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"The little luck will be due to a variety of reasons on your profile. You can't accommodate. You are married. You are in an open relationship. Then there is personal preference to what people find attractive. It is difficult enough to navigate this site as a single guy as it is without the added limitations you have. Have you tried Tinder or Feeld? You would honestly have much better luck on there than here with your situation xxx" Tbh truth unless you have a hold/hole there’s no interest 👍 | |||
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"The little luck will be due to a variety of reasons on your profile. You can't accommodate. You are married. You are in an open relationship. Then there is personal preference to what people find attractive. It is difficult enough to navigate this site as a single guy as it is without the added limitations you have. Have you tried Tinder or Feeld? You would honestly have much better luck on there than here with your situation xxx" Thanks for the advice. Tinder is dreadful, I've never liked it as a platform. I did use it for a month or two a few years back, but it's honestly just monetarily predatory in its setup, like a lot of dating sites. I do also use Feeld though, with limited success, the same as here. Ironically, the one person I've met from Feeld is also on here 😂 Unfortunately, my circumstances aren't going to change (I can't accommodate due to my wife and I's rules for our open marriage), and I'm obviously not going to be single, as I'm very happy with my marriage haha. Is it just circumstancial issues that are causing little engagement, or is there any changes on the profile that could improve it? Xxx | |||
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"My advice would be to attend clubs and socials. Being unable to accommodate will be an issue for some people, especially if they also can't accommodate. It's one of the most common issues I run into as I very rarely accommodate. Going to the clubs and socials allows you to meet people in person, and connect that way. For a lot of women, you're just a message lost in a sea of messages. Good luck and happy Fabbing x" | |||
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"My advice would be to attend clubs and socials. Being unable to accommodate will be an issue for some people, especially if they also can't accommodate. It's one of the most common issues I run into as I very rarely accommodate. Going to the clubs and socials allows you to meet people in person, and connect that way. For a lot of women, you're just a message lost in a sea of messages. Good luck and happy Fabbing x" This 🙌🏼 Excellent advice. It is much better in person to get the energy of someone. Like has been said above, you are just a message lost in a sea of messages. There is nothing else you need to do with your profile ☺️ xxx | |||
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"My advice would be to attend clubs and socials. Being unable to accommodate will be an issue for some people, especially if they also can't accommodate. It's one of the most common issues I run into as I very rarely accommodate. Going to the clubs and socials allows you to meet people in person, and connect that way. For a lot of women, you're just a message lost in a sea of messages. Good luck and happy Fabbing x" Mingle with the wanking dead # unless they have a partner you’re then no longer the wanking dead because they have a partner that makes that person better than you look at your partner facts 🤣🤣 Or you’re classed as a unicorn 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"My advice would be to attend clubs and socials. Being unable to accommodate will be an issue for some people, especially if they also can't accommodate. It's one of the most common issues I run into as I very rarely accommodate. Going to the clubs and socials allows you to meet people in person, and connect that way. For a lot of women, you're just a message lost in a sea of messages. Good luck and happy Fabbing x" I'm not really a club/socials kind of person, I'm a bit more introverted, and a non-drinker. I wouldn't even know where to start with it tbh, I just imagine a dark, seedy place with loud music and tons of people haha. I much prefer a one-on-one, easy coffee date to get to know someone first, and then if it leads to something, great! If not, then it's no problem. I can't accommodate at home, but always happy to get a hotel room to deal with that issue. Is it worth including that on my profile? Or would that be seen as a red flag to women? Thank you for your advice anyway, it's much appreciated 🙂 x | |||
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"My advice would be to attend clubs and socials. Being unable to accommodate will be an issue for some people, especially if they also can't accommodate. It's one of the most common issues I run into as I very rarely accommodate. Going to the clubs and socials allows you to meet people in person, and connect that way. For a lot of women, you're just a message lost in a sea of messages. Good luck and happy Fabbing x This 🙌🏼 Excellent advice. It is much better in person to get the energy of someone. Like has been said above, you are just a message lost in a sea of messages. There is nothing else you need to do with your profile ☺️ xxx" Thanks for all the feedback, it's much appreciated 😊 xxx | |||
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"I'm afraid your current status update would put me off. " Ok, can I ask why? | |||
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"I would rather see some bare flesh in photos as this isn't Facebook." Plus I read your update and have to say that a grown man who needs someone to take him somewhere is not for me. | |||
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"I would rather see some bare flesh in photos as this isn't Facebook. Plus I read your update and have to say that a grown man who needs someone to take him somewhere is not for me." I have photos like that in Friends Only, I'm not just going to show "flesh" to the whole world. I mean, cool, but I'm not exactly appealing to you? I asked for constructive feedback, not just outright criticism. | |||
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"I would rather see some bare flesh in photos as this isn't Facebook. Plus I read your update and have to say that a grown man who needs someone to take him somewhere is not for me. I have photos like that in Friends Only, I'm not just going to show "flesh" to the whole world. I mean, cool, but I'm not exactly appealing to you? I asked for constructive feedback, not just outright criticism." Not cock pics, just an idea of your body shape. I like strong thighs, hairy legs and chests but your profile gives nothing like that away. | |||
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"I like the look of you, as i love a man with a beard, you're very handsome! It's a shame you don't play together with you wife as as we are looking more for MF couples or sometimes MMF if we both are happy with the man, as we are a couple who always play together. It's tough when you cant accommodate as we have the same issue with kid at home etc but you can always try and come to some arrangement with a potential meet. xx" Thank you for the compliment, always a nice surprise 😂 yeah, it's just not for us, we prefer playing solo. I always offer a hotel as an alternative option, like dayuse. It costs money, but it does solve the accommodation issue and offers privacy as well xx | |||
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"Totally fair that you have flesh pics in your private gallery, not everyone wants it all on show (unlike me hahaha)! Get on the cams and chat to ppl as well, women love a face cam and friendly chat and banter. x" I mean, I love a good look at what people are up to, trust me and it's great that they have the confidence for it 😊 I don't mind showing anything after a few messages, but obviously not just straight off the bat.
I didn't even consider the cams tbh, might be worth a shot, thanks 😁 x | |||
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"I'm afraid your current status update would put me off. Ok, can I ask why? " I'm not here to show someone the ropes. We all had to start somewhere & most without help. I also tried helping someone once, a long time ago. Clearly, he tried to use it to his advantage & then found out when we parted ways that it wasn't so easy for him as people saw through him. | |||
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"I'm afraid your current status update would put me off. Ok, can I ask why? I'm not here to show someone the ropes. We all had to start somewhere & most without help. I also tried helping someone once, a long time ago. Clearly, he tried to use it to his advantage & then found out when we parted ways that it wasn't so easy for him as people saw through him. " I'm sorry that someone took advantage of your helpfulness. And that clearly explains why it would put you off. But just because you and others had to try it without help is a ridiculous reason not to help someone who's asking for it. If someone reaches out for help about anything (this whole forum post is for advice, for example), the first response shouldn't be "well, nobody helped me, so I'm not helping them". That's such a backwards way of thinking. I'm just glad there's other people in this community that want to help newcomers, and I would absolutely pass that help on in the future. You're always going to get bad eggs, or people taking advantage, like the guy you tried to help, in whatever activity you try to do in your life. But it shouldn't make it an obstacle for others who do genuinely need or want that help | |||
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"Your profile is incredibly open and honest. full facials and all public show a complete open-ness to this lifestlye.it doenst get more genuine that that. Its to the point but a bit lacking in detail. Would list a bit more of your likes, what your into and what you offer, and what your looking for. " Thanks for the review, I'll take your advice and try to add some more detail 🙂 | |||
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