come over and fill up your slut ass" (oh, right now, I shall just give you my address!) and nasty messages saying I'm too fat or ugly to be picky about who I meet, it can get a bit tiresome on here and I get a little jaded at times, and I have said this to the OP in the past. However, the good ones wind up tipping the scale in favour of the site, however few and far between they may be!

That was her point "

Woops, disregard old sleepy Kit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give the guy a break. He has stated what he wants...some of you agree and all other factors being equal might be interested in meeting him. Some of you don't; so almost certainly wouldn't meet him. That is the point of the forums. Be has successfully added a dimension to his personality that you might not get from his profile. No one has any need to be offended by it."

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Well fuck me gently just witnessed the first semi intelligent post in years ruggers, note i said semi "

A semi?? whats a semi any good for?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I think that some men can sound stupid. A ned type voice like Plunge McNugget will send me running for the hills before I even assess brain skill, regardless how handsome or bright he may be.awright doll ah heard you like it rough so lets go check out that roughcasting down the lane seriously woman and intelligence a dangerous mix

You smooth talker. You gonnae smash am back doors in? "
haw doll why use the back doors when the fronts got smooth hinges

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over a year ago

would be fine if just stated what he wanted....have a wee scroll thru....tends to say more than that...pretty sure im not imagining it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"would be fine if just stated what he wanted....have a wee scroll thru....tends to say more than that...pretty sure im not imagining it."

He is allowed to post what he wants as long as it is within rules....just like you.

If you don't like what some people post maybe ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that some men can sound stupid. A ned type voice like Plunge McNugget will send me running for the hills before I even assess brain skill, regardless how handsome or bright he may be.awright doll ah heard you like it rough so lets go check out that roughcasting down the lane seriously woman and intelligence a dangerous mix

You smooth talker. You gonnae smash am back doors in? haw doll why use the back doors when the fronts got smooth hinges "

Pmsl!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"A semi?? whats a semi any good for? "

I don't know if you can handle a big head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would be fine if just stated what he wanted....have a wee scroll thru....tends to say more than that...pretty sure im not imagining it.

He is allowed to post what he wants as long as it is within rules....just like you.

If you don't like what some people

post maybe ignore."
i more than like it..i luv it..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would be fine if just stated what he wanted....have a wee scroll thru....tends to say more than that...pretty sure im not imagining it.

He is allowed to post what he wants as long as it is within rules....just like you.

If you don't like what some people post maybe ignore."

Thank you!

You said you were cynical from the start, and have said nothing constructive, to me, throughout, but questioned my motives. Another one for a dignified silence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give the guy a break. He has stated what he wants...some of you agree and all other factors being equal might be interested in meeting him. Some of you don't; so almost certainly wouldn't meet him. That is the point of the forums. Be has successfully added a dimension to his personality that you might not get from his profile. No one has any need to be offended by it."

Thank you - I'll remember this, and hope to repay the favour sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to be selective, and that is why there is someone for everyone out there. Some people are just more open about than others. Fair play to starting the post. Has been an interesting read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" However, the good ones wind up tipping the scale in favour of the site, however few and far between they may be! "

Thank you - that works both ways, for men and women. There are times when I do not enjoy being on here, but I still stick with it because I don't know what's around the corner. I have met some great women. Without fab, I would never have met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would be fine if just stated what he wanted....have a wee scroll thru....tends to say more than that...pretty sure im not imagining it.

He is allowed to post what he wants as long as it is within rules....just like you.

If you don't like what some people post maybe ignore."
totally agree as long as the same respect is given to every1. And nothing slips under the radar

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over a year ago


"Everyone is entitled to be selective, and that is why there is someone for everyone out there. Some people are just more open about than others. Fair play to starting the post. Has been an interesting read. "

Thank you.

I don't expect everyone to like me, or agree with me, but politeness does have its place. Respecting other people's views and not carrying disagreements into future different postings in good.

I can talk like an idiot, and those of you who seen this profile when I first joined, and my first posting when I joined might remember that.

I can't help but think if I had made a nonsense type of posting, or flooded the forum with junk, I might have had a more favourable reception from some people.

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over a year ago

Constructive. ok, i likewise am selective...know what i like...enjoy being in the company of etc.

I also post with a regard for those potentially reading what i write...often eager to simply have a laugh, share a joke to try to convey i can be topical instead of swingingly typical as mentioned.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

I can talk like an idiot, and those of you who seen this profile when I first joined, and my first posting when I joined might remember that.

"

I remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love deep and meaningful chats, I love to ponder new ideas and thoughts...but if there's no cock pics?? then i'm outta here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love deep and meaningful chats, I love to ponder new ideas and thoughts...but if there's no cock pics?? then i'm outta here! "

but was it an intelligent photo... Black and white with a photoshopped red lipstick round the shaft... A sepia colour with glamis castle in the background. Or could you see his y fronts at his ankles a can of deodorant on one side and a sky remote on the other...?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" A sepia colour with glamis castle in the background. "

THIS one I want to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A sepia colour with glamis castle in the background.

THIS one I want to see "

i better get driving!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh dear that removes me from applying as im too thick, don't know nothing, cant strike a conversation ill leave to all the intelligent ones to apply pmsl "

You said it, not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only see from ur replies that most people who reply have disagreed with ur post and you dont seem to be taken it well sorry to say but it is giving me a good laugh on a boring dull day long may it continue ,

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over a year ago


"I can only see from ur replies that most people who reply have disagreed with ur post and you dont seem to be taken it well sorry to say but it is giving me a good laugh on a boring dull day long may it continue , "

You do not know what, if any, women have replied to me privately. I wish I had made this posting sooner, I've never had so many women writing to me, who do not wish to be caught up in the forums.

I think I have taken it well, by explaining things different to some people who have not understood or misquoted me. I've keep my dignity, been polite and not lost it, yet. And as for most not agreeing: quality over quantity.

Anyway, my posting is not to set up chats with you, so another one for a dignified silence.

Hope you continue to laugh. I'm laughing too at the feeble attempts of folk trying to have a go.

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

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My tuppence worth.

I think the negative responses maybe to do with the word intelligent.

Seems to me that to say you want intelligence in a person puts up a social barrier which people object to. The word brings to mind those cleaver people in school who were considered better because they could do the book stuff. If you intelligent you go on and learn stuff and get a good job and earn more money and marry better and have lots of better stuff and have a better life and are a better person.

I would say that most people don't identify with that but because society tells us that's what we should be/have when someone says "I'm intelligent and that's what I'm looking for" we see them as saying "I'm better than you"

Perhaps a better word would be stimulating, it doesn't have the attached under currents and would cover pretty much all aspects of what you are looking for.

Xx

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"I can only see from ur replies that most people who reply have disagreed with ur post and you dont seem to be taken it well sorry to say but it is giving me a good laugh on a boring dull day long may it continue ,

You do not know what, if any, women have replied to me privately. I wish I had made this posting sooner, I've never had so many women writing to me, who do not wish to be caught up in the forums.

I think I have taken it well, by explaining things different to some people who have not understood or misquoted me. I've keep my dignity, been polite and not lost it, yet. And as for most not agreeing: quality over quantity.

Anyway, my posting is not to set up chats with you, so another one for a dignified silence.

Hope you continue to laugh. I'm laughing too at the feeble attempts of folk trying to have a go. "

share the love Mr gemini...send these intelligent ladies my way!!!

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over a year ago


"

I can't help but think if I had made a nonsense type of posting, or flooded the forum with junk, I might have had a more favourable reception from some people. "

Oh you'd almost definitely get more attention, but at what cost?

Stay true to yourself, no matter how hard it may be lol, it is always worth the extra effort to meet people that you can converse with, if all you have in common is sex, then the meet can be very one dimensional, if you can add more truth and honesty about what you like and love to the sexual mix then you've got the recipe for a hot sexual encounter!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Wow!! why do some people get so defensive?? The OP stated what he was looking for and in his case intelligence. Everyone of us on here has an idea of what kind of people we are looking for, some thin, some tall, some black men only, some non smokers etc etc etc.

I cant understand why this gets peoples backs up... is it because they feel the OP is getting more "air-time" so to speak? is it because some people have "naff all else to do"? or A.N. other?

If you wouldn't put up a post like this that's cool but some people choose to, it doesn't meet you are right and they are wrong to do so it just means everyone has different ways in doing things.

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I can't help but think if I had made a nonsense type of posting, or flooded the forum with junk, I might have had a more favourable reception from some people.

Oh you'd almost definitely get more attention, but at what cost?

Stay true to yourself, no matter how hard it may be lol, it is always worth the extra effort to meet people that you can converse with, if all you have in common is sex, then the meet can be very one dimensional, if you can add more truth and honesty about what you like and love to the sexual mix then you've got the recipe for a hot sexual encounter! "

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over a year ago

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

People got offended at the "Intelligent" remark....

Im way to intelligent to be offended by it!!

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over a year ago


"People got offended at the "Intelligent" remark....

Im way to intelligent to be offended by it!!

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well said that woman , and in a post earlier there was an aword he could have used which still got his point across and never offended

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over a year ago


"Wow!! why do some people get so defensive?? The OP stated what he was looking for and in his case intelligence. Everyone of us on here has an idea of what kind of people we are looking for, some thin, some tall, some black men only, some non smokers etc etc etc.

I cant understand why this gets peoples backs up... is it because they feel the OP is getting more "air-time" so to speak? is it because some people have "naff all else to do"? or A.N. other?

If you wouldn't put up a post like this that's cool but some people choose to, it doesn't meet you are right and they are wrong to do so it just means everyone has different ways in doing things.

"

Thank you. Although I've never done it, I suppose it's easier to sit behind a screen and project abuse or sense what way the wind is blowing and join the bandwagon.

I'm appreciative that (another) woman unders_ands where I am coming from and is able to come out and say so.

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over a year ago


"

I can't help but think if I had made a nonsense type of posting, or flooded the forum with junk, I might have had a more favourable reception from some people.

Oh you'd almost definitely get more attention, but at what cost?

Stay true to yourself, no matter how hard it may be lol, it is always worth the extra effort to meet people that you can converse with, if all you have in common is sex, then the meet can be very one dimensional, if you can add more truth and honesty about what you like and love to the sexual mix then you've got the recipe for a hot sexual encounter! "

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over a year ago


"I can only see from ur replies that most people who reply have disagreed with ur post and you dont seem to be taken it well sorry to say but it is giving me a good laugh on a boring dull day long may it continue ,

You do not know what, if any, women have replied to me privately. I wish I had made this posting sooner, I've never had so many women writing to me, who do not wish to be caught up in the forums.

I think I have taken it well, by explaining things different to some people who have not understood or misquoted me. I've keep my dignity, been polite and not lost it, yet. And as for most not agreeing: quality over quantity.

Anyway, my posting is not to set up chats with you, so another one for a dignified silence.

Hope you continue to laugh. I'm laughing too at the feeble attempts of folk trying to have a go.

share the love Mr gemini...send these intelligent ladies my way!!!"

You never know, maybe one day. Not something I'd rush into sending women to you. You are taller than me, and seem fitter. They might not come back to me lol

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"I can only see from ur replies that most people who reply have disagreed with ur post and you dont seem to be taken it well sorry to say but it is giving me a good laugh on a boring dull day long may it continue ,

You do not know what, if any, women have replied to me privately. I wish I had made this posting sooner, I've never had so many women writing to me, who do not wish to be caught up in the forums.

I think I have taken it well, by explaining things different to some people who have not understood or misquoted me. I've keep my dignity, been polite and not lost it, yet. And as for most not agreeing: quality over quantity.

Anyway, my posting is not to set up chats with you, so another one for a dignified silence.

Hope you continue to laugh. I'm laughing too at the feeble attempts of folk trying to have a go.

share the love Mr gemini...send these intelligent ladies my way!!!

You never know, maybe one day. Not something I'd rush into sending women to you. You are taller than me, and seem fitter. They might not come back to me lol "

taller; fitter and more intelligent?

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over a year ago


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taller; fitter and more intelligent?"

More intelligent than who? Me? Yes, go on, I'll agree to that. I'll say you are more intelligent than me. I'm in a good mood. (And you are one of the few guys who has an idea of where I am coming from, so I'll bow to your better judgement)

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