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By *etlittleunicorn OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hi !

I'm just looking for some advice regarding Scottish clubs , I'm single and really interested but not a clue where to start if I'm being honest .

Any advice would be appreciated x

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By *ohnhughie22Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

dropped you a PM

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By *inky-kk69Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I found going to clubs and meeting for pre drinks got me chatting to more people which made it easier going into the club

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By *ohnhughie22Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

thats my thoughts although a daytime meet first, no drinks to begin.

club virgin here also, about to take the plunge

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By *inky-kk69Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I meant pre drinks as in you sometimes find people

Host pre drinks before clubs in a pub you don't necessarily drink I don't tend to drink at clubs.

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By *ohnhughie22Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

thats my thoughts! prefer to keep my wits, and im there to perform, so drinks not really on my thoughts.

i do like the idea of meeting up in advance though with a group

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By *ineapplesrock666Couple
5 weeks ago

Dumfries

Feel free to give us a message when could help xx

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By *inkys_profileWoman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

Do not go with a single guy you are not in a relationship with.

Do not go with a single guy and pretend to be a couple.

Go yourself or meet with other single ladies to go.

So much more I can tell you. The first 3 times I went I went myself. Unlike the absolute pusssies that are guys who don't have the balls to go themselves. I still go myself. Best way. Unlike so many single guys who want the best of both worlds and hook up with a single lass to go. Do not give that energy to someone who has no commitment to you. Message me if you want to talk more about it.

Oh and guys, like I have said on my profile, more than happy to help you out too in navigating it all. Just grow a set of balls eh and stop looking to use a single lass to access shit you can't as a single guy. Rant over

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By *cottishcherryWoman
5 weeks ago

ayrshire

Do you know any couples or other females who go always better with an experienced friend

There is telegram groups where ppl arrange to go too n u can get to know people

As the other lass says don't go your first time with a guy who yoi dont know well and arrange to go together, far too many guys have the expectation of too much by having too many assumptions on the club scene theve never been to that ps thel probably stand u up no turn upto or try get u to there hoose instead, best to meet guys at cjs or that first time exp if there not verified ect to keep safe x

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By *iJessAndCraig_ENMCouple
5 weeks ago

Glasgow ish

CJs is couples and single females only on Friday… it’s possibly one of the better nights for a newbie. Feel free to PM us and we can chat about it. Happy for you to come along with us with absolutely no obligation or expectation at all. We’re meeting some other newbies tomorrow too.

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By *igFatBabeWoman
5 weeks ago

Kink-cardine

The club in Edinburgh has social events that run prior to a club night, so there's no play it's just a fun relaxed atmosphere with stuff going on to break the ice. There's a summer one next month that will have a bbq and the last one I went to was brilliant, it was like a carnival day for adults only 😂 had the best time lol and then you can stay on at the club night after if you want to x

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

with an open mind... Wear something you feel confident in but if you met your type you'd be comfortable removing. Try to avoid excessive alcohol..I know it's Scotland and that's hard for most.. t

ry to have your phone charged to get a taxi back afterwards. You can have a post it and an IKEA sized pencil to jot down fab names etc. ironically most will mention that despite being unable to have phones inside so you'll forget screen names.

Be prepared to hear one liners...same as the one lines of your inbox they do the exact same at clubs. But again you might go when the guys have more manners it's luck of the night..

I generally book a hotel nearby so I can get dressed before and be able to get rest afterwards...if things go well extend your mat h to your hotel...if not have your toys at the hotel ready to complete the night...

Enjoy it's vastly different from what you've probably imagined...but try to enjoy it, you'll have a relatively cheap night out with decent music decent atmosphere...

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By *ighlandballsMan
5 weeks ago

perth

Some good advice here for single women

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By *etlittleunicorn OP   Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

Thank you all for your advice

Hopefully pop my club cherry sooner rather than later xx

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By *ighlandballsMan
5 weeks ago

perth


"Thank you all for your advice

Hopefully pop my club cherry sooner rather than later xx"

Lots of single or independent females go to clubs. You will enjoy the benefits in a safe environment.

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