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By *uriouslyhorny2 OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Hamilton

Hi everyone. We're a couple and we struggle to anywhere on here, we're new to the swinging scene and are trying to be as nice and as accommodating as we can. We haven't met anyone yet but really want to, we're looking for a female so any advice from a female looking to meet up with a couple on what we could be doing more for a meet?!! thanks for your time 😁😘

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"Hi everyone. We're a couple and we struggle to anywhere on here, we're new to the swinging scene and are trying to be as nice and as accommodating as we can. We haven't met anyone yet but really want to, we're looking for a female so any advice from a female looking to meet up with a couple on what we could be doing more for a meet?!! thanks for your time 😁😘"

If you’re only looking for a female to join you both then it will be hard and you haven’t been here long so give it a bit time . Try adding more photos we’ve had a couple of messages from single females . Another thing you could try is offer to meet a MF couple but only the female plays some men are happy with that

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By *luebell888Woman
20 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Hi everyone. We're a couple and we struggle to anywhere on here, we're new to the swinging scene and are trying to be as nice and as accommodating as we can. We haven't met anyone yet but really want to, we're looking for a female so any advice from a female looking to meet up with a couple on what we could be doing more for a meet?!! thanks for your time 😁😘"

Attend a club on couples night and chat to people face to face.

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By *inkys_profileWoman
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

Honestly? You are going to struggle with that. You and nearly every couple who come on here initially are looking for this. That is before they become more confident and start to explore more on the spectrum of this swinging world.

Fab is only one small facet of the scene. So many think this is just it. It isn't. Just the same as people think this is all about sex. It isn't. It is about meeting others that you MAY have sex with when the occasion is right. There are social events to go and meet others face to face. There are the clubs too. Get yourself along to them. This is a much better way to find out what this is really all about. Wishing you all the best in your endeavours

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By *uriouslyhorny2 OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

Hamilton

Thanks for all your replies they really helped and are appreciated 😘

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By *rgoodnbadMan
20 weeks ago

greenock

You'll need to cast your net a little further than fab for a unicorn. Try other sites too.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
20 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hi everyone. We're a couple and we struggle to anywhere on here, we're new to the swinging scene and are trying to be as nice and as accommodating as we can. We haven't met anyone yet but really want to, we're looking for a female so any advice from a female looking to meet up with a couple on what we could be doing more for a meet?!! thanks for your time 😁😘"
A woman joining a couple needs to feel she's getting as much from the experience as the couples is.

I'm not saying you but some couples profiles make it sound like a privilege to meet them when it should be a mutually enjoyable time .

The woman needs to feel special and not just there to satisfy your gratification .

Can I ask why you wouldn't consider a couple as there are a lot of opertunities for the two females to play together as well as couple swapping .

You don't need to be bi to do couples swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Hi everyone. We're a couple and we struggle to anywhere on here, we're new to the swinging scene and are trying to be as nice and as accommodating as we can. We haven't met anyone yet but really want to, we're looking for a female so any advice from a female looking to meet up with a couple on what we could be doing more for a meet?!! thanks for your time 😁😘"

We are the same

Males are not a problem

But female

Or couple who are like us not happening

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
19 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Only advice I can give is to go to clubs- & remember if it doesn't feel wrong you're not going it right!

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