FabSwingers.com forum: Getting verified

By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Ok.sooo looking for genuine advice..

Been talking to people..

And I think im pleasant..

Not pushy or rude..and always take no as a no...dont message multiple times...

How do I get verified as a real person lol

Was on here years ago and got verified no problem.

Seems impossible now..

Suggestions welcome..

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By *inky-kk69Woman
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

Try attending a club .... you'll be able to meet like minded people and likely get verified

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By *smadasitgetsWoman
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

I agree,

I understand it's more expensive for single men to go to clubs like CJs.

But that's your best chance. Go to a club and chat too as many people both male and female as you can.

For what it's worth. I'm a single female and it took my three visits to CJs for someone to verify me on here.

Don't worry. You'll get there 👍

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Cheers..

Been trying to get my Fwb to go along to cjs but it's difficult to arrange due to her job..

Hopefully soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Cheers...

Well there is hope for me afterall.

Hopefully get my fwb to get to cjs soon...

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By *erlinmateMan
38 weeks ago

cumnock

Can't get verified without a meet, but can't get a meet if you are not verified.Hmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Exactly..

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By *implyfun1Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow

"Can't get verified without a meet, but can't get a meet if you are not verified.Hmmmm."

Same old story with bouncers on pub/clubs doors

When they say “regulars only”……

How do you become a regular if you can’t get in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Ok.sooo looking for genuine advice..

Been talking to people..

And I think im pleasant..

Not pushy or rude..and always take no as a no...dont message multiple times...

How do I get verified as a real person lol

Was on here years ago and got verified no problem.

Seems impossible now..

Suggestions welcome.."

Don’t over think it, I’m meet verified and it’s made zero difference. As people have said, clubs appear to be the way to go but never works for me with childcare etc.

otherwise it’s like a Bonnie blue event, only a few are getting anywhere, the rest of us are just watching and hoping lol

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By *inky-kk69Woman
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Cheers..

Been trying to get my Fwb to go along to cjs but it's difficult to arrange due to her job..

Hopefully soon."

Is your FWB on here ?

Why doesn't she veri you to say you play together etc.

Also consider going on your own, book in as a single guy and go be social meet people. Best way

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By *lba The ScotMan
38 weeks ago

Midlothian

I get the OPs concerns. They're valid and real, and if I had the answer I would quickly jump in.

As KK above mentioned, you need to swap details at events to verify you and your FWB. Its a simple transational exchange.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Fwb not on here...yet.

Shes a bit nervous.

So not pressing the issue.

Think we will maybe try club soon.

If our shifts allow.

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