FabSwingers.com forum: Its finally time but im scared haha

By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
1 week ago

ayrshire

Finally able to make it to a cpls and fem night at cjs. Been unable to due to commitments but im so scared. I know its going to be the best place to meet likeminded people and not expecting anything just wanting to try something new!

Any tips for a first timer couple? We will be driving up

Thanks lovely group

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Just treat it like a night out, try to be relaxed and engage with people.

Anything else is a bonus

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
7 days ago

Glasgow

Get along to the pre-drinks. The regs there will always look after you.

Have a cracking time

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
6 days ago

Ardrossan

Chat to people, don't just sit in a corner. Everyone is really friendly, enjoy

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By *enandjerryCouple
6 days ago

Dumfries

"Just treat it like a night out, try to be relaxed and engage with people.

Anything else is a bonus"

100% agree with this, if you go out expecting to play then that just sets up possible disappointment. Treat it as a night out and you can’t go wrong! Xx

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By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
6 days ago

ayrshire

Oh we expect nothing! Just want to go and see what its like! Thank you for your messages! X

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By *askedcouple37Couple
6 days ago

Inverclyde

Exactly what others have said and cjs has a few lounge areas and it can be easy for newbies to get lost sitting there. Sit for a bit, get up go mingle, sit repeat and yous will be fine.

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By *hogun300Man
6 days ago

Dundee

"Finally able to make it to a cpls and fem night at cjs. Been unable to due to commitments but im so scared. I know its going to be the best place to meet likeminded people and not expecting anything just wanting to try something new!

Any tips for a first timer couple? We will be driving up

Thanks lovely group

What is it you are scared of?

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By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
6 days ago

ayrshire

Think its just the unknown and not knowing what happens 😂

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By *hogun300Man
6 days ago

Dundee

"Think its just the unknown and not knowing what happens 😂"

Okay, you won't be the only ones. And won't be the only newbies either. Everyone was new at some point. The thought will be worse than reality. It's pretty easy going and won't get pressure from anyone. It's just like being in a bar/club but with a difference

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By *cottishMrsWoman
6 days ago

Wishaw

Okay so for not knowing what happens, the socialising is all downstairs. If you're VERY nervous and don't want to see anything or be part of anything, then don't go upstairs as this is where the playrooms are. However, you CAN just go and watch. No still means no, and you're still allowed to have preferences and boundaries. If someone isn't taking the hint, speak to a member of staff and they'll be removed.

You will be absolutely fine, and you'll have a great night. Everyone is so lovely. Which night are you going? This Friday?xx

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By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
6 days ago

ayrshire

Aw yay! Yes its this friday

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By *cottishMrsWoman
6 days ago

Wishaw

"Aw yay! Yes its this friday

I wasn't going to go but I'm contemplating it because I'm excited for this UV room!!xx

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By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
6 days ago

ayrshire

What do the ladies usually wear? Thats my next dilemma!!! Thank you for your replies everyone x

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By *cottishMrsWoman
6 days ago

Wishaw

"What do the ladies usually wear? Thats my next dilemma!!! Thank you for your replies everyone x"

Whatever you like. Some people go in like fetish/kink wear. But for the most part, just like a night out. On Saturday there, I actually wore 90s kinda baggy flared jeans and a see through crop top. Usually I wear a dress with nice underwear xx

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By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
6 days ago

ayrshire

Was thinking a dress with some boots, not a fan of heels xx

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By *cottishMrsWoman
6 days ago

Wishaw

"Was thinking a dress with some boots, not a fan of heels xx"

Yeah, I've done that too. Just wore like kinda chunky boots. I've also wore thigh high boots but those were a bad idea as it's roasting in CJs!! Lol. Feel free to drop me a message if you need to chat to someone xx

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By *ifeIsShort69 OP Couple
6 days ago

ayrshire

Aw thank you, i tried to mail you but it wont let me 😂😂😂😂

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By *cottishMrsWoman
6 days ago

Wishaw

"Aw thank you, i tried to mail you but it wont let me 😂😂😂😂"

Messaged you x

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