FabSwingers.com forum: Guys having females on their profile

By *inkys_profile OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I need to ask this question. What do guys thinks it achieves to have females on their profile? Like your profile is yours. You. Not the female.

Do you have consent? Do they know that you are using them on a single guy profile? As soon as I see any sight of a female on a single guy profile I will not entertain them. The reason being I am meant to trust you but you are showing that you will happily put something on your profile that isn't about you. It is about another person. I don't want to know about another person. I want to know about you. Am I alone in thinking and feeling this?

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By *.M79Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

You're not wrong coz it's supposed to be their profile and even if they had permission etc how can anyone know for sure it's ok with the women in the pics.

If I was to guess why it could be a way of showing off or showing they're not fake but that's what verifications are for so it kinda defeats the purpose or could put folk off through a lack of trust.

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By *urd no1Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have thought that often…

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By *orthCMan
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Totally agree … especially only guy on the profile but he’s saying him and the Mrs,GF or partner looking to try the scene … dip there toes …..while it’s probably just a guy looking for attention

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By *bcplCouple
5 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

I have let some of my play partners put photos of me on their profiles and they have let me put pics of them on mine, I think as long as they have permission faces and identifying tattoos etc aren’t shown then I don’t see the problem. Theirs only so many cock shots a guy can show off 🤣

Maybe this is where fab needs a update to be able to tag others in your photos

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I need to ask this question. What do guys thinks it achieves to have females on their profile? Like your profile is yours. You. Not the female.

I openly question it all the time. As well as the bareback pics on their profile!

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By *inkys_profile OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I have let some of my play partners put photos of me on their profiles and they have let me put pics of them on mine, I think as long as they have permission faces and identifying tattoos etc aren’t shown then I don’t see the problem. Theirs only so many cock shots a guy can show off 🤣

Maybe this is where fab needs a update to be able to tag others in your photos "

See if this was transparent as you suggested then it could be a thing in it's own right. It still doesn't sit with me though. I expect pics like that on a couples profile. Not on a single guys. Actually come to think of it, is it the same thing for a single female profile with guys on it? Actually for me, yes. The profile is about them. Not other people.

We know guys do it as a way to say 'oh look at me, I can have sex". Using the female form to lure because, let's be real here that is usually the way it works for the site. It's the female form that gets the attention. The reality is they are unaware it actually causes the opposite effect.

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By *onderlust69Couple
5 weeks ago

Scotland

It really doesn't bother me so long as they are in the picture too. I'd rather see a hot action shot of a guy that might feature someone else than 7 pictures of his dick from a different angle. I'd be concerned if the woman in the picture was identifiable or if it was just pictures of a woman and none if him.

Different strokes for different folks I suppose. X (Mrs)

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By *idmy87Man
5 weeks ago

Lenzie

The only issue for me is have other people consented to being shown in a single person’s photos? There’s no way of knowing as it stands and like someone mentioned above it would be good to have a tagging system.

Other than that I don’t see the issue. I don’t think the male body lends itself very well to being able to have lots of different varied photos (in my opinion) so I can see why people might want to add photos of them having sex to vary things up a bit. Like we say though, consent is the biggie!

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By *itkat_and_cutCouple
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

This is an interesting question - we have photos with other couples (with their full permission) but yet probably would question a single male profile that had photos of a female in them. Not easy being a single guy on here is it 🤣 We have started to 'tag' couples we are with on videos - as it's as much their video as ours.

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By *ndigo 2025Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I can see both sides of arguement. In my public and private pics I have play shots. They are always unidentifiable and I do ask permission. It adds a bit of variety from usual torso and willy pics. And also proves I'm not a virgin. Lol.

However, anything identifying or not with permission is a huge no no - verging on criminal.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I don’t like it cos of consent angle there’s no way mods can know he has her consent. While back I was chatting with someone and he admitted the pics were of his ex who had never been on fab.

Personally I think esp with law as it is now it shouldn’t be allowed on solo profiles. Men or women’s plus as you say op I wanna see the person whose profile it is.

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By *assy LassieWoman
5 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Agreed. I want to see pics of who im meeting. Would also wager at least 90% don't have consent to post.

I've also had guys admit its pics of their ex from pre fab.

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By *ueen CatWoman
5 weeks ago

fife

"This is an interesting question - we have photos with other couples (with their full permission) but yet probably would question a single male profile that had photos of a female in them. Not easy being a single guy on here is it 🤣 We have started to 'tag' couples we are with on videos - as it's as much their video as ours. "

Alot of questioning directed at men. I'm a single woman with another woman in the pic

Consent of course, but no one except us knows that.

My concern is when people have pics of others with no verifications. That's wrong.

Maybe if people want "to tag" they can mention in their veri that it's them in the picture

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By *nver40Man
5 weeks ago

Inverness

My pic, and some video of me has ended up on couples profiles… I’m not bothered, I’m not identifiable and they are hot 👍

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