FabSwingers.com forum: One sided open relationship

By *oneys1 OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

How many couples are in a one sided open relationship where only one of you is allowed to play?

How do you cope with the one who is allowed to play being jealous and making things not equal in the relationship?

When one is getting all of the experiences but one is controlled due to jealousy and insecurity does it create resentment in the long term?

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By *ellinever70Woman
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think if a couple is hoping for this to be a tit for tat experience but one of them is uncomfortable with the other having sex with other people then it's going to be a relationship characterised by resentment

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Depends on the dynamic, the agreement, and the expectations.

One couple I know went down this route.

Guy thought he was in with a woman at work and suggested a bit of polysomethingorother. Thinking he'd be able to jump into bed with workmate.

His Mrs agreed reluctantly because she didn't want to lose him and thought he would do it anyway.

Short version - work woman didn't want him, lots of people wanted the wife.

Wife very happy with the arrangement, and the guy getting more and more bitter about it. Wife doesn't see why she would stop.

So there is that....

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By *rgoodnbadMan
20 weeks ago

greenock

"How many couples are in a one sided open relationship where only one of you is allowed to play?

How do you cope with the one who is allowed to play being jealous and making things not equal in the relationship?

When one is getting all of the experiences but one is controlled due to jealousy and insecurity does it create resentment in the long term? "

You mean, how many guys are regretting asking their partner to "open" up their relationship to others, thinking it'll be one big f#ckfest, only to realise she's been with dozens of men, while he hasn't even had a reply to a single message?

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By *unx2019Couple
20 weeks ago

Lossiemouth

Not sure if cuckold relationship counts? She has met a few guys and couples and while still get jealous when watching them have sex there isn't any resentment. We communicate well about what our relationship is, but would imagine if it was just one person having all the fun, in a normal relationship then could certainly cause resentment.

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By *oneys1 OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Not sure if cuckold relationship counts? She has met a few guys and couples and while still get jealous when watching them have sex there isn't any resentment. We communicate well about what our relationship is, but would imagine if it was just one person having all the fun, in a normal relationship then could certainly cause resentment. "
if your role is a cuck then you are very much involved.

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By *irigramCouple
20 weeks ago

glenrothes

It’s not really an open relationship if only 1 is getting the fun? It sounds only 1 way and if it comes to jealousy keep it to couples meets or just stop swinging? X

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By *irky_coupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Kirky

Not really an open relationship if only 1 is allowed to play. Seen a couple profiles on here where the woman gets to do what and who she wants but he isn't to be touched because she cant handle it. Weird if you ask us.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
20 weeks ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

A cuckold relationship you mean it’s pretty common

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By *oneys1 OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

"A cuckold relationship you mean it’s pretty common "

No cucks are generally involved to some degree even if it's videos, photos, humiliation. What we mean is a relationship where one half has zero involvement.

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By *cotsfun23Man
20 weeks ago

Stirling

"A cuckold relationship you mean it’s pretty common

No cucks are generally involved to some degree even if it's videos, photos, humiliation. What we mean is a relationship where one half has zero involvement."

Is this not just technicaly a single person then? Meeting others with partners knowledge?

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By *sm265Woman
20 weeks ago

Perthshire

"How many couples are in a one sided open relationship where only one of you is allowed to play?

How do you cope with the one who is allowed to play being jealous and making things not equal in the relationship?

When one is getting all of the experiences but one is controlled due to jealousy and insecurity does it create resentment in the long term? "

Not sure I really understand what you mean about the one who is allowed to play being jealous.

Is the other person not allowed to play because the one who is allowed is too jealous? Because that sounds a bit like double standards and I'd say it's very likely to result in resentment and conflict.

Lots of couples have different approaches to swinging, but I'd say whatever approach needs to be mutually satisfying and fulfilling.

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By *estiswestMan
19 weeks ago

glasgow

Cuck relationship here. She has met guys. I don’t meet. We communicate about what we want from our relationship which avoids the risk of resentment.

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By *erfHerder74Man
19 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I wouldn’t call the OP a real relationship maybe convenient , it’s possible you may be happier with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

It’s more of a coercive relationship imo if someone gets all the sweeties and the other half has to lick out the wrappers

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By *SCouple81Couple
19 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Every relationship is different and can evolve over the time. Communication and mutual understanding is what matters and makes it working. Jealousy can be very difficult for you some and have very negative impact.

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By *ugehandsMan
19 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

The dynamics of any relationship can be simple or complicated depending on the circumstances, but it is not uncommon for one in a relationship to play with consent. The partner may have lost interest in sex, may have a health issue or possibly enjoys the fantasy of knowing or not knowing what the other is doing when they are out or get a kick out of hearing the stories when they return home.

At the end of the day if whatever scenario works for anyone who are we to judge?

Love life.

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