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By *aucy Mike OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Advice please. If I mention a timewaster in my status update will I be sanctioned? Does anyone know? Many thanks. S&Mx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Most probably...especially if someone reports you

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Hmmmm not sure about that!

But why bother??

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Hmmmm not sure about that!

But why bother??"

If someone upsets you, block and move on - why give them the satisfaction?

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

More than likely. Just block whoever it was and forget about it

L x

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Advice please. If I mention a timewaster in my status update will I be sanctioned? Does anyone know? Many thanks. S&Mx"

Yup you will be shot at dawn

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

yes you would if someone reports you

but just remember freedom of speech is not banned yet

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"yes you would if someone reports you

but just remember freedom of speech is not banned yet "

It is unless the firing squad miss lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"yes you would if someone reports you

but just remember freedom of speech is not banned yet

It is unless the firing squad miss lol "
lol

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By *aucy Mike OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks all. Just wanted to warn people about yet another timewaster. He's let us and another couple down. Blocked and reported his profile. S&Mx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just block. report, an delete why do it in yer status bar

the rules clearly state don't name an shame

I'm sure it goes for the status bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get away with it unless someone reports your profile as admin don't have time to check thousands of status posts a day.

But why bother? Even if they leave they'll be back in a few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I'm a nosey bastard I do have a quick swatch at any of the profiles people have a rant about in their status updates. A bit unfair really as you only get one side of a story. But like I said - I'm a nosey bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got banned just foe mentioning what was said in a pm,so best advice dont do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm not sure about that!

But why bother??

If someone upsets you, block and move on - why give them the satisfaction? "
Because some people need to be outed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm not sure about that!

But why bother??

If someone upsets you, block and move on - why give them the satisfaction? Because some people need to be outed !"

And what if the person that is doing 'the outing' just has a grudge against somebody? For instance, i could 'out you' in my status even although i've never met, spoke or know you! See how easy it could be to manipulate it?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hmmmm not sure about that!

But why bother??

If someone upsets you, block and move on - why give them the satisfaction? Because some people need to be outed !

And what if the person that is doing 'the outing' just has a grudge against somebody? For instance, i could 'out you' in my status even although i've never met, spoke or know you! See how easy it could be to manipulate it?"
Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah supposedly I'm a time waster for not answering mail quick enough.

Amazing how men can be so needy and twats on here.

Maybe I should name and shame them also?

If we all started naming and shaming on here would be a war.

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Hopey, I thought that was just me lol. I've had a few I'm, choice words

For not replying fast enough. Some people just spoil it for others. I'm sure I'm not alone in wondering what goes on in some people's head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin will act if u put something on your update or profile about another member and someone reports it.

I think we have all wanted to name n shame at some point but as pointed out, report block and move on is the best advice I can give u.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Hmmmm not sure about that!

But why bother??

If someone upsets you, block and move on - why give them the satisfaction? Because some people need to be outed !"

Why let them get to you? I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are capable of pretending to be a woman when in fact they are a solo male, capable of pretending to be a couple etc, im quite sure in time folk can be capable of creating an our word against theirs timewaster story just to rubbish some/anyone on here.

Thats a big part of why you cant name and shame. Folks would generally doubt who you named and in time you'd probably be regarded as reactionary or worse.

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By *aucy Mike OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Some helpful advice, some not. Thanks for all contributions though. Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a good idea or you'll get sent to the Nawty Step. If you do tho... pick a day yer away from Fab for a couple days. My advice is don't bother tho & just block & move on. Report if you think it's worth reporting.

It's not right to name & shame as if it's a genuine musunderstanding/error then how would you feel if that was you?

Besides you never know who may know someone else & snitch on ya then you're on that Nawty Step.

Best to put it down to experience & move on. Life's too short to spend on these things.

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