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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently stumbled across a few fem profiles loaded with what you can only describe as "utterly peeved" at all who try to contact them,

Examples are, "If you've not read my profile fully then you can just F,,, off"

If you aint done this, checked that, looked up the other, again "Just f off"

I read profiles, hell i even read between the lines of the "Too good to be true " ones,lol.

Two things are quite amazing, inspite of such subtle friendly profile info, they actually attract oodles of interest!!

The other point is just a thought, if guys worded their profiles like that,would there be an "up" in interest?

More like sent to Coventry i bet.

T xx

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By *issCognitoWoman
over a year ago

secret location near glasgow

Fu*k Off :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fu*k Off :D"

Ahh yi say "Fu*k off but are you meaning Fu*k off? lol

T xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I wonder if there's a correlation between the women who regularly start 'look at me' threads and the ones whose profiles scream 'how dare you look at me'?

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

it constantly amazes me how people get high or angry or anxious about other profiles on the site.lots of people have differing reasons for being on this site but what ahv learned in 5 years of this malarky is DONT take the site seriously and you wont upset your self and infact you will find as wee have, non sincere people cant hide for long so just go with the flow n REEEEEEEELAX lol (ats ma tuppencewurth lol)

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By *issCognitoWoman
over a year ago

secret location near glasgow


"it constantly amazes me how people get high or angry or anxious about other profiles on the site.lots of people have differing reasons for being on this site but what ahv learned in 5 years of this malarky is DONT take the site seriously and you wont upset your self and infact you will find as wee have, non sincere people cant hide for long so just go with the flow n REEEEEEEELAX lol (ats ma tuppencewurth lol) "

Best Post in AGES!!..

Well Done in Speaking Sense!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool, never take it too seriously, just the "fu*ck off" thing, call me old fashioned, whether it be said or written,kinda not needed, not as a first intro if anyones simply checking your info out, just an opinion,

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have plenty of the if u .... then fuck off on ma profile and wouldnt change it for anyone....

its up to the individual on what they want to write on their profile and no one elses.... i dont give a toss if folk dont like my profile.. as its mine!! and up to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^One question fifelass...Are you lactating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^One question fifelass...Are you lactating "

no im fucking no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^One question fifelass...Are you lactating

no im fucking no lol"

thats a yes then

reverse sumit is it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice 1, so, cool,anyone not liking this thread can just "Fu*k off"?

Fab, nice tae be nice eh,lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhh joy to the world!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice 1, so, cool,anyone not liking this thread can just "Fu*k off"?

Fab, nice tae be nice eh,lol

T xx "

i believe i have the right to post on this thread and any other thread..

and i think im allowed to have my own opinion on it tooo !!

freedom of speach and all that !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice 1, so, cool,anyone not liking this thread can just "Fu*k off"?

Fab, nice tae be nice eh,lol

T xx

i believe i have the right to post on this thread and any other thread..

and i think im allowed to have my own opinion on it tooo !!

freedom of speach and all that !!!"

Yes yes and yes, to it all, i did say "a few profiles", i dont discriminate, sensationalise or try to embarass folks

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just stating my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another one of the 'trying to keep it fun ' threads?

come on, everyones profile is thier own and can state what they want in it, aslong as its not actually offensive, there is really no reason to gripe about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"another one of the 'trying to keep it fun ' threads?

come on, everyones profile is thier own and can state what they want in it, aslong as its not actually offensive, there is really no reason to gripe about it"

Certainly is and as said just an opinion which we all have and are entitled to on here to express. Not named or shamed anyone, it is the "Fu*k off" comment, as an example a few months ago we had a simple thread on here asking which swear word we simply hated seeing or hearing, but i have it in perspective now thank you, "Fu*k off" is NOT offensive, cool, silly me eh,lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats the saying ' until you walked in the moccasins '

I have no idea how I would craft a profile if I was a female..

I think if you are lovely and gushing you will be consumed by the guys messages

I think if you are very blunt then hopefully if will minimise the messages and allow the female to spend more time having fun than deleting endless messages and then getting more shit for not replying..

it's their profile so they take their chances ...

I think I would go for the blunt..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us guys have to realise that as were lucky to get one or two emails a week (and they are generally ones moanbing why I banned them from chat,lol) that the girls have can get hundreds a day...

As most of the girls on here are polite they probably started reading all the mails when they first joined. However, reading the same cheesy one liners every few minutes off apes that can't form more than 3 words together other than "fancy a shag" would get a tad boring after a wee while.

So, to minimise this they maybe change their profile to deter some folk. Least they are been blunt and to the point.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree Steve, my profile started off polite went through a phase of humerous and is now direct and blunt and yes off-putting and rude to some (they mail to tell me lol)

I read Fifelass's and saw it as direct but with a tongue in cheek humour so wasn't offended by it and was left with a smile.

Ultimately if we wrote nothing, had only the black silhouette pic up we would still get the mails, "you are gorgeous I wanna do... and ... and ... with you sexy"

Many guys who mail are working to their own pre-conceived script and nothing we have asked for or specified in our profiles will make any difference.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As most people have said, what they put on their profile is up to them.....but without checking out anyones profile on this thread yet so don't take it personally, I can understand what the OP is saying.

Sounding aggressive on your profile would make me click it off and some do sound aggressive with their wording..BUT, no one has to carry on reading it, we just shut the page and accept that people have their reasons for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, cool, reading all replies, i did start off the thread by saying they seemed very "Peeved" with the responses they get etc, i do get the fact that huge numbers message with no idea and just succeed in causing annoyance and irritate.

Just as an example, a few weeks ago i was asking for guys to message in response to an event i had up, one guy in particular was super kean to get involved but messaged so minimalisticaly,one glance and you would of taken it as someone who could'nt be arsed to take the time to type a decent message,and im sure lots of folks would of thought,,"delete", but i told him i was'nt considering him because his info came across so vague etc. He messaged back truthfully saying his ability to write/type etc was limited.Felt bloody awfull,thats just an example as i say of thinking the worst of a reply that actually ended up being more genuine and truthfull than half the responses i had to sift through.

Think i would of felt ultra awfull if i thought telling him to "Fu*k off" was the solution.

I do appreciate the need to deter the utterly unmanageable amount of messages most folks get, just the "Fu*k off"thing trips me up.

T xx

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