FabSwingers.com forum: Being recognised..

By *inkyguyglasgow OP Man
20 weeks ago

glasgow

Does it turn people on at the thought of being recognised/recognising someone?

Is that the dread ?

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By *ale guyMan
20 weeks ago

Alexandria

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By *ale guyMan
20 weeks ago

Alexandria

Last time (years ago) I was on here I got recognised by an old school friend of the opposite sex. I changed my profile pic to one without my face straight away. We did end up having lots of sex soooo?

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By *ordelpusMan
20 weeks ago

perth

There is a certain buzz about it

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By *yr 48Man
20 weeks ago

ayrshire

Yes big turn on

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By *erfHerder74Man
20 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Yes

If they start talking to me and get my attention. It’s more likely I might get in bed with someone I’ve met in person before

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
20 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No its creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

It's something I'd like to stay a fantasy.

Very nearly happened for me, had a local interest with very few photos, I wouldn't normally do a home game, but I'd been let down by a dreamer.

The local interest wasn't available that evening.

The following week, the local interest posted his face picture public instead of private by mistake and I realised I worked with him.

Fantasy good, reality bad.

Obviously it's different if you are straight and single, a bit different in my case.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
20 weeks ago

nowhere, next to neverbeenthere

Probably is for some, people have all diffrent kinks, me personally i would shit it of someone recognised me from here😂😂

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By *heStoryofOTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Bibury

"Yes big turn on"

I love it xxx

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By *cotsman269Man
19 weeks ago

Falkirk

It’s scary yet somewhat exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Sure I recognised someone by there hand tats never said anything but sure someone else did cos she was wearing mittens next time i saw her and her last update was along the lines of "I dare you to tell" profile gone now probably got another with no pics

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By *etey6967Man
19 weeks ago

glagow

I have been seen by someone who knows me. We chatted and then exchanged pics it was someone I went the football with.

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By *bolton88Man
19 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hard enough to get a reply nevermind getting recognised lol

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By *etey6967Man
19 weeks ago

glagow

"Hard enough to get a reply nevermind getting recognised lol"

Yeah but that’s the frill of it. And he wants to still suck my cock

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By *ouplenextdoor69Couple
18 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Does it turn people on at the thought of being recognised/recognising someone?

Is that the dread ?"

If we recognise someone who messaged us,we will be honest so they can chat or block

Or we might block depending who

We have had a few idiots saying they recognised us

One said he will turn up at door

Another was messaging saying is this?? Full name

Why would you do that and if it wasn't the person you had just named a couple

Or another say I can keep a secret if you let me do stuff with wife

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By *ornyFukker40sMan
18 weeks ago

Fife

I find it pretty exciting tbh… always good if there’s a few hot AF vids etc., then when you swap face you recognise someone … I’ve found people from work on here and a cousin

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
18 weeks ago

IRVINE

We have been on fab for around 15 years and not been recognised or recognised anymore.we are all here for the same thing as we all have our little kinks and fantasys.mrs

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By *osie888TV/TS
18 weeks ago

Bathgate

been rumbled by gent from work

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By *lectrictouchMan
18 weeks ago

inverarary

I was approached years ago in a supermarket

By a couple that lived two streets away and occasional I’d seen in local pub

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By *etey6967Man
18 weeks ago

glagow

I’ve been found by a guy I worked with. But he was cool about and I trust him

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By *hekaiserMan
18 weeks ago

Glasgow

I recognised a former colleague a few years ago...both civil about it as we didn't find each other attractive

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By *parks2020Man
18 weeks ago

Glasgow

Love the thrill of being recognised

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By *uds1Couple
18 weeks ago

lanark

We have been spotted on here,but all turned out ok

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By *iker34Man
18 weeks ago

east lothian

My ex was recognised at her work one day by a guy but kept her secret thankfully lol

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By *illxxMan
18 weeks ago

motherwell

Got talking to a woman on here and after a few messages she sent me her photo. It turned out to be a friend of mine’s wife play away. After the shock and a few more messages we decided to meet up and the rest is history as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

The thought of being recognised is something of a turn on but also quite scary too!

We have been recognised as somebody messaged us and used our first names, he was nice with it though and all agreed to leave it at that….as he’s married!

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By *GothicDBikerCouple
18 weeks ago

Stirling

Think it depends i had a single gent back trace my picture and approached me through Facebook. That was horrible and was really angry as thats my personal life away from this part of my life however I know I have a distinctive look and that's make it more likely I could be recognised I would hope if it's out and about they would be respectful. On here I dont stress if some1 says they know me, we all on here for our own reasons and I have nothing to hide x

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By *awk3y3Man
18 weeks ago

West Lothian

For me I've recognised a work colleague - immediate block !

It's also creepy to be forthright - I feel discretion is key

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By *elloyoufrommeMan
18 weeks ago

Glasgow

If someone recognised me my answer would be don't mock it till you've tried it with a big smile

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By *oo_BeesCouple
18 weeks ago

Saltcoats

Would hate it

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By *irky_coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Kirky

Recognised my mates ex wife who was on here for a bit. Mrs sent me a pic one day when she was working at the weekend, posted it here and a guy at her work recognised the office and said hello to her on the Monday

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By *ohn61Man
17 weeks ago

Edinburgh

The first time it happened I was shocked but now it's hot

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
17 weeks ago

New Cumnock

We find quite funny!!

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By *ack For Fun69Man
17 weeks ago

Hamilton

Recognised a friend who was the year below me at school (about ten years ago) and didn't approach as we were both on here for our own reasons.

About two weeks later she messaged me and we ended up playing together and as a couple for two years or so until she moved down south for work.

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By *laySexualWoman
17 weeks ago

fife

I get recognised alot. I don't mind . We are all here for the same reason ..I mind when they don't want to share anything about them with me... That's just creepy . Just don't admit you know me if you don't want to tell me who you are 🤷

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By *aywardCoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Your Hotlist

Mrs here. I've been recognised by one of my best friends fiancé and a couple other people that either "called me out" by name or mentioned my job. Unsure what they hoped to accomplish but my experience would suggest it's a dread.

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By *xperimenting pairCouple
17 weeks ago

Helensburgh

I think most guys want recognised but most women dont want recognised

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By *piderxMan
17 weeks ago

west lothian

Recognised my sister in law by the furniture in her room lol

I did know she was on here so it was a thtill to see her how i had fantisied

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By *rnyAdmirerMan
17 weeks ago

Livingston / Edin

I've never recognised a single person on here, wouldn't bother me if i did. Would just move on like it never happened.

On my previous, longer term, profile about 4 years back a girl I'd worked with messaged me on Facebook saying "saw you on Fab", nothing creepy or malicious, just asked each other how we'd both found it and said she was free to pop round one night after sending her a private pic

Some flirts and laughs, no harm done.

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By *andJane17Couple
17 weeks ago

Cromer

I (T) have been spoken to twice now in clubs by work colleagues, put us off going back to be honest.

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By *lectrictouchMan
17 weeks ago

inverarary

"I (T) have been spoken to twice now in clubs by work colleagues, put us off going back to be honest. "

Need to travel away from

Home

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By *avie1982Man
17 weeks ago

north lanarkshire

Oh I'd hate it. I've recognised people on this and just say nothing. We all like our own privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

It’s the one that post “oh I love being recognised” their profiles empty or it’s just nudes n you’re like how the fuck is anyone recognising you 😂

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By *agnar2323Man
17 weeks ago

Valhalla

Irl I would never approach anyone if I recognised them and I would hope they do the same unless we've been chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Was approached at work a number of years ago by a colleague who was in here.

She came into my office, closed the door and called me by the name I used at the time.

I happened to be in a position that could allow her access to software for her home PC.

Became a regular Friday afternoon BJ session.

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By *appyman3943Man
17 weeks ago

Aberdeen

If they were genuine fab members and discreet then it wouldn’t bother me as we are mostly all on here for the same reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Would be horrific

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

It shouldn’t be a drama but when you read stories about people getting bribed and extorted it’s maddening. Sad really, we should be comfortable that most have a similar outlook/acceptance.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I recognised my step daughter on here last summer

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By *lder budweiserMan
17 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

Recognised and know a few folk from on here in public, never interacted with them or mentioned Fab though

No idea if I've ever been recognised, if I have it's never been brought up

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Being single it doesnt bother me if im recognised on here

but then as im typing this i just thought id be mortified if any family members where on here

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
17 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'd enjoy navigating it. I do have one friend who's on and I occasionally use the word Fab in work texts.

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By *cottish_fun_coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

ayr

major kink of hers

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
17 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"major kink of hers"

I hope you find a young hung guy you already know. What a kinky treat for you and him xx chris

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By *heStoryofOTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Bibury

I want to be recognised and used xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I’ve bumped into fabbers across daily and professional life multiple times over the years, it happens. Unless it’s one I know super well, I’ve never let on at all. Do to others as we wish ourselves to be treated kinda thing

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By *uds1Couple
14 weeks ago

lanark

We have been as I said

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By *rianBenjamin77Man
14 weeks ago

Saltcoats

I once got chatting to a man on here he wanted a meet that day I agreed with him he turned out to be a neighbour

But we both. did had a lovely time

he was into watersports

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

We have recognised a few people on here. We would never out anyone for being unfaithful and probably wouldn't let them know we recognised them.

One of our verifications is from someone we recognised so it has its advantages too.

We hope no one ever recognises us! That gives mrs the fear

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By *merald1971Woman
14 weeks ago

dundee

I have been a couple of times 🤦‍♀️ its a dread of mine

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By *enelope2UWoman
14 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Doesn't bother me what does is the lack of intelligence of most fab males on here.

that's my dread. They think most women on here are just free sex workers yet give us less respect of one....

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By *otuseater11Man
13 weeks ago

kilwinning

Doesn't bother me at all.as we are all using this site for the same thing.after all sex is just a natural thing we all like to do

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By *jsantagCouple
12 weeks ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

Someone very recently said that they recognise us from where we live. Named raids etc and very very close by. Unnerving

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I once got chatting to a man on here he wanted a meet that day I agreed with him he turned out to be a neighbour

But we both. did had a lovely time

he was into watersports"

Glad you had fun

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By *ewbiecouple2511Couple
12 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

I have had people said no to try to say they recognise me and know where I work so yeah I would prefer not to be recognised - Mrs x

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By *ab365XMan
12 weeks ago

Paisley

I was in my gyms spa facility, & when I entered the sauna, there was a m&f couple who looked like a stag caught in the headlights, they awkwardly left to go & sit on the Loungers, when I walked past them, they were both on their phones & overheard the missus accidentally exclaimed out loud to her man, “ aye, that’s him, he’s got a big pork sword”!

I left to go home & had a cheeky look at my fab & it was obvious they had checked me out!🥴

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By *oewiththeflowMan
12 weeks ago

West Coast

"No its creepy"

Agree, Judge Dread for me too

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By *MLilyGGWoman
12 weeks ago

LDN

Happened to me me at Xmas and it ended up turning me on although I was taken aback!

At a Xmas party in a hotel, maybe 300 people there and I was at the bar and some really good looking guy came up and whispered in my ear “your on fab yeah?” , I nodded but then went about my night, saw him a bit later with clearly his wife

About 2am, I was coming back from the toilets and he was coming out of the gents, he walked up behind me and said “Lily” and cupped my boobs and said “I couldn’t fucking resist”

I put a message on here next day and by that night I had his dick in my mouth and it was as big and lovely as I thought!!

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By *hogun300Man
12 weeks ago

Dundee

It happens now and again I suppose. Just need to deal with. It doesn't change anything and is what it is.

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By *hehighlander88Man
12 weeks ago

inverness

As long as people can remain discreet about it and not act like children then I guess there is nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I am not bothered at all for people to know I have non-traditional sexual tastes. However, I find it really creepy if someone sort of hints at it sheepishly because they aren’t comfortable in their own sexuality yet use the site to peep on others’. Either have the confidence to bring it up directly and appropriately OR have the good sense to respect discretion and save acknowledgment of recognition for the club. Basically, don’t be a creepy coy stalker with an “I know what you’re up to” attitude. It’s like in a club setting — don’t follow someone around who isn’t giving you anything back. If they were interested, they’d let you know. *sigh*

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By *afu1110Man
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Currently in canary islands gets a message from a guy i am bi but dont meet single guy asking for a meet as if I am staying in such and such hotel .I deleted message next day he says where I was sitting and with who and the time .I dont really care if someone knows me from my pics but it was a bit to much like stalking for my liking .

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By *orsaxbyMan
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

Many years ago went to a couples and singles party In gravesend been there awhile went upstairs for a play came back downstairs and my nextdoors neighbours wife was sitting in the lounge I panicked and decided to leave before she saw me then I calmed down and looked round and her husband wasn't there so Sat down and had a chat we had lots of fun over years till we moved x

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
12 weeks ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Many years ago it wasn’t so much dread but did have to be wary because of my job, not a lot of women in my chosen career path and less so at that point and I’d already been threatened by an ex to mail all my work colleagues

Now days I couldn’t care less my kids have met a lot of my fab friends and know what I get up to so there’s no one to tell, if folk want to talk about me let them ! Says more about the kind of people they are than me

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By *eddesMan
12 weeks ago

Bridge of Weir

I have been recognised a couple of times it’s never been an issue as after all we are all here for the same reason at the end of the day

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By *heStoryofOTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bibury

I’m desperate to be recognised xx

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By *appygolucky091Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Recognised a few people on here but have never approached them or mentioned it

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