FabSwingers.com forum: theory ( woman & block button )

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me or do other people notice that a lot off the females on here seem to complain alot about the males here , where there is a block button for the purpose to stop them getting hassled from us males ( single , attached or married ) but they never seem to use it , so my theory is that if they blocked all mail from males and had to do the chasing it wouldn't be as enjoyable for them waking up in the morning with nothing to read in the mail box so ladies i'am sorry to say u cant have it both ways and if that bothered ( USE THE FECKING BUTTON THATS WHAT IT'S THERE FOR PLEASE )

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the block button as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do

i'am glad u do but others need to follow ur lead then us nice males wouldn't get it in the ear which has happened many a time on here

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Can see both sides of this one to be honest.

On the one hand if guys don't read a profile properly before sending mail then they can't complain about being ignored etc

On the other hand there are probably some single fems who have joined and suddenly find themselves getting a lot more attention than they've ever had in 'the real' world and get a little carried away by it all.

Thankfully we've never really had any problems but its probably a lot easier being a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people I would assume do not block without a good reason.

Some women might block, but then guys delete, rejoin and then deny or too stupid they forget having pestering the women previously.

People talk about problems just as part of an ordinary conversation.

My message to women who block, or who do not bkock: good luck to you and well done!

It must be draining for some of the 'better' women dealing with the Neanderthals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent heard any fems or couples complain about single guys for ages ,and we block the ones who r rude wouldnt want to block all single guys as we do meet them sumtimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely use the block button, I usually just ignore anyone who hassles, annoys or is rude to me.

I'd never block all single guys as I hate doing the chasing, I'd much rather be chased.

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I block people but its pointless because guarentee'd in a weeks time they have got fed up, left and rejoined so they come back at you. You block them again and in a few days they appear again. I don't complain about it too much but it does get a bit samey when you get the same messages from the same users and when I say same messages I mean word for word the same lol

If they give abuse I just report although ive lost faith in the report system lately but not much else I can do. Just sit blocking and if needed reporting, wait for them to get banned and rejoin then repeat the process lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont like using the block button to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or do other people notice that a lot off the females on here seem to complain alot about the males here"

Actually, being someone who regularly reads forums, you dont really see that so often it's actually a lot of the men on here complain a lot about the females here and this is coming from the male half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find sending a face pic on request gets me an instant block

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people but its pointless because guarentee'd in a weeks time they have got fed up, left and rejoined so they come back at you. You block them again and in a few days they appear again. I don't complain about it too much but it does get a bit samey when you get the same messages from the same users and when I say same messages I mean word for word the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My newsfeed is full of moaning men about fakes and time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is not a dig at woman just an observation whilst reading through some off the threads going bk a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not a dig ? are you just wishing women would see what its like to wake up to no messages for a while. why dyou suggest that scenario ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its not a dig ? are you just wishing women would see what its like to wake up to no messages for a while. why dyou suggest that scenario ?"

I do have balls mate but don't want them hammered by posting that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought you already did ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"thought you already did ?"

They r getting a bit more swollen as this thread goes on he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i read it as a theory/advise with a wee dig at the end.

various reasons will bring about a block same way various reasons wont bring on a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i genuinely dont have enough energy to say any more about this

lol

back later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has blocked me they must have a reason (albeit unknown to me) however they still have a reason. So now if I discover I'm blocked I usually counter block & that saves any further issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not a dig at woman just an observation whilst reading through some off the threads going bk a bit"

Mines was just an observation of my newsfeed of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do

So Do I .

Or Did. Nowadays. All Are Blocked lol.

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

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"Is it just me or do other people notice that a lot off the females on here seem to complain alot about the males here , where there is a block button for the purpose to stop them getting hassled from us males ( single , attached or married ) but they never seem to use it , so my theory is that if they blocked all mail from males and had to do the chasing it wouldn't be as enjoyable for them waking up in the morning with nothing to read in the mail box so ladies i'am sorry to say u cant have it both ways and if that bothered ( USE THE FECKING BUTTON THATS WHAT IT'S THERE FOR PLEASE )

I AGREE IN SPADES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your last point, im sure many would prefer nowt to endless dross from insistant guys.

As for the idea that your telling women to use it, like its a handy tip, most are well aware of the option,,lol.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Is it just me or do other folk notice a lot of men moaning about women in the forums......

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Oh and I use my block for abusive mailers and folk that make me rage ( which believe it or not is not easy to do )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or do other folk notice a lot of men moaning about women in the forums......

I've just noticed I'm turning into a moaning woman, moaning about men, least its on a woman moaning thread though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or do other folk notice a lot of men moaning about women in the forums......

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i don't

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I use the block button for abusive people, and people that have stated they're not interested in us. That way we won't accidentally message them again.

I have had one incident of blocking a guy (not abusive in any respect, just wouldn't take no for an answer) who then created another profile to ask my why I'd blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the logic behind it, but here's a thing.

I been to meets where folks have realised they opted to block each other for whatever reason and guess what?

Had a great old time actually meeting, talking , being in each others company.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Even though we're not looking for single guys we don't filter them out. We do block them if they send a message asking to meet, as they clearly haven't read the profile, but if it's a message about something else or sending a compliment then we tend to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use the block all the time...could be avoided if people only read the profile !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the block button, I did however have a gentleman who kept creating profiles every time I blocked him so he could keep harassing me.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I use the block button when i have to ie young guys young enough to be my grand son abusive messaging but i allways use it wisely as im sure males in here do also

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

The OP isnt talking about blocking individuals....

He talking about blocking ALL single men through message filters and doing the leg work yourself....

Far too many women on here will happily just wait for men to mail them....then complain about it

And far too many women wouldnt dream of making the initial contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some just love the weird little power vibe it gives them, funny been blocked a few times and one a few mins ago as I joked around regarding my race , which I think shows huge self confidence but she/they got offended and blocked me which I found funny to be honest !

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

I just block everybody. It saves time in the long run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I use the block button it filters out unwanted attention. And thus no moaning on here about it.

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