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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

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By *ndymac888Man
9 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Reading profiles is the best part 😉

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By *inky MelissaTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen


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Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right?? "

Love it!

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By *ohnhughie22Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

I read profiles before reply.some are weird though , list they dont want single males, then in the text say they want gangbanged by loads of males, but block single males from chat ..or put meets out inc males, but are blocked!

As far a profile text goes, you get a general feel for what people want, but if you match 80% of them, but not the 20%. Do you contact?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"I read profiles before reply.some are weird though , list they dont want single males, then in the text say they want gangbanged by loads of males, but block single males from chat ..or put meets out inc males, but are blocked!

As far a profile text goes, you get a general feel for what people want, but if you match 80% of them, but not the 20%. Do you contact?"

We get so many messages from profiles that are clearly not for us, so you may be one of the better guys on here. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it! "

Feel free to use it should you require to.

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By *ohnhughie22Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Them reply to my chat please!

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By *eetootsWoman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right?? "

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

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By *hyme2020Woman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

It happens all the time. I have a preference for non attached men, men a good bit taller than me and men with hair. I say it on my profile and while I’m not going to totally discount someone for being bald, I will discount someone for not being tall and not single. Sorry guys. I then get the 5ft 4, bald married men messaging me saying I have read your profile but……

No, no buts. I am not going to physically be attracted to someone I feel like I would crush. I think most people don’t read profiles. If I get a message that I think looks ok, I will read his profile before I decide if I’m going to reply to it. It’s just the way it is on here. We can’t all be for everyone

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By *ohnhughie22Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Just as we speak just been messaged by a guy saying “nice big cock mate”.

My profile: straight - no single males

What do i say back:-

1. cheers mate, but cant let you have it”

2. Read my profile.

3. Ignore

4.if you have a wife, you can guide me in?”

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By *ndigo 2025Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Just as we speak just been messaged by a guy saying “nice big cock mate”.

My profile: straight - no single males

What do i say back:-

1. cheers mate, but cant let you have it”

2. Read my profile.

3. Ignore

4.if you have a wife, you can guide me in?”"

If you're a single guy who doesn't want contacted by guys it's simple to block them from messaging you.

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By *ohnhughie22Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Oh i do constantly, doesnt stop me wondering why it happens all the time

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By *x85xMan
9 weeks ago

glasgow

I’ll have look and read and more importantly take note of important info like no single guys or age range etc. it’s crazy how some get bruised egos when they are told no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x"

Haha brilliant, feel free to send the error message too. Wonder if anyone will figure out what the numbers mean. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"It happens all the time. I have a preference for non attached men, men a good bit taller than me and men with hair. I say it on my profile and while I’m not going to totally discount someone for being bald, I will discount someone for not being tall and not single. Sorry guys. I then get the 5ft 4, bald married men messaging me saying I have read your profile but……

No, no buts. I am not going to physically be attracted to someone I feel like I would crush. I think most people don’t read profiles. If I get a message that I think looks ok, I will read his profile before I decide if I’m going to reply to it. It’s just the way it is on here. We can’t all be for everyone "

Please feel free to use the error Code. Let's make it a thing on fab lol.

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By *ackagain1XXXMan
9 weeks ago

port glasgow


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

Haha brilliant, feel free to send the error message too. Wonder if anyone will figure out what the numbers mean. Lol"

It took a good minute trying to remember what was where 😅

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

Haha brilliant, feel free to send the error message too. Wonder if anyone will figure out what the numbers mean. Lol

It took a good minute trying to remember what was where 😅"

Sounds like you get it lol

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By *ackagain1XXXMan
9 weeks ago

port glasgow


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

Haha brilliant, feel free to send the error message too. Wonder if anyone will figure out what the numbers mean. Lol

It took a good minute trying to remember what was where 😅

Sounds like you get it lol "

It’s like the morse code for fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

Haha brilliant, feel free to send the error message too. Wonder if anyone will figure out what the numbers mean. Lol

It took a good minute trying to remember what was where 😅

Sounds like you get it lol

It’s like the morse code for fab"

Yeah only those born before 1999 will get it haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
9 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Oh i do constantly, doesnt stop me wondering why it happens all the time"
They mean use your filters so males can't message you at all I think

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By *ackagain1XXXMan
9 weeks ago

port glasgow


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

Haha brilliant, feel free to send the error message too. Wonder if anyone will figure out what the numbers mean. Lol

It took a good minute trying to remember what was where 😅

Sounds like you get it lol

It’s like the morse code for fab

Yeah only those born before 1999 will get it haha"

I suppose that could be an easy way to verify your age limits on here 😅

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By *asmine_23Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x"

Howling at this 🤣🤣🤣

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By *asmine_23Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Proud of myself for figuring it out 😂😂✊🏼💦

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Proud of myself for figuring it out 😂😂✊🏼💦"

Well done you. Feel free to use it. Lol

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By *assy LassieWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Love it. I'm using this. 🤣

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By *each_BananaCouple
9 weeks ago

China

Our profile is pretty clear...

But we still get many messages from Single Males. Some of them just presume we will meet them, it's crazy as they obviously haven't read the profile.

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By *eetootsWoman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right??

Love it 🤣😂🤣😂.

I have it on my profile not to send me a 🍆 pic but they clearly don't read it and send me a pic without even chatting, so anoying but I just fire a better 🍆 pic back 2 them (the owner of the pic has gave me permission and thinks it's hilarious 😅) x

Howling at this 🤣🤣🤣"

I do have a wee chuckle cos they are so confused.. x

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By *idmy87Man
9 weeks ago

Lenzie

You can block all single guys from contacting you.

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By *idmy87Man
9 weeks ago

Lenzie


"You can block all single guys from contacting you. "

Sorry this was in reply to Johnhughie who was getting messages from guys.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
9 weeks ago

nowhere, next to neverbinthere

Sheeeeeet, now im gonna get bombarded with error codes😜🤣🤣

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By *panksspankedMan
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

5683 48

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By *avie65Man
9 weeks ago

In the west.

Gawd it took me the best part of a day to work it out. Doh.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Op that's great😂

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right?? "

Spot on and genius response.

We will be using this in future, it'll save a lot of time when the need to reply and vent gets the better of us.

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By *uboCouple
9 weeks ago

East kilbride

Why not just block right away ?

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Why not just block right away ?"

Over time preferences change, if you have a large block list the oldest ones disappear of the bottom of the list.

In our experience someone we have blocked early on based on what we were looking for then, we later met in a club and got to know them, the only way to unblock them on here was to unblock all those we blocked after them so that they appear in the list again.

Not a practical solution if you have a large blocklist, which given the size of the issue raised, isn't hard to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Always read profiles, always send a polite relevant carefully constructed initial opening salutation.. .. No replies... ... Zzzz .. forums full of women and couples complaining about all the rude men .. .. ..

Seems all the rude men get the chat .. 🤷‍♂️

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By *igboobiesCouple
9 weeks ago

Saltcoats


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right?? "

Love this and I agree hate it when people don't read then get arsey, I will be using these

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Already losing count of the number of times we have used this.

Anyone else wonder how long before a post goes up here asking what this error code is.

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By *uctifanoWoman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Who hates it when someone doesn't read your profile but messages you anyway and they get a bit cunty when you're a bit short and cheeky with the rejection?

We get this so much, we've tried to be very clear with what we want as well as what our circumstances allow, but still they message, and with us being Scottish we don't really have much patience if they request something we've been clear that we can't do. This ultimately leads to a cheeky message then someone gets rude and the block button is used. Or!!! You copy and paste this simple message. Good idea or not?

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Your Fabswingers.com profile has contacted this profile despite clear indication of incompatibility.

To avoid future Errors Codes please ensure careful consideration of the preferences of other profiles and only contact those with preferences and interests similar to yours.

Error Code;\\ 92665533777.

Too much or just right?? "

proper chuckled at this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Already losing count of the number of times we have used this.

Anyone else wonder how long before a post goes up here asking what this error code is.

"

Haha great, we've been looking to see if something comes up in the forums. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Already losing count of the number of times we have used this.

Anyone else wonder how long before a post goes up here asking what this error code is.

Haha great, we've been looking to see if something comes up in the forums. Lol. "

We gave this some thought and realised if it's too much effort to read a profile given the potential gains, there's slim to little chance they'll read the message, let alone the forums.

But we still like the one size fits all reply.

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