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By *MRcdolt OP Man
over a year ago

The Hurlet (Barrhead)

Why are so many ladies leaving the site - or saying they are fed up with it - is it the men - let downs or what??

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone will have their own reasons for leaving.

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Its the men.

Lol just kidding. No idea but Im sure they have their reasons for leaving.

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

They're leaving because there aren't enough single men on the site, and too many pandas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just women but men too. I almost closed my account yesterday & not sure I'll be renewing my Membership/Site Support when it expires. The Jury's out on whether at that point I'll migrate elsewhere at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just women but men too. I almost closed my account yesterday & not sure I'll be renewing my Membership/Site Support when it expires. The Jury's out on whether at that point I'll migrate elsewhere at that point. "
likewise thinking in the same

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It really annoys me when good decent members feel the need to migrate because of the actions of the few.

However, that being said, I understand perfectly their reasons for doing so - even if I wish they would stay

If the site owners read this, I hope they try and rectify the situation before we lose too many of the people who make fab great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really annoys me when good decent members feel the need to migrate because of the actions of the few.

However, that being said, I understand perfectly their reasons for doing so - even if I wish they would stay

If the site owners read this, I hope they try and rectify the situation before we lose too many of the people who make fab great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'am hearing from some very good female friends i av on here saying a lot is to do with the constant hassle they get from males who dont take the hint , they swear they block them but they just go open another account under a different name and start all over again.

so i tend to see there point but as all have said everyone has there own reasons

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By *ussman1Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Without a shadow of doubt there is a growing number of time wasters.Guys I suspect who are only capable of sitting at home wanting and pretending to be part of a couple etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way. I'm not in a bad mood AT ALL.

I've just thought about the financial aspect & know other sites that I can get 6 free cams & the threads are a lot happier & full of banter as well as serious topics & discussions & both customers/users as well as the sites Background Support have a different approach.

So I've thought about it financially & it just makes financial sense, let alone a calmer atmosphere.

So if anyone is thinking I'm feeling sad, annoyed or upset - nope, far from it. It's just sad that a previously good site which I've (financially) supported for years in one Profile or another has come to make me think this way.

So the financial loss won't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just women who are leaving and the men are all to blame. Sometimes it works both ways, with women causing problems and the men are encouraged to leave.

It's true that lots of men cause some kind of problem, but it's often one problem, then it's dropped. Although there are exceptions.

Seriously, I've found that it's the women that are the most vicious and judgmental and do not let things go, often repeating themselves over and over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost quite last night but chose to hide my profile instead. Why? Because this week I've had an East Ayrshire guy arrange to meet then when I suggested a time simply didn't even bother to read the message then blocked me. I report him to admin as a timewaster and they do fuck all about it.

I then get a message from a little hobbit "U sound vile" I report him to admin and they do fuck all about it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

They're not winning Miss N. the reality is they're depleting the pool of folk that would go near them. So in reality they're LOSING as folk find other places to go. Which I have.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

Are people leaving in droves though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

Are people leaving in droves though?"

Judging by the amount of one line "Fancy A Fuck" mails I save to my Saved Mail" I'd say yes.

mao.

If however you mean financial supporters of the site. Meh, who knows? In this economic climate every organisation wants to see money coming in, not money going OUT.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

Are people leaving in droves though?

Judging by the amount of one line "Fancy A Fuck" mails I save to my Saved Mail" I'd say yes.

mao.

If however you mean financial supporters of the site. Meh, who knows? In this economic climate every organisation wants to see money coming in, not money going OUT.

Sorry you've lost me a bit here. I don't know what you mean by the mail you are getting and how that shows members leaving in droves.

I'm stumped lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

Are people leaving in droves though?

Judging by the amount of one line "Fancy A Fuck" mails I save to my Saved Mail" I'd say yes.

mao.

If however you mean financial supporters of the site. Meh, who knows? In this economic climate every organisation wants to see money coming in, not money going OUT.

Sorry you've lost me a bit here. I don't know what you mean by the mail you are getting and how that shows members leaving in droves.

I'm stumped lol"

Don't you get mail that asks "want a fuck" then you see within a few days "user no longer on site"? I've got tons of those. (Maybe folk think I need more fucks from folk that ain't long term members - dunno).

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah but they are always from people who joined the site a couple of days ago at most. They probably leave and join every other weekend. Don't think I've ever had it from long term members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but they are always from people who joined the site a couple of days ago at most. They probably leave and join every other weekend. Don't think I've ever had it from long term members."

Well speaking strictly for this long term site supporter of over 5 years in one guise or another I'm saying I am moving on - so it's not just women that get fed up with things & move on.

I can't really speak for the women the OP is referring to (not being a woman myself).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idiots and rude people are winning for sure while genuine decent swingers leave in droves ...really sad

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there is defo a few of them i have seen in the forums

sad but true

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone decides to leave at some point, old members move on and new ones come in. It keeps things fresh. I certainly don't intend being here in 10 years time or probably anything close to that.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

To be honest I would say that if folk are leaving because of the behaviour of others then they are being over sensitive.... It's the Internet and its easy to just block or ignore and move on! There are plenty decent folk around too. If folk choose to go for other reasons or because they have found something that suits them better then great go for it. But to blame the actions of others on a website to me is taking it too much to heart.... Just my opinion and tuppence worth

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Oh and I would say most of the guys who leave is because they discover its not instashag or find they can't get meets ..... Again I say most not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I would say that if folk are leaving because of the behaviour of others then they are being over sensitive.... It's the Internet and its easy to just block or ignore and move on! There are plenty decent folk around too. If folk choose to go for other reasons or because they have found something that suits them better then great go for it. But to blame the actions of others on a website to me is taking it too much to heart.... Just my opinion and tuppence worth

Definately agree with all of the above..

Don't let the BS get you down.... That's what the delete and block buttons are for.

As for people not attending arranged meets.... All you can do is learn and choose more wisely next time.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

i just ignore the numbnuts and focus on the real people ...numbnuts give themselves away VERY quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get loads of messages saying "fancy a fuck", wish I did, I'm here to be abused

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I dont get loads of messages saying "fancy a fuck", wish I did, I'm here to be abused

Me niether....but i know all they sexy ladies out there are looking at me and thinking it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get many either

think there all looking for mr hunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a fancy a shag message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're annoying when they can't even say hi first I delete them straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we're a bunch of sad old men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats more annoying they say there aren't time wasters on the profile but yet they deleted you without sending a reply an a block - makes yeh think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're annoying when they can't even say hi first I delete them straight away "

Hi. You got yer Cel'ic Tap oan yet? Phoarrr!

Heehee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are so many ladies leaving the site - or saying they are fed up with it - is it the men - let downs or what??"

I've not often seen this but almost daily see guys saying they're thinking of leaving

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By *ip sensationWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well guys i'll send yous most of my mail mail cause that's what it says...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I'm keeping it for pp rofpmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I'm keeping it for pp rofpmsl

He can pp all over it for me then lass. Hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your funny rt not

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Nah I'm keeping it for pp rofpmsl

Keeping what for PP lol ?

I think all guys should just delete account and be done with it, no moaning no look at me, no a cannae get a shag, no check out my pish profile, no no no just bolt and leave the lovely ladies to have a fuckfest with each other and me, sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My celtic top rt wants you to piss on it lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"I almost quite last night but chose to hide my profile instead. Why? Because this week I've had an East Ayrshire guy arrange to meet then when I suggested a time simply didn't even bother to read the message then blocked me. I report him to admin as a timewaster and they do fuck all about it.

I then get a message from a little hobbit "U sound vile" I report him to admin and they do fuck all about it. "

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"My celtic top rt wants you to piss on it lol"

Oh pish comes as standard with me, talk pish and pish pish and even better when yir wearing hoops lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"whats more annoying they say there aren't time wasters on the profile but yet they deleted you without sending a reply an a block - makes yeh think"

Not replying doesn't make you a time waster ... I would say not turning up to an arranged meet is a time waster ... Clearly says on site FAQ that no reply isn't rude, would you phone all the unwanted take aways that put menus through your door to say no thanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My celtic top rt wants you to piss on it lol"

That or a night of dining on exquisite food, before going onto an exclusive nightclub for a night of dancing & laughs with copious amounts of alcohol. Then follow that with a carriage ride home, jump into a shower or bath together as a prelude to some passion in the bedroom. You wear the requisite football shirt before a fine specimen of masculinity carries you through & places you on a fresh, crisp bed & slowly, but determinedly start to kiss your neck, shoulders & back before letting a deliciously wet tongue trace all the way down your spine & buttocks, then deliberately start to eat you out as you writhe beneath the expert mouth. As you throw caution to the wind & your legs to the air just think...

Where the fuck did RT go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats more annoying they say there aren't time wasters on the profile but yet they deleted you without sending a reply an a block - makes yeh think

Yeah for a laugh I have. I'll call the Chinese & ask if they do Indian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me chuckle pp

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yeah for a laugh I have. I'll call the Chinese & ask if they do Indian.

Ah but your mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah for a laugh I have. I'll call the Chinese & ask if they do Indian.

Ah but your mad

You never called or text a random phone number, a company or even a friend & whispered "I've hidden the body... now what?"

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"That or a night of dining on exquisite food, before going onto an exclusive nightclub for a night of dancing & laughs with copious amounts of alcohol. Then follow that with a carriage ride home, jump into a shower or bath together as a prelude to some passion in the bedroom. You wear the requisite football shirt before a fine specimen of masculinity carries you through & places you on a fresh, crisp bed & slowly, but determinedly start to kiss your neck, shoulders & back before letting a deliciously wet tongue trace all the way down your spine & buttocks, then deliberately start to eat you out as you writhe beneath the expert mouth. As you throw caution to the wind & your legs to the air just think...

Where the fuck did RT go?"

Ooooft!! PP, take notes from the randy one hahaha

Lxx

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Minus the football shirt btw lol

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"I dont get loads of messages saying "fancy a fuck", wish I did, I'm here to be abused

If I ever get a "Fancy a fuck" message I will leave here. After suffering a heart attack.

Seriously, people come and go, some lost in the ether, and others return, saying they couldn't stay away. We all feel differently day to day, and sometimes our profiles get hidden, we post "not meeting" statuses, change or mail preferences, add to block lists....

The thing is, we can be pissed off in here, or in the real world, and it carries over to the other sphere, and we make snap judgements, which we might regret.

If/when I feel like quitting, I take my profile down, step away from the keyboard, and put things in perspective.

As for people & personalities, we can't all be besties, (or bosom buddies?), so just remember it's only a forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont get loads of messages saying "fancy a fuck", wish I did, I'm here to be abused

If I ever get a "Fancy a fuck" message I will leave here. After suffering a heart attack.

The thing is, we can be pissed off in here, or in the real world, and it carries over to the other sphere, and we make snap judgements, which we might regret.

If/when I feel like quitting, I take my profile down, step away from the keyboard, and put things in perspective.

As for people & personalities, we can't all be besties, (or bosom buddies?), so just remember it's only a forum! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont get loads of messages saying "fancy a fuck", wish I did, I'm here to be abused

If I ever get a "Fancy a fuck" message I will leave here. After suffering a heart attack.

The thing is, we can be pissed off in here, or in the real world, and it carries over to the other sphere, and we make snap judgements, which we might regret.

If/when I feel like quitting, I take my profile down, step away from the keyboard, and put things in perspective.

As for people & personalities, we can't all be besties, (or bosom buddies?), so just remember it's only a forum!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I dont get loads of messages saying "fancy a fuck", wish I did, I'm here to be abused

If I ever get a "Fancy a fuck" message I will leave here. After suffering a heart attack.

The thing is, we can be pissed off in here, or in the real world, and it carries over to the other sphere, and we make snap judgements, which we might regret.

If/when I feel like quitting, I take my profile down, step away from the keyboard, and put things in perspective.

As for people & personalities, we can't all be besties, (or bosom buddies?), so just remember it's only a forum! "

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Ooooft!! PP, take notes from the randy one hahaha

Lxx"

No to early to cancel yir birthday pressie

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Tuppence well spent!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"whats more annoying they say there aren't time wasters on the profile but yet they deleted you without sending a reply an a block - makes yeh think"

If they dont reply.....They not wasting your time or theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those of you who say 'its only a forum' or 'being overly sensitive' havent had prolonged and sustained hate campaigns.

I hope you never do have to be targeted but it does sound to me that some people are talking about things without any real experience and about things they know, very little, or nothing about.

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"For those of you who say 'its only a forum' or 'being overly sensitive' havent had prolonged and sustained hate campaigns.

I hope you never do have to be targeted but it does sound to me that some people are talking about things without any real experience and about things they know, very little, or nothing about. "

You want to know what forum abuse is, join a Genesis forum and say Peter Gabriel is God, and Phil Collins is a dick. Then you'll know what hate is.

What happens here is mild by comparison to some of the things I've witnessed elsewhere.

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By *risky4somesCouple
over a year ago

Near glasgow

IrnBru88 I sent you your first "fancy a" message .... Enjoy

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"IrnBru88 I sent you your first "fancy a" message .... Enjoy

Hey! That's favouritism!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those of you who say 'its only a forum' or 'being overly sensitive' havent had prolonged and sustained hate campaigns.

I hope you never do have to be targeted but it does sound to me that some people are talking about things without any real experience and about things they know, very little, or nothing about.

You want to know what forum abuse is, join a Genesis forum and say Peter Gabriel is God, and Phil Collins is a dick. Then you'll know what hate is.

What happens here is mild by comparison to some of the things I've witnessed elsewhere."

I've no interest in looking up z list pop acts. I almost had to google their names there to find out who they were. I can't speak with any authority of these men, but I can speak with some authority over what ive said.

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By *risky4somesCouple
over a year ago

Near glasgow

StuM... You never said you were lacking

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"For those of you who say 'its only a forum' or 'being overly sensitive' havent had prolonged and sustained hate campaigns.

I hope you never do have to be targeted but it does sound to me that some people are talking about things without any real experience and about things they know, very little, or nothing about. "

You are always going on about the abuse on these forums....Hate campaigns? Pack of wolves?

Why is it that not one regular forum user has seen any of this??

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"StuM... You never said you were lacking

Yeah, that Bru gets all the hot messages!

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By *risky4somesCouple
over a year ago

Near glasgow

Il send you what I sent Bru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those of you who say 'its only a forum' or 'being overly sensitive' havent had prolonged and sustained hate campaigns.

I hope you never do have to be targeted but it does sound to me that some people are talking about things without any real experience and about things they know, very little, or nothing about.

You are always going on about the abuse on these forums....Hate campaigns? Pack of wolves?

Why is it that not one regular forum user has seen any of this??"

Why? Because it's the truth.

And I'm not particularly bothered if anyone has seen it recently or not. Neither do I wish to involve others to confirm what I've said, as they have done in private messages to me.

Because it is relevant to an op topic.

Some things do need to be stressed to prove a point. Different people look at the forums each day and may have missed previous comments.

As long as it's the forums i think I can use it, just the same way as everyone else to express an opinion.

I don't go on. I've made lots of other comments on other topics.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You have been here 8 weeks....

I have just read through previous threads you have commented on in the past 5 weeks and see nothing of this so called abuse that you go on and on about....

I will just have to assume that the abuse was bad enough to warrant the threads to be removed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just got a weird message saying am outta of my league

the user left site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have been here 8 weeks....

I have just read through previous threads you have commented on in the past 5 weeks and see nothing of this so called abuse that you go on and on about....

I will just have to assume that the abuse was bad enough to warrant the threads to be removed....

There is only so much I can say in an open forum, while I try and watch my back.

Although we haven't met, you do strike me as being decent, so I don't wish to start an arguement with you.

However, I'm only speaking from what I've seen and I'm not bothered who else has witnessed this or not or who else can confirm this or not.

I don't think I wish to protract this, just now, so I now see the matter closed just now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is only a forum a hate campaign in real life is a lot different I know through experience how can words on a screen from someone you don't know and may never meet hurt you

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"You have been here 8 weeks....

I have just read through previous threads you have commented on in the past 5 weeks and see nothing of this so called abuse that you go on and on about....

I will just have to assume that the abuse was bad enough to warrant the threads to be removed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I was going to get site supporter thing but then thought to myself why support the site when you get very little support back when trying to get fakes/abusers etc removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was going to get site supporter thing but then thought to myself why support the site when you get very little support back when trying to get fakes/abusers etc removed"
true

only reason i got it is

to let every 1 no am not a fake

nor am i a time waster

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