FabSwingers.com forum: Female and mf couple question

By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

As a mf couple we are inundated with messages from men.

Some mf couples

But never females

So it's very common for mmf

Is meeting couples for single female less common?

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By *erryspringerMan
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

"As a mf couple we are inundated with messages from men.

Some mf couples

But never females

So it's very common for mmf

Is meeting couples for single female less common?"

I think the proof is in the pudding. I think most woman want to be the centre of attention in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Everyone is different, but in my case I dont want to play with females. Id happily meet the couple if F was only watching, but generally thats not going to be the case!

Im much more interested in meeting MM couples x

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By *oodcouplekinkyCouple
31 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I'd think that most single women on here probably have thier time taken up dealing with enquiries to them and don't really need to do much enquiring themselves

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By *acedInLuxuryWoman
31 weeks ago

Scotland

My inbox is always filled with all sorts but I have messaged a couple first a few times in the past, even if its just to show some appreciation. I don’t really go searching for couples so it’s only if one catches my eye in the passing so to speak

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By *luebell888Woman
31 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"Everyone is different, but in my case I dont want to play with females. Id happily meet the couple if F was only watching, but generally thats not going to be the case!

Im much more interested in meeting MM couples x"

Same here.

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By *sWyldWoman
31 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I have met some lovely couples over the years but many of the couples who email me are just too pushy

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By *acedInLuxuryWoman
31 weeks ago

Scotland

"I have met some lovely couples over the years but many of the couples who email me are just too pushy"

This ☝🏻 some are more pushy and demanding than the blank single male profiles! 🤯

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By *andybitches1Couple
31 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

We were on another site 15-20 years ago looking solely for single fems and we had no problems meeting some for good fun.

On here we have opened to more options but the single fems that have messaged do not seem very genuine at all so it doesn't go far.

The amount of messages we get from guys with absolutely zero self awareness is comical although quite a few do have decent comm skills and will give them time and has led to a couple of very good meets.

We cam a fair bit which many see as an open door to expect everything and anything.

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By *sm265Woman
31 weeks ago

Perthshire

"I have met some lovely couples over the years but many of the couples who email me are just too pushy

This ☝🏻 some are more pushy and demanding than the blank single male profiles! 🤯"

Agree, I have also found this to be the case. It often feels like they forget I am actually a human with my own needs/wants/interests and feelings, not just some sort of commodity there to fulfill their desires. Some also weirdly seem to think I should be grateful for their interest and they usually dont like it when I dont snatch their hand off. They also often dont understand that if I'm not attracted to both of them then Im not going to play with both of them.

And that's assuming there are actually 2 of them behind the profile in the first place.

I am very lucky to have made connections with 2 wonderful couples in the real world, they have then introduced me to some of their friends. That seems to work far better than meeting via messages on here.

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

Thank you everyone.Ibwas just interested in female opinions

I also spoke with a lovey lady who said as a single female going to meet alone

Safety element,risks etc

And as a female I should have thought of that and clubs often feel like a safer option.i guess I was thinking as a couple.

I know how I felt meeting someone new

The what if

But I have a partner her

But thank you.

I am someone who likes to understand others and their opinions

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

"I have met some lovely couples over the years but many of the couples who email me are just too pushy

This ☝🏻 some are more pushy and demanding than the blank single male profiles! 🤯

And that's assuming there are actually 2 of them behind the profile in the first place.

And you shouldn't ever feel like that

I for one as a female

If meeting another female or couple I always want to know what they like and don't like

I as a female in a couple have had some horrendous comments

From men

There is a level and an 18 year old saying he's taking me off my man and might let him watch

A group of guys we are going to shag Ur wife

I have 2 girls in family that are lesbian no interest in guys

And a boy saying I will fuck u bk straight

Or it's their dream to go with lesbians..

Men think with their peepee

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

"As a mf couple we are inundated with messages from men.

Some mf couples

But never females

So it's very common for mmf

Is meeting couples for single female less common?

I think the proof is in the pudding. I think most woman want to be the centre of attention in the bedroom. "

Well if it's 2 bi mf couples

We in past every is important and nobody gets less of anything

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By *uperstar76Woman
31 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Im straight so no interest in a woman at all, if it was a male from a couple I was after then the only way id message that profile is if there was pics of the male, your profile is only of the female so i wouldnt, maybe that's why you only get males messaging

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By *irtyDenisrWoman
31 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I’m bi luv to meet ladies on their own then maybe with their hubby’s

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Im straight so no interest in a woman at all, if it was a male from a couple I was after then the only way id message that profile is if there was pics of the male, your profile is only of the female so i wouldnt, maybe that's why you only get males messaging"

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

"I’m bi luv to meet ladies on their own then maybe with their hubby’s "

Again we met a female

Female picked her upsat chatting in car

And said this is the streettjis is address take it down

We have nothing to hide

We spoke made sure she was comfortable told her at a

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By *ueen CatWoman
31 weeks ago

fife

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

And I see your profile,so work on that before judging

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me "

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby

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By *ueen CatWoman
31 weeks ago

fife

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby "

Sorry but your replies make no sense to me. You put on a public forum for people to reply and that's exactly what we are doing.

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By *ueen CatWoman
31 weeks ago

fife

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby "

Well in your reply you said it was a HIM that took the pics.

Not doing yourself any favours here.

But back to your original post, yes there's alot more men on the site and plenty couples meet plenty single women, if not many single women interested in your profile then maybe a reason why.

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby

Well in your reply you said it was a HIM that took the pics.

Not doing yourself any favours here.

But back to your original post, yes there's alot more men on the site and plenty couples meet plenty single women, if not many single women interested in your profile then maybe a reason why. "

I don't care anymore

It like to understand dynamics etc

I did say we,I,he wants to meet female

I wasn't being rude

But thank you to those who were nice enough to share their thoughts without judging us

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By *ueen CatWoman
31 weeks ago

fife

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby

Well in your reply you said it was a HIM that took the pics.

Not doing yourself any favours here.

But back to your original post, yes there's alot more men on the site and plenty couples meet plenty single women, if not many single women interested in your profile then maybe a reason why.

I don't care anymore

It like to understand dynamics etc

I did say we,I,he wants to meet female

I wasn't being rude

But thank you to those who were nice enough to share their thoughts without judging us"

You were the one that went ranting at someone for answering your question in their opinion.

Perhaps not post on a public forum if you don't want people to reply with an opinion. Jeeeeez

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By *ouplenextdoor69 OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Falkirk

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby

Well in your reply you said it was a HIM that took the pics.

Not doing yourself any favours here.

But back to your original post, yes there's alot more men on the site and plenty couples meet plenty single women, if not many single women interested in your profile then maybe a reason why.

I don't care anymore

It like to understand dynamics etc

I did say we,I,he wants to meet female

I wasn't being rude

But thank you to those who were nice enough to share their thoughts without judging us

You were the one that went ranting at someone for answering your question in their opinion.

Perhaps not post on a public forum if you don't want people to reply with an opinion. Jeeeeez

She didn't need to say that at end

She would only meet male in couple of pics

That's fine

I just don't understand what I have on my profile has to to do with anything

Have a nice day

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By *uperstar76Woman
31 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Excuse me? I wasnt judging i was merely giving you my opinion and how i run my fab life, you asked for females opnion i gave you mine not once did i judge you, maybe you should take your own advice before replying

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By *uperstar76Woman
31 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

I will tell you why

Yesterday this little bastard

From our village on his 6 profile has been saving pics and sent to my Facebook saying your secret is safe

So forgive me for trying to protect my family

We have verified profile,we have verifications that speak for themselves

Again if we were messaging a female I'd read profile

If it said straight it would be male with both f

If bi all play together

So I wouldn't meet someone that is so quick to judge

Well that reply was uncalled for in my opinion.

Iv met alot of couples, not an issue for me, but it's a ratio thing on here. The ladies can be very selective and rightly so.

But I feel you have just made your chances harder.

You won't have pictures of yourself to protect your family but quite happy to have pictures of your lady on it? Seems odd to me

Really I was asking soni had a better understanding

And actually it was the female who took all pics of male and both of us off.

She based the reason we don't get messages from females as no pics of male

But we have everything else

And the guy doesn't know the female at all he knows hubby "

No I did not i said maybe thats why females arent messaging..

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By *uperstar76Woman
31 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

And I see your profile,so work on that before judging "

I never asked you for profile advice

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By *oneys1Couple
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

Don't think we have ever had a message from a female

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By *ueen CatWoman
31 weeks ago

fife

"Don't think we have ever had a message from a female "

I have you on my hotlist but your profile says only looking for men so thats maybe why

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