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By *lex_fre OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Galashiels

Anyone think being overweight is being overweight??

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By *lue collar bi guyMan
3 weeks ago

the shire

What? Can you please explain what you mean in layman's terms lol

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By *lison_falkirkTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Camelon


"Anyone think being overweight is being overweight?? "

Definitely.

Absolutely!

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
3 weeks ago

Midlothian

Yes. I also think biscuits are biscuits. 🤨

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By *coobyABCMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Yes. I also think biscuits are biscuits. 🤨"

Is a tunnocks teacake a cake or a biscuit?

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By *sm265Woman
3 weeks ago

Shangri-la

Is this a trick question?

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Yes. I also think biscuits are biscuits. 🤨

Is a tunnocks teacake a cake or a biscuit? "

I think it’s a cake in the way Jaffa cakes are cakes. The reason is that they would go hard if they are stale whereas biscuits go soft. I’m sure I watched a programme about it lol

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By *j2015Couple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Unfortunately there is always an easy answer to the cake biscuit debate. Cakes are free from tax but a biscuit are not. Jaffa cake defined this in court and as such are legally a cake and void of tax.

Obesity however is not defined by HMRC so we just have to guess, sorry OP 🤷‍♂️

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By *cottishMrsWoman
3 weeks ago

Wishaw

I think he means is overweight just fat, and not BBW? I think it depends on your preferences and how you view yourself and others. As long as you're not rude about it, you're allowed to have preferences, you can just tell someone they're not your type. I wouldn't bring anything into it like looks, weight, body type etc. Well, I personally wouldn't, but I know a lot of men on here don't have the same restraint. You don't have to be rude or hurtful to have preferences, you can simply say, "No thanks." Hope this helps.

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By *lderChick65Woman
3 weeks ago

my town

Overweight ,underweight,the exact weight will always have certain pple having issues with it just go by your own prefrence there's no need for forum threads about weight ..just my outlook on it

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By *j2015Couple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I think he means is overweight just fat, and not BBW? I think it depends on your preferences and how you view yourself and others. As long as you're not rude about it, you're allowed to have preferences, you can just tell someone they're not your type. I wouldn't bring anything into it like looks, weight, body type etc. Well, I personally wouldn't, but I know a lot of men on here don't have the same restraint. You don't have to be rude or hurtful to have preferences, you can simply say, "No thanks." Hope this helps."

Completely agree, apologies for the joke! But that is why we prefer clubs, we both met at 16 (17year together this weekend and 9 years married) but that means neither if us actually learned how to date, especially online!

On Fab we hate how judgemental we are.

In a club however we meet the person and age or shape is the last thing on our mind.

If your only care about a body thats all your will get. A body! Nothing more!

But when you connect and play it is soo memorable and thats why we are here. To create memories and make friends. Its not for everyone but its why we are here.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
3 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Anyone think being overweight is being overweight?? "
yes but fab doesn't give you the option of stating you are overweight.

Everyone has their own taste and if overweight people arnt for you then just move on to the next profile

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By *sm265Woman
3 weeks ago

Shangri-la

Unless fab were to go by medical definition then how does OP think should "overweight" should be defined? Should we all put our BMI on our profiles?

Personally I base attraction of many different factors, none of them are to do with the number on the scales.

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By *amierebelMan
3 weeks ago

My own little world

Playing with 🔥 I used get in trouble for having preferences on here

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By *cottishMrsWoman
3 weeks ago

Wishaw


"I think he means is overweight just fat, and not BBW? I think it depends on your preferences and how you view yourself and others. As long as you're not rude about it, you're allowed to have preferences, you can just tell someone they're not your type. I wouldn't bring anything into it like looks, weight, body type etc. Well, I personally wouldn't, but I know a lot of men on here don't have the same restraint. You don't have to be rude or hurtful to have preferences, you can simply say, "No thanks." Hope this helps.

Completely agree, apologies for the joke! But that is why we prefer clubs, we both met at 16 (17year together this weekend and 9 years married) but that means neither if us actually learned how to date, especially online!

On Fab we hate how judgemental we are.

In a club however we meet the person and age or shape is the last thing on our mind.

If your only care about a body thats all your will get. A body! Nothing more!

But when you connect and play it is soo memorable and thats why we are here. To create memories and make friends. Its not for everyone but its why we are here. "

We're much the same as yourselves, together at 15/16, married for 13 years this year and this world was not a thing when we were young lol. I mean the dating world, not the swinging world lol. I'm BBW, or overweight if the OP prefers, but when people like me for me, not because of, or in spite of, I find it's much hotter!!xx

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By *cottishMrsWoman
3 weeks ago

Wishaw


"Playing with 🔥 I used get in trouble for having preferences on here "

You're allowed to have preferences, you don't have to be rude about it. You can simply say, "No thanks." Having preferences isn't an issue, it will be how you go about handling it that has caused the issue previously.

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By *cottishMrsWoman
3 weeks ago

Wishaw

I wish you could react to comments on here. I love what everyone is saying but don't want to have to reply individually lol.

Some of the best meets I've had are with people who would class themselves as like a solid four! And some of the worst meets are with the ones who would eat themselves if they could! For me, attraction is important, of course it is. But someone who just "gets me" or makes me laugh... is so hot! Same with my husband, gosh when he got with me, I was tall, skinny and tanned, now I'm still tall obviously, but I'm really overweight and pale lmao!

Have preferences, have a type, have an attraction of course, but creating threads to discuss women calling themselves anything other than overweight, isn't going to get you even the average weight women or the underweight women. Because if you're judging women on how they look for one aspect, you're judging them on other aspects and women pick up on that.

Happy Fabbing folks x

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By *amierebelMan
3 weeks ago

My own little world


"Playing with 🔥 I used get in trouble for having preferences on here

You're allowed to have preferences, you don't have to be rude about it. You can simply say, "No thanks." Having preferences isn't an issue, it will be how you go about handling it that has caused the issue previously."

Good assumption! but I’m pretty sure using the no thanks! causes offence to as I’ve previously experienced via my mail box

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By *cottishMrsWoman
2 weeks ago

Wishaw


"Playing with 🔥 I used get in trouble for having preferences on here

You're allowed to have preferences, you don't have to be rude about it. You can simply say, "No thanks." Having preferences isn't an issue, it will be how you go about handling it that has caused the issue previously.

Good assumption! but I’m pretty sure using the no thanks! causes offence to as I’ve previously experienced via my mail box "

I apologise for my assumption, all I can say is I hope it's men who have behaved that way with you and not women. Women, particularly on here, should know better than to give someone a rough time simply because they've said no. We get it constantly, and I wouldn't like to think someone hasn't granted the same respect they're demanding.

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By *lue collar bi guyMan
2 weeks ago

the shire


"Unfortunately there is always an easy answer to the cake biscuit debate. Cakes are free from tax but a biscuit are not. Jaffa cake defined this in court and as such are legally a cake and void of tax.

Obesity however is not defined by HMRC so we just have to guess, sorry OP 🤷‍♂️"

Interesting. Never knew this was the difference between cake and biscuits. I always defined them by when they go off. Cakes turn hard, biscuits turn soft. Thanks for the enlightenment.

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By *orge71Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Yes. I also think biscuits are biscuits. 🤨

Is a tunnocks teacake a cake or a biscuit?

I think it’s a cake in the way Jaffa cakes are cakes. The reason is that they would go hard if they are stale whereas biscuits go soft. I’m sure I watched a programme about it lol "

How can you even know that? I've never got teacakes long enough for them to go hard

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