FabSwingers.com forum: Wife needs boyfriend

By *oneys1 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here.

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By *elsbells2011Couple
13 weeks ago

fife

Almost impossible. We’ve tried and tried and probably heard every lie or story they can spin just to get you to meet them. Will promise the earth about being up for regular meetings but in truth you will be doing well even to get one meeting from them and almost always are never interested in becoming regular in the slightest. We’ve had more luck on dating apps and finding guys who are not looking for first date fucks and are happy getting a few vanilla dates under the belt first with Helen then we introduce the fact we are swingers but looking to find a regular boyfriend arrangement. Some guys run for the hills but most guys are intrigued and want to find out more, usually set up another date style meet but this time hubby included so everyone knows genuine and on board. This approach has lead us to 3 longer term guys and all have become more than just sex meets. Sorry to waffle on but definitely looking on here just tends to lead to wasted time and frustration unless your happy with mostly one off meets

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By *exsaCouple
13 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I honestly feel your pain. Been looking for similar for nearly 2 years and made had a maximum of 3 dates with someone.

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By *ellinever70Woman
13 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

Be single?

Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty

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By *dinburghcouple77Couple
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We are the same it’s like finding a needle in a haystack lol x

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By *elsbells2011Couple
13 weeks ago

fife

"Be single?

Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty "

Bit of a narrow minded comment is it not??

Who has ever mentioned about a novelty as you have no idea what depth of boyfriend the op is looking for.

Personally the last guy we had lasted 2.5yrs and ended up almost full 3 way poly relationship with Helen spending very regular time with him. We have a campervan and they would have weekends away together and sometimes all 3 of us. They had a week in turkey together and he joined us on a week in Spain. Our family had all met him on the understanding he was my good friend and I’m sure there was some strong suspicion of our arrangement. Luckily he lived far enough for no friend cross over but close enough to easily be together so his friends were all fully aware of the full situation. His job involved him working away so he didn’t have time for the full family life so suited him perfectly the arrangement we all had. Only reason

We parted is he took a permanent job in Dubai so became impossible.

Maybe the op isn’t looking for this deep an arrangement but you me or anybody doesn’t have enough context to make judgments on whether or not it is a novelty situation they seek.

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By *entoMan
13 weeks ago

norwich

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

Arghhh!!! Why I can’t find people like you too in my area ?!?

Absolutely gorgeous!!! Nice profile

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

We have spoke about this too x

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I have this arrangement but long distance so only meet when life allows but exclusive to me

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By *xperimenting pairCouple
13 weeks ago

Helensburgh

Mrs E is brand new to all this but I have had an account t on here for over 10 years that I am sporadic on until we made a couple profile and I know exactly where all these comments here are coming from we are just starting to come back on after a 2nd break because Mrs E has been put off by the timewaisters the last guy knew he turned Mrs E on so would message and tease her all up till she is basically there then just disappear for a day or days and this wasn't a 1 off this was loads had tk delete and re write profile 3 times as we were sure we must be attracting the wrong sort

When I was on as a single male and now we are on as a couple I can totally see why single guys never get a mail we can't even get to the social stage and really not sure what way we want to go if any couple wants to mail for advice or anything or just a chat we both use site so could be either messaging

I am not writing this for single guys to go try me blah blah blah

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By *olinb1Man
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"We are the same it’s like finding a needle in a haystack lol x"

I recently lost my wife and in returning most say I’m to old these days x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
13 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Be single?

Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty

Bit of a narrow minded comment is it not??

Who has ever mentioned about a novelty as you have no idea what depth of boyfriend the op is looking for.

We parted is he took a permanent job in Dubai so became impossible.

Maybe the op isn’t looking for this deep an arrangement but you me or anybody doesn’t have enough context to make judgments on whether or not it is a novelty situation they seek.

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Spot on !

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By *noopyMan
13 weeks ago

Greenock

Hey fwb here if required 😉

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By *erryandjuneCouple
13 weeks ago

Livingston

We are going one further in the impossibility stakes and trying to find a regular girlfriend for us both to have fun with.

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By *quaRegiaMan
13 weeks ago

Spitalfields, East London

I'd love to be a married woman's boyfriend

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By *appyman3943Man
13 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Any Aberdeen couples with the same dilemma?

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By *ab_Fucker_xxxMan
13 weeks ago

Bellshill

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By *scobar67Man
13 weeks ago

glasgow

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By *scobar67Man
13 weeks ago

glasgow

Never imagined it being hard for any sexy wife to find a reliable BF too please them

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By *cotman2025Man
13 weeks ago

Surrey & Glasgow

I’m intrigued by this post as I felt it was just single guys that struggled to actually find something a bit more regular and meaningful. I was on Fab a few years back, but got bored with time wasters and it’s still a bit of the same set up. I hope you all find what you are looking for!

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By *innersh WillMan
13 weeks ago

I guess it all depends what is meant by a boyfriend in this context.

Is it someone to wine, dine, take out on dates, buy her gifts and presents, take her away on weekends… and then she goes home to her husband? i.e. a lot of financial input for a side shag with no commitment?

Or is it a just a regular “go to” person when the wife is feeling horny, with shared or minimal costs involved?

Both are fine, by the way, but I guess the pool of men prepared to do the former may be smaller than the latter and hence harder to find?

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By *quirt CobainWoman
13 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I guess it all comes down to preferences in what any user is looking for on here .

I'd hazard a guess that a big majority of guys are herefor uncomplicated meets where there is very little commitment required and the boyfriend label might just be a little to commitment focused for what they're looking for .

I think alot of guys get harshly judged for their preferences unfairly . Everyone's here for their own reasons .

Perhaps for the specific need and want of a boyfriend a polygamous based site might fair better than a site thats designed for swinging casual hook ups.

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By *otwife1982!Couple
13 weeks ago

usually on a island - somtimes not

Just a regular FWB or 2 that’s willing to travel to the inner Hebrides would be ideal for us, can live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I can't believe there is a woman here who can't find what they need if it's related to men.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here... ... ..."

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...she needs to leave the venerated land known as Caledonia and saunter slowly towards the Dickensian streets of ye olde London Towne. 😇

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
13 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

If all the single men are being taken up by hot wives could I maybe borrow the husbands 😇😂

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By *ackl60Man
13 weeks ago

Falkirk

id be more than happy to chat with any of you about this...

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By *hick8Man
13 weeks ago

north Lanarkshire

I can be your wife's BF

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By *xperimenting pairCouple
13 weeks ago

Helensburgh

I can as a couple I see the mail we receive and we are looking to be tempted into trying things we think we want to start with mr watching while Mrs is with a guy but the problem is virtually no mail we receive tempts her as they are either far to long and just rabbit on or short like fancy a fuck.

Mrs has to be attracted to the guy and has to be turned on by him and we have no intrest in bi guys or married guys that are cheating.

We are definatly not desperate so we won't settle for he will do we both know it will take time to find the right one especially on here.

And the way some guys speak to her is just vile but that is why the block list grows.

We are currently re writing our profile for the 4th time so thinking what to write but you say you don't understand women struggling well trust me there is loads of blokes but finding the right one a needle in a haystack is easier.

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By *otwifedundeex2Woman
13 weeks ago

Dundee

Been looking for this for years without any luck. I’ve no interest in casual hook ups. A local boyfriend would be ideal.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
13 weeks ago

nowhere, next to neverbinthere

This seems like an ideal situation for a single guy, i honestly couldnt say why its so hard, all the women on here looking are all great looking, what is wrong with guys on here🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

The problem here might be that the most of guys just want to see your pictures, videos and have a wank. When someone asks about meeting in person they very often block you or disappear (work both ways though) I have a lots of messages even from guys who only want to wank despite of the fact I’m not bi or gay.

Would life not be more interesting if we all meet rather than dream?

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By *ergus1622Man
13 weeks ago

Dundee

I would be willing to help a wife with being a fwb as this is what I am after.

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By *i versMan
13 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I'm definitely not a time wasters and into meeting

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By *i versMan
13 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I'm close to you sexy

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By *ack1971Man
13 weeks ago

Cork

"The problem here might be that the most of guys just want to see your pictures, videos and have a wank. When someone asks about meeting in person they very often block you or disappear (work both ways though) I have a lots of messages even from guys who only want to wank despite of the fact I’m not bi or gay.

Would life not be more interesting if we all meet rather than dream? "

Absolutely correct. I moved a guy from my profile here to verify as a couple for him, txt on phone, swapped pics, making arrangements, he knew what we were looking for and agreeable....then he disappears. Comes back 2 days later asking me what happened? All of a sudden he doesn't know "how things work"

Eh hello?

Pure gaslighters. How he is verified, I will never know.

Not to mention the straight guys looking for me to meet them for bi fun, and I'm purely straight.

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By *halquoneMan
13 weeks ago

alva

It’s really hard to meet anyone on here. I understand, so many people just wanting fun. I would love to find good friend.

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By *aughtydave81Man
13 weeks ago

Matlock

I'm genuinely amazed that you're having so much difficulty given the amount of guys on here, however my amazement is tempered by all the comments across many threads stating how poor some guys are at basic, polite and well written messages along with empty or minimalist profiles. It is tough on here as a single guy even when some effort goes into the profile and messages. I've sent many messages that haven't been replied to, I take it on the chin and accept that we all have our own preferences and I certainly won't float everyone's boat. If I had arranged a meet I'd need my leg to fall off (or similar) before cancelling. Hopefully you'll find the right match soon.

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By *xperimenting pairCouple
13 weeks ago

Helensburgh

The amount of mail couples get on here and I can't talk for single females is unreal and it is impossible to reply to half nevermind all mail.

If your out in the pub and wink to someone over a bar and they turn away do you go running after them telling them they are rude

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By *ixed NCMan
13 weeks ago

livingston

Personally I’m struggling to find the other way, looking for someone to be a boyfriend for in these situations and having no real luck, except getting the messages from guys on single profiles asking to meet them and their partner but when you ask to speak to the partner too… you get blocked 🥹

But, if any couples here are interested, my mails open and I’d love to arrange a date or 2

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By *ipserviceCoolMan
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

Give me a message I can help you out no issues no hassle.

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By *uietbloke67Man
13 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I'm surprised at this thread.

I would have thought the ladies commenting in this thread would be inundated with suitors.

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By *BC lollipopMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere around Glasgow

Fact, but it’s not true. Some people are looking for genuine people to share intimate but we don’t even get it.

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By *avie65Man
13 weeks ago

In the west.

I don’t think you are doing yourself any favours OP.

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By *ab_Fucker_xxxMan
13 weeks ago

Bellshill

I was a single guy and met a married couple for a 3 some and then ended up being the boyfriend of the wife for 9 years which was great so it definitely can happen, and it can work great.

If you have manors, make an effort and your a nice person good things can happen on fab for sure!

Btw this was back when fab was full of actual swingers

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By *eebee9Couple
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Can't imagine why someone in this thread has been blocked!!!

What an absolute charmer.....

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Scotland

Well am happy to help!! A could be boyfriend material

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By *avie65Man
13 weeks ago

In the west.

"I don’t think you are doing yourself any favours OP. "

Doh. Sorry I didn’t mean OP. I meant him who’s posts are no longer here. 🤦

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By *appyman3943Man
13 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Would be delighted to be a FWB to a local Aberdeen friendly couple. Even better if they were looking for daytime fun.

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By *ryan_JerryCouple
13 weeks ago

GLASGOW

I would like her to have young boyfriend. Come home fill off cum for me to clean up

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By *heekychap4funMan
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *heekychap4funMan
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"We are the same it’s like finding a needle in a haystack lol x"

I will be your needle if you supply the haystack

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By *dinburghCouplexxCouple
13 weeks ago

edinburgh

We feel your pain. Exactly the same boat as us on here meeting good quality potential guys. Any ideas are welcome

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By *LikeToPlay792025Man
13 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

I would happily be her bf given the chance

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By *ouplelovingguyMan
13 weeks ago

west lothian

I’m a single guy and would love to be a woman boyfriend or fuck buddy. Message me if interested xx

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By *hick8Man
13 weeks ago

north Lanarkshire

I'd love to be your wife's secret lover

if interested get in touch

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By *estiswestMan
13 weeks ago

glasgow

Have experienced this from both sides

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By *aptor88Man
13 weeks ago

Kilwinning/Glasgow

I volunteer as tribute!!

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By *aulsmith45Man
13 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Believe it or not there are plenty happy to be. I have been the bit for a married couple a few times. Not since in east Lothian though. Always happy to chat and see what happens

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By *hick8Man
13 weeks ago

north Lanarkshire

I'd love to be your wife's regular FB

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I would love to be your wife’s plaything

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By *eddevil11Man
13 weeks ago

perth

Hi. I'm up for been wife boyfriend if any couple needs

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

What does the wife want in her bf?? How does this work around your marriage? I would, like many, love to be a wife's boyfriend.

There to please her, without having to do the housework? 🤔😂

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By *ouMeandThemCouple
12 weeks ago

Stranraer

"Almost impossible. We’ve tried and tried and probably heard every lie or story they can spin just to get you to meet them. Will promise the earth about being up for regular meetings but in truth you will be doing well even to get one meeting from them and almost always are never interested in becoming regular in the slightest. We’ve had more luck on dating apps and finding guys who are not looking for first date fucks and are happy getting a few vanilla dates under the belt first with Helen then we introduce the fact we are swingers but looking to find a regular boyfriend arrangement. Some guys run for the hills but most guys are intrigued and want to find out more, usually set up another date style meet but this time hubby included so everyone knows genuine and on board. This approach has lead us to 3 longer term guys and all have become more than just sex meets. Sorry to waffle on but definitely looking on here just tends to lead to wasted time and frustration unless your happy with mostly one off meets"

I would love to find a boyfriend but I have found exactly the same problem on Fab.

Can I ask what dating sites you have used to find a suitable guy.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
12 weeks ago

London, Scotland & The North,

"We feel your pain. Exactly the same boat as us on here meeting good quality potential guys. Any ideas are welcome

I would suggest keep looking as only you know of any stipulations or specific attributes etc you seek

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By *nythingman69Man
12 weeks ago

johnstone

I love this concept. I used to have this scenario with my ex. We’re animals after all and need some variety. More than a willing boyfriend here.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's all down to the couples preference - I've often thought it's more on the other side, but the more people who are involved in the dynamic

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By *oger_81Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm open to this. I know that me being be scares a lot of couples, not really know why, but I understand, everyone has their preferences.

You can check my profile and my verifications, I'm selective about people I meet, I only meet people who I consider being in the same wave length as me. Down to earth, safe and happy with life. Being with an extremely hot person, not always results in a great experience, so I'm very selective when it comes to personality.

Anyways, I don't usually message people on here, if people want to chat they'll reach out. I send the occasional wink or fab the occasional video or pic, but I don't spend too long on here.

If you want a regular boyfriend in Glasgow city centre, feel free to reach out.

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By *e_frenchMan
11 weeks ago

edinburgh

Interesting conversation, it looks like that finding the right person is not easy…

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By *090tangoMan
11 weeks ago

I'd happily be a bit on the side for you milfs

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By *i versMan
11 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I would definitely be your bit on the side as I love having fun and in Fife Scotland

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

Feel free to PM me x

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I honestly feel your pain. Been looking for similar for nearly 2 years and made had a maximum of 3 dates with someone. "

Feel free to PM me x

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"We are the same it’s like finding a needle in a haystack lol x"

Feel me to PM me x

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here.

We have spoke about this too x"

Let’s have a chat then? X

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I have this arrangement but long distance so only meet when life allows but exclusive to me "

Fine for me. PM me please x

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Just a regular FWB or 2 that’s willing to travel to the inner Hebrides would be ideal for us, can live in hope

Let’s add have a chat x

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Been looking for this for years without any luck. I’ve no interest in casual hook ups. A local boyfriend would be ideal. "

Not local, but interested x

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By *asker99Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I would like her to have young boyfriend. Come home fill off cum for me to clean up "

Let’s have a chat? x

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By *ilgrimsMan
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm in Edinburgh and surrounding areas give me a pm I'm available .

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
11 weeks ago

Gloucester

‘A’ boyfriend?!?

Ha Wifey has 3 and is working on a 4th!

The two months have been Very interesting

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By *unrigMan
11 weeks ago

aberdeen

Some good honest guys are available on the site , we are not all dreamers and fanatics .

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By *laytodayMan
11 weeks ago

local

Would love the chance to meet and meet hopefully be a regular for you guys

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By *yeSureMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

My wife with a boyfriend? Interesting

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By *.Anony mouseMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

It’s not easy for guys either, too many time wasters have ruined it for single men on here, (hola to all who try to keep fab real)

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By *ipserviceCoolMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Look no further, give me a message and we can sort something out

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By *ndymac888Man
11 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Depends on what role you plan for the boyfriend.

Is the role just to go on dates and have some hot nights. Is the boyfriend allowed to see other woman in the dynamic ? I like the idea of a relationship only focused on the romantic and the sexual but ultimately it’s a lot of investment into a woman that ultimately is dedicated to someone else.

Being someone’s boyfriend comes with some responsibility beyond the fun stuff, I would deffo need to get more of a return than just being summoned at someone’s convenience.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I would love a regukar arrangement but struggle here as lots of fakes and scammers. Also people can afford to be choosy so matching up is never easy

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By *ergus1622Man
11 weeks ago

Dundee

Love to have a sexy wife as a gf/ fwb. I'm sure my wife would love it too and probably want to join in.

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
11 weeks ago

Falkirk

I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.

We're not local to each other, she's is Aberdeen and I'm Falkirk. We met through a dating app out with Fab, one of the slightly more leftfield ones. Certainly she had similar issues to OP, lots of guys messaging who were either time-wasters, ghosted her, stood her up or weren't "okay" with her being married. She was looking for a more casual boyfriend with occasional meets for dates and sex etc. She was always honest about it being okay for her and the other person to develop feelings of that happened. We met and have became long term partners with a firm commitment to each other. Neither of us were expecting it to become this serious, but it has. She is bisexual and would like to express her bi-side again as she hasn't for a long time. In time we want to look towards swinging together whilst maintaining our own relationship as well as her and her husbands.

It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.

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By *rS_1980Man
11 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Would love a regular arrangement but I can understand the difficulties faced by the OP. Seems the site has more time wasters and dreamers than ever.

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By *hogun300Man
11 weeks ago

Dundee

Would love a scenario where my Mrs had a longterm fb who also did things out the bedroom. It's difficult to find we have looked before. But hopefully one day.

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By *nebworthMan
11 weeks ago

Knebworth

That is not a waffle, that is very interesting.

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By *exsaCouple
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.

It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there. "

I love this! Its great to see when it works.

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By *bcplCouple
11 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Stick in there folks it does happen, my hotwife has had a few FB’s, they come and go, life gets in the way and it’s not always a priority but when it does work it’s worth the hard work and patience.

Ghosting, no shows, sh’t patter and guys down on performance are all part of the journey to that one right guy r guys

that click

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
11 weeks ago

Falkirk

"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.

It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.

I love this! Its great to see when it works. "

Yeah, quite unexpected for both of us to be honest. We've just clicked and it works.

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.

It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.

I love this! Its great to see when it works.

Yeah, quite unexpected for both of us to be honest. We've just clicked and it works. "

How does your current situation affect meeting other women?

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
11 weeks ago

Falkirk

"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.

It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.

I love this! Its great to see when it works.

Yeah, quite unexpected for both of us to be honest. We've just clicked and it works.

How does your current situation affect meeting other women?"

At the moment it doesn't. For now we're just concentrating on nurturing our relationship so it's not really a factor. In time we may choose to meet others together, or separately. She has no issue in me meeting others and I'd also choose to be open and honest with anyone else about being partnered.

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By *otWife and CuckoldCouple
11 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

Same my wife need a BF

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By *lasgowg53Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

Applying for any females that need a fab bf x

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By *hebigyin1986Man
11 weeks ago

Irvine Ayrshire

Definitely be interested in something as thrilling and exciting as this definitely be fun and very hot

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By *oDownEasyMan
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't know why it should be so hard (ooh err missus!) as I thought most blokes would jump at the chance is something deeper than a quickie, and regularly, or maybe that's just me? I can see why time wasters put people off, just making it harder for genuine guys who get tarred with the same brush .

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By *yeSureMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *bonyseekrMan
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

FWB available here..... Pm your application lol

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By *oadie00Man
11 weeks ago

Bellshill

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

I'm having the same issue with a girl, I see "I want regular meets" then after 2 or 3 they're gone

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By *acks_92Man
11 weeks ago

highlands

Would love to have FWB with a hot wife so she can go home and tell her man about her fun

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By *acks_92Man
10 weeks ago

highlands

Well I might be able to help with that as I am up that way as well be fun

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By *penminded1234500Man
10 weeks ago

Peterhead

I'm looking to get into the Polly life style and willing to travel Scotland regularly for this

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By *inghoyukMan
10 weeks ago

East Kilbride / Strathaven

I’ve done this before with a couple which lasted over three years. It was brilliant, but just required us to keep in touch and plan ahead for meets.

I’d love to find it again, and I’m verified through party meets, but I think it’s harder as a single bloke to find a regular couple! x

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By *yeSureMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

If you’ve been the boyfriend, what’s been what you’ve enjoyed?

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Love the sound of this anyone looking Motherwell way.

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By *inghoyukMan
10 weeks ago

East Kilbride / Strathaven

what’s not to like? 😈

seriously though, I think as you get to know each other, what we like and what she likes, it really does get better! Also, nice banter and chat is good too!

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By *nkedscotMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Suits some not others …

I travel with work so it suits me but as we all know couples / females get loads of mail so your mail gets lost sometimes or bulk deleted .. and on the other side spent time chatting , sent pics etc talked about meets picking up wife etc to go for a meal etc then they disappear ! And drop you a message a month later as if they have never spoke to you … er no thanks

There is guys out there that have the time and it would suit both , maybe you have to reach out to them

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By *ingerHefeMan
10 weeks ago

the burgh

I would happily apply for the role of bf on the side. The issues of wading through all the nonsense to find the hidden gems work both ways.

Couples and people in general can’t find the reliable single fella on the side. Or the reliable unicorn.

On the same token there are so many idiots and time wasters the profiles mentioned above are very dubious and skeptical leaving the genuine ones lost in the mix of shitty ones

Goes both ways. Best thing to do is to be patient, keep trying and eventually you’ll find what you’re looking for.

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By *phroDizzyYakMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm definitely up for this.

Genuinely genuine, and not a timewaster

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By *f123Man
10 weeks ago

central

I reckon it depends on what you are looking for.

Age,commitment,endowment,looks,

personality,and I could go on and on.

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By *ohnhughie22Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

This is an eye opening post!

Cant believe we have couples struggling to get a regular single guy to have regular sex with.

Seriously? Does this happen?

I recon this site is 50% single males, 30% couples. 10% single females.5% TV, 5% fake profiles and creeps.

From what i see its single males hunting couples primarily

Anyone struggling drop me a line

John

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By *obert RichardsMan
9 weeks ago

Here nearby

"Be single?

Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty

Bit of a narrow minded comment is it not??

Who has ever mentioned about a novelty as you have no idea what depth of boyfriend the op is looking for.

We parted is he took a permanent job in Dubai so became impossible.

Maybe the op isn’t looking for this deep an arrangement but you me or anybody doesn’t have enough context to make judgments on whether or not it is a novelty situation they seek.

Could start a long distance one as I'm in London x

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By *andyman4uanddiscreetMan
9 weeks ago

see location

Any wives near me looking for a discreet genuine guy

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By *arcy130370Man
7 weeks ago

dysart

I'd join u

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By *he hotwifes choiceMan
7 weeks ago

glasgow

"This is an eye opening post!

Cant believe we have couples struggling to get a regular single guy to have regular sex with.

Seriously? Does this happen?

I recon this site is 50% single males, 30% couples. 10% single females.5% TV, 5% fake profiles and creeps.

From what i see its single males hunting couples primarily

Anyone struggling drop me a line

John

It’s because the majority of single males aren’t single and can’t commit to what the OP is looking for for.

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By *halynmCouple
7 weeks ago

glasgow

If any couples are looking for boyfriends/girlfreinds let’s make it happen all parties happy. Or is it mainly just one half of couple looking?

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By *ndymac888Man
7 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Probably easier than finding a girlfriend 😉

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
7 weeks ago

near you

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

All you really need to do is PM me.

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By *imHerAndWhoCouple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *phroDizzyYakMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Throwing my hat into the ring for this 🖐️

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By *aylorMan
7 weeks ago

Fife

I would be up for this, however most couples look for a Dom man as well as hung.

Rules me oot

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By *oco_BanjoMan
7 weeks ago

Paisley

"Would love to have FWB with a hot wife so she can go home and tell her man about her fun "

This - would love to have FWB who is a hot wife, with discretion, sending her back to her man fully satisfied, and her sending me back to my wife fully satisfied is a pretty big turn on for me. It’s just getting the discretion element for me - not everyone wants to be discreet it seems. Required due to home and work life, unfortunately but would love to experience this.

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
7 weeks ago

near you

"Would love to have FWB with a hot wife so she can go home and tell her man about her fun

It’s the time to do it regularly. Everyone is busy these days

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By *yeSureMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I have offered my services before. Discreet and easy going no drama and always respectful. Maybe I should say and do things all wrong. Maybe even get a answer if I did that. As shits seem to be getting more attention from the women on fab than I am. Seems you want drama.

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By *ablito88Man
6 weeks ago

Near you

If any wife needs bf I am here to help :D

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By *hogun300Man
6 weeks ago

Dundee

"I have offered my services before. Discreet and easy going no drama and always respectful. Maybe I should say and do things all wrong. Maybe even get a answer if I did that. As shits seem to be getting more attention from the women on fab than I am. Seems you want drama."

But surely you see there has to he a connection and an attraction? And that has to go both ways. Very difficult to find, we have hoped to find a a reg fb for the mrs for ages. Its not just about someone saying i will.

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By *ont disappointMan
6 weeks ago

Dundee

This sounds very interesting xx

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By *ergus1622Man
6 weeks ago

Dundee

Would like to have a wife gf/fwb as my wife has a fwb too. It's hard to get noticed through all the time wasters and then also having the attraction there to!

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By *b2bCouple
6 weeks ago

glasgow

Ideally I would like a bi bf and a bi gf to be part of our lives but not a bi couple i would rather keep them separate x

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By *ustforfun8824Man
6 weeks ago

Limerick

Pm for wife chat!

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By *oubleightMan
6 weeks ago

by the sea

Looks like I need to consider a relocation...

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By *erotic_adventureMan
6 weeks ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Perseverance is key and what's for you won't pass you

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By *exsaCouple
6 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I think you are on to something there.

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By *iatorMan
6 weeks ago

crossgates

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

Hey, I’ve looked at your profile I’m not believing you can’t find a guy and especially on here buttttt if you are struggling I’d throw my hat in the ring or anywhere else come to that haha.

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By *oco_BanjoMan
6 weeks ago

Paisley

I’ve thrown my hat in the ring few times with this person and they’ve not even read my message. Then I see posts like this on the forum and think, why am I even bothering reaching out. It seems the person is looking for attention and likes/Fabs more than an actual boyfriend, but that’s just my initial thoughts. I figured I’m wasting my own time with that so I’ve given up and blocked them so I don’t see them on my feed or searches.

My own search continues lol

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By *assy LassieWoman
6 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"I’ve thrown my hat in the ring few times with this person and they’ve not even read my message. Then I see posts like this on the forum and think, why am I even bothering reaching out. It seems the person is looking for attention and likes/Fabs more than an actual boyfriend, but that’s just my initial thoughts. I figured I’m wasting my own time with that so I’ve given up and blocked them so I don’t see them on my feed or searches.

My own search continues lol"

Or maybe they are just not interested in you!!

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By *oco_BanjoMan
6 weeks ago

Paisley

Yip! Could be that too lol.

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
6 weeks ago

Falkirk

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By *ertsalaughMan
6 weeks ago

RENFREW

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

I'd say most guys would be up for that, but potentially think that they are not what you're looking for (type) and not message, try putting your type or preferences and that might bring more genuine folk

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By *irthybrownMan
6 weeks ago

near you

I like the idea of regular but I find I meet the couple . The say regular but not really as they start looking for more meets in between so I think it’s not easy to find regular which I would like.

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By *acelvisMan
6 weeks ago

thurso

In another life this is something that I’d have been interested in. Something regular and finding people you can get along with and connect with. Is far better than a one of meet Although these days a one off meet would be nice but far from easy

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."

So..many weeks later, does the wife have a boyfriend yet?

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By *acks_92Man
6 days ago

highlands

"Just a regular FWB or 2 that’s willing to travel to the inner Hebrides would be ideal for us, can live in hope

What part of the inner Hebrides I might be close by

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By *urenutsMan
6 days ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Any couples travelling to London interested drop me a message.

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By *tsMyPleasure.Man
6 days ago

near Stirling

Unfortunately for me it seems that once you get past 50 or 55 there are very few women or couples that want to know. I’d love to meet for a social, but even that seems to be difficult in most cases!

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By *onnyMan
6 days ago

falkirk

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By *onnyMan
6 days ago

falkirk

Sorry to jump in on the conversation. I've been on fab for two years, and after writing numerous messages to couples, maybe 1% will even bother to reply. I won't lie, I already have one regular couple to play with, but it would be nice if I found another one. But 99% of couples act like kings, so if you can't find someone to meet regularly,you are clearly replying to the wrong people.

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By *ornyhighlander1993Man
5 days ago

Highland

I would love to be a wife's bit on the side. Physically / emotionally / socially / as someone to talk to for outside perspective or an even an online basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 days ago

I'd love to be a hot wife's boyfriend .. but just no replies or interest generally. Probably too old TBF.

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By *amsoonMan
3 days ago

Stornoway

My wife has a boyfriend. Makes life easier for me to indulge my gay side

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By *ack For Fun69Man
3 days ago

Hamilton

I was lucky enough to have this relationship with a lovely couple many years ago back on my previous profile.

The situation developed gradually and lasted just over five years.

Unfortunately work took them up to Aberdeenshire and although we tried to maintain in contact my own career took me in the opposite direction. It certainly was fun while it lasted.

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
2 days ago

edinburgh

Very interesting thread ,,,

Happy to assist any couple who think I fit the bill ,,,,

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By *over.Man
2 days ago

North West Travel

This post is making me laugh, only because it seems couples on this site are having the same problem as single women off of this site - favouring meets with the wrong kinda guys!

I imagine it's more a case of you overlooking the more genuine guys on here. There's plenty good ones that'd jump at the chance at being boyfriend to a beautiful couple like OP

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By *ergus1622Man
2 days ago

Dundee

Well i am sure the op has meny more offers but would be exciting to find something like that round by myself

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By *bcplCouple
2 days ago

Aberdeenshire

"This post is making me laugh, only because it seems couples on this site are having the same problem as single women off of this site - favouring meets with the wrong kinda guys!

I imagine it's more a case of you overlooking the more genuine guys on here. There's plenty good ones that'd jump at the chance at being boyfriend to a beautiful couple like OP

You’re underestimating the amount of absolute time wasters and f*ckwits that are on this site believe me. The ghosting within 24 hours of a meet recently, last few months, has been unbelievable.

Yeah there’s genuine guys but there heavily out numbered unfortunately.

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