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By *xplorer8969 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Ellon

Not one for posting on forums however this something that’s crossed my mind a few times during foreplay but never happened so figured I’d ask on here…

Ladies, once you have a few fingers in and are really wet would you prefer to aim for orgasm or try for more?

Given time and plenty lube do you/would you want to work up to taking a fist - is there gain?

I guess this will be down to personal preference however generally is more inside more pleasurable or is there a happy medium?

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By *NV14INVCouple
9 weeks ago

Inverness

Interesting point.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

2-3 fingers maximum for me I don't enjoy being fisted

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By *xplorer8969 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Ellon

"Interesting point. "

Thanks, would you be willing to share any preference or opinions?

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By *xplorer8969 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Ellon

"2-3 fingers maximum for me I don't enjoy being fisted "

Completely understand, thanks for you input

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By *yrdsisWoman
9 weeks ago

Gleam Street

It's very much personal preference... I don't like fingers at all let alone a hand... it was done to me once and just yuck.

Quite sure other ladies love it... communication is key here!

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By *asmine_23Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Personally there’s a happy medium for me to be able to orgasm, but I find working up to a fist (or almost that) pleasurable, but more because I get a kick out of it rather than it feels good, if that makes sense? To orgasm, 2-3 shall do it

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By *xplorer8969 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Ellon

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By *onderlust69Couple
9 weeks ago

Scotland

I've never had it, but it's something that I'd love to try when I'm in a really dirty submissive play mood. Just need someone that makes me feel relaxed enough and has patience and possibly smallish hands 🙈.

On the flip side I sometimes just want gentle and sensual so it would entirely depend on my mood. My needs, wants and desires change like the weather 🤣 xx Mrs

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By *xplorer8969 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Ellon

"It's very much personal preference... I don't like fingers at all let alone a hand... it was done to me once and just yuck.

Quite sure other ladies love it... communication is key here!"

That’s something I hadn’t really considered before writing the post as there has almost always been foreplay with fingering before sex with anyone I’ve been with - completely agree on communication! Thanks

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By *ndymac888Man
9 weeks ago

Dumbarton

It’s a bit like butt stuff, if she is in the mood to push boundaries then you might get the green light.

It’s more popular on Fab than I was expecting though. But even if it’s an interest it’s more than likely going to be a response in the moment.

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By *ardonNWMan
9 weeks ago

South Lanarkshire

yes feeding the pony rather than fist

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By *cottishcherryWoman
9 weeks ago

ayrshire

Yeh its a very personal thing to answer, are you aiming to fist someone?

Always best to communicate expecially while playing n if it goes that way it can, some guys just fingers feel so boney and just not pleasurable even with 1 finger n some guys fingers feel like magic lol its totally a unique experience to the people involved like all aspecs of fun

I always say i may have ticked all the boxes (on fab) but that doesnt mean im up for all my boxes being ticked

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
9 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Yeh its a very personal thing to answer, are you aiming to fist someone?

I always say i may have ticked all the boxes (on fab) but that doesnt mean im up for all my boxes being ticked "

Totally agree with what you've said, but especially the last sentence. Sex isn't a one trick thing, sometimes you want one thing, next time you might want another. It all depends on mood.

While footings never something I've really sought out, it's something that I have indulged with my current partner. It just happened naturally for us while having sex. I'm also fortunate to have relatively small hands 🙈

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By *ohnhughie22Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Fisting is great

Been with ladies that only like 2 fingers

Others ive managed whole hand in a rhythmic turning motion

Patience, rhythm and lubrication

Its down to the lady being comfortable so not alway possible

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I started like many of us with a few fingers the id end up fisting her ,she loved it and came loads .

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By *ath1to1Man
8 weeks ago

bathgate

Agree I prefer the control that individual fingers can provide . But good communication and trust is a must

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By *reedyKWoman
8 weeks ago

Fife

When I'm in the mood I love to be fisted and it's the most intense full body orgasm I've experienced. I've also fisted another woman and that was an incredible feeling. Lots of communication, patience and lube!!

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By *herrypickedWoman
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Not that only one or 2 fingers feel bad but I always want kore, I love to feel full. It's very rare that any kind of penetrative o it's own will make me cum, but I cum so much harder and longer when I can have both internal and external stimulation

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By *ohnhughie22Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

That is a wonderful post.

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By *ohnhughie22Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

That is a wonderful post.

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By *igad999Man
8 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Wife loves oral and fingering and that’s always the foreplay

When really turned on 3 fingers turns into 4 etc and I will push inside fully. She pushes back and once in literally she’s gushing

It’s not always a regular thing but when it happens wow

And the gape when pulling out too is such a turn on

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I prefer to remain tight and with a grip...

maybe if I was ran through and had a busted any pole for the hole..I'd be like those that require to be fisted

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By *assy LassieWoman
7 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"I prefer to remain tight and with a grip...

maybe if I was ran through and had a busted any pole for the hole..I'd be like those that require to be fisted "

No judgement then🤷‍♀️

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By *otfunx1Man
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

She loves being fisted. Loves it full and deep makes her squirt lots

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By *reedyKWoman
7 weeks ago

Fife

"I prefer to remain tight and with a grip...

maybe if I was ran through and had a busted any pole for the hole..I'd be like those that require to be fisted "

Wow, clearly require another biology lesson, ignorant misinformed comment.

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By *amierebelMan
7 weeks ago

My own little world

If you can’t get a lass off… sorry lady off with using a couple eh fingers you’re clearly doing something wrong 👍

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By *amierebelMan
7 weeks ago

My own little world

"I prefer to remain tight and with a grip...

maybe if I was ran through and had a busted any pole for the hole..I'd be like those that require to be fisted "

I always look at comments after posting but this seems like the norm 👊…… sorry 🤞

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
7 weeks ago

New Cumnock

I am waay too tiny and tight for a fist and it's not really my bag either tbh.

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
7 weeks ago

New Cumnock

Hahahaha!!

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