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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

-I'm getting my rant on here a bit - but how do other women cope with the out and out misogyny on here?

Why do *some* men (not all, thank goodness) find it so hard to recognise that I'm here to fulfil the needs of my own sexuality and not just to please theirs? (Mutual pleasure being the ultimate goal) I'm not talking about sub/dom role play but guys who really seem to think that women are just there to please them and if we don't agree me must be "bitches" or some other gendered pejorative...

I mean c'mon guys - play nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god there is some really nice guy's on here like myself who do out number the arsehole's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say I've come across many that actually hate woman but if I do I ignore, block, delete, report and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amen to that Mr Audi - I've met (and chatted to) some lovely guys - but then there are some and *sigh* my heart just sinks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess you're referring to the 'panda brigade' on here

Plenty just here to get their rocks off and to hell with everyone else.. Not my thing, do prefer something a bit more mutual usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on. Don't give them a second thought

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

What the kountess says

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Deleted unread = they saw your pics and profile and NOT INTERESTED. They KNOW you are not interested already.

deleted read = NOT INTERESTED

read no reply= NOT INTERESTED

read and polite rejection notice = NOT INTERESTED

It's all the same why some guys would want rejection emails to wake up too beggars belief.

The only one i get excited about is the mail saying course i'll fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first reading the thread

A thought a had found a typo mate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy saying he was getting off on my messages so I blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy saying he was getting off on my messages so I blocked him "

If he's a masochist that might have made him worse

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"I had a guy saying he was getting off on my messages so I blocked him "

I don't even get off on my own messages....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past used misogynic language, but only if the female in question wants it and likes it. Some submissive women do like to be abused. And I have used it sometimes in the chat rooms, but it's only a form of banter.

I'd never send any abusive message to anyone, male or female (even to the ones who deserve a telling off).

With me, the once or twice I have done it, it's just banter. Apologies though if there's been any offence.

Some people have mentioned about blocking guys. That's probably best, but if any ladies take up a misogyny's offer, almost all of these guys would run a mile if offered a meet.

Or if they do turn up, you could shut your eyes, get the job done, then give them a shit verification lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so tell me wot isit??

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

[Removed by poster at 28/05/13 19:57:02]

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

As others have said, just block them and move on.

One bit of advice I would give though is that you may want to work on your profile a bit and maybe you will get better replies. It doesnt really say much at all about what you are after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess you're referring to the 'panda brigade' on here

Plenty just here to get their rocks off and to hell with everyone else.. Not my thing, do prefer something a bit more mutual usually."
They sound very similar to the, "aye you'll dae" brigade, they like "yur pictur" and boom, message!!

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

Panda brigade? Is that Bru getting picked on again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please leave the Panda's out off this as they are lovely animals and for them that don't no they don't like irn bru , nothing against u mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess you're referring to the 'panda brigade' on here

Plenty just here to get their rocks off and to hell with everyone else.. Not my thing, do prefer something a bit more mutual usually. They sound very similar to the, "aye you'll dae" brigade, they like "yur pictur" and boom, message!!

"
Whilst they eagerly swerve yer age limits, hurdle the ask to read profile first, and the geography of where you are matters not one wee bit, awsome !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deleted unread = they saw your pics and profile and NOT INTERESTED. They KNOW you are not interested already.

deleted read = NOT INTERESTED

read no reply= NOT INTERESTED

read and polite rejection notice = NOT INTERESTED

It's all the same why some guys would want rejection emails to wake up too beggars belief.

The only one i get excited about is the mail saying course i'll fuck you "
good advice for the newbies

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"The only one i get excited about is the mail saying course i'll fuck you "

Be realistic, no guy has ever got mail like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only one i get excited about is the mail saying course i'll fuck you

Be realistic, no guy has ever got mail like that! "
Aye, noticed he skipped the "after message 545" part,,

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