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By *chuperbshmugs71 OP   Couple
2 days ago

Glasgow

Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling

Don’t message any profile with too many do’s and don’ts, likes are good, but I’m not looking to be hired help

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By *chuperbshmugs71 OP   Couple
2 days ago

Glasgow

Spot on. Too many rules are a turn off, especially when someone adds an attitude to that.

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By *ert999400Man
2 days ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled"

Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO

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By *ert999400Man
2 days ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO"

I don't agree

However we are both allowed our opinions.

My experience of this site is in your in a wheelchair or disabled you don't stand a chance. Read my profile and get back to me on DM

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO

I don't agree

However we are both allowed our opinions.

My experience of this site is in your in a wheelchair or disabled you don't stand a chance. Read my profile and get back to me on DM"

No need to DM, we’re just all different, hope you get from the site what you’re looking for Paul

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling


"Spot on. Too many rules are a turn off, especially when someone adds an attitude to that."

And there’s lots of attitude from a mix of profiles, just no need really, no one owes anyone anything on here, but we can all play nice and be respectful, surely

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By *l chapo123Man
2 days ago

Costa del sol


"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"

Best of it is the ones that's all high mighty wanting you read and follow every rule before message and start the convo with not just a hello .. the page is full of her just her pussy ..

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 days ago

Lanarkshire


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled"

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
2 days ago

Glasgow


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!"

Drop them….

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By *l chapo123Man
2 days ago

Costa del sol


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!"

Drop them go on

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 days ago

Lanarkshire


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!

Drop them…. "

I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣

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By *chuperbshmugs71 OP   Couple
2 days ago

Glasgow

Haha, brilliant

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By *askedcouple37Couple
2 days ago

Inverclyde


"Don’t message any profile with too many do’s and don’ts, likes are good, but I’m not looking to be hired help"

Is it just me that can hire you

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By *cottishMrsWoman
2 days ago

Wishaw


"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"

I didn't used to have so many on my profile but I find that, as time goes on, I get messages from folk hundreds of miles away, or who have a preconceived idea about my marriage etc etc and so it's easier for me to put it on my profile so that men can read it and know why I'm not replying. It's almost like an apology in advance, and explains that I'm not being rude, nasty or ignorant, I'm simply sticking by the ideals I have set out on my profile. Hope this helps to have a different POV x

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
2 days ago

glasgow


"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?

I didn't used to have so many on my profile but I find that, as time goes on, I get messages from folk hundreds of miles away, or who have a preconceived idea about my marriage etc etc and so it's easier for me to put it on my profile so that men can read it and know why I'm not replying. It's almost like an apology in advance, and explains that I'm not being rude, nasty or ignorant, I'm simply sticking by the ideals I have set out on my profile. Hope this helps to have a different POV x"

this

Ive had various different things on my profile and sometimes have had to be blunt and direct due to the vulgar and sometimes degrading messages ive recieved.

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By *cottish silver foxMan
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely put off by these women who in reality wouldn’t get a second look at a nightclub at 2:50am.

But here they are thinking they’re Gods gift because the ration of men to women is 100/1.

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!

Drop them….

I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣"

Gonna stop dropping them every time you see me, last time was in the veg aisle in Tesco (had to remind you it wasn’t the vag aisle), I didn’t know what to say

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling


"Don’t message any profile with too many do’s and don’ts, likes are good, but I’m not looking to be hired help

Is it just me that can hire you "

Haha your booking is confirmed

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By *okesandsmilesCouple
2 days ago

edinburgh

Such as life we have many people with many on here with many of types personalities. We do understand why woman need to be more direct at times.

sometimes of course it’s easy to interpret the written word as more harsh as sometimes people come across better in real life than the written form and vice versa and for both sexes there will be those that are arrogant.

Of course at times what we write gets ignored but it’s part and parcel of this site no point getting angry all just strangers on the internet.

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By *igboobiesCouple
2 days ago

Saltcoats

I try to be as honest as possible in my profile and try to answer all messages but when people clearly do not read profile then gets very frustrating and I do find myself just ignoring more and more messages

There has to be respect on both sides but it getting harder every week

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
2 days ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"
I think guys on here have the sence to avoid these types of profiles however there are some desperate ones who jump through the hoops if they think it will get them anywhere.

I have read a few myself over the years and just shook my head at some of the demands women put on thier profiles.

The ones just now with fab my photo to get me on page one to get a meet is just crazy surley guys don't truly believe that these women are going to shag every guy who fabs their photos!?

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By *elsbells2011Couple
2 days ago

fife

Although I agree that some people think they are above the rest I think that guys confuse the utter frustration that comes with being a female or couple on fab with rudeness. Some of the messages we’ve had from guys on fab are ridiculous and rude and being honest 90% of messages are nonsense.

Ranging from -

Hey doll your hubby obviously can’t satisfy you so how’s about I come fuck you.

I’m free now for 20 minutes can we meet?

Randoms that just say “can I ask you a question” then the question turns out to be do you like big dicks.

It’s hard not to be frustrated and come across as rude when you get these types of messages 20-30 times every day.

On the other hand when we have met good guys we have made long term connections and had a lot of fun so it’s worth it in the long run.

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 days ago

Lanarkshire

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 days ago

Lanarkshire


"Absolutely put off by these women who in reality wouldn’t get a second look at a nightclub at 2:50am.

But here they are thinking they’re Gods gift because the ration of men to women is 100/1.

"

If you're still in the club at 2.50am I'm doubting you got many 2nd looks either 🤷‍♀️🤣

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 days ago

Lanarkshire


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!

Drop them….

I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣

Gonna stop dropping them every time you see me, last time was in the veg aisle in Tesco (had to remind you it wasn’t the vag aisle), I didn’t know what to say "

I was surprised to find you in the veg isle. Normally bump into you in the cheese isle🤪

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By *r Costa xxMan
2 days ago

stirling


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Well how to appeal to women. Maybe they don't fancy you. No matter how many looks they do or don't get on the street.

Fuck sake we don't need to drop out knickers to every entitled guy on here!

Drop them….

I'll drop you any more of yer cheek 🤣🤣

Gonna stop dropping them every time you see me, last time was in the veg aisle in Tesco (had to remind you it wasn’t the vag aisle), I didn’t know what to say

I was surprised to find you in the veg isle. Normally bump into you in the cheese isle🤪"

Haha very true

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
2 days ago

Medway


"I agree some women think they are gods gift on here. Photos put me off.

This is a hook up site bur some women especially the ones who would not get a second look on vanilla street. Think they are the best thing since sliced bread. And they have a nerve to slag me off because im slightly disabled

Disability should never be reason for abuse, it might mean they are not interested, but that’s no different than any other reason to reject, they wouldn’t get a second look isn’t a very nice thing to say either IMO"

I completely agree with this!!!

I've never understood why people on here make comments like this.

So you're approaching people who you think should be grateful for your attention?!

It doesn't work that way.

Nobody deserves abusive messages just because they don't fit their preference but equally your attitude isn't the greatest if the above is your thoughts process.

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By *yrshireBoy1Man
2 days ago

Ayrshire

So many female profiles on here like that . Massive turn off . Good luck to them though

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By *ueefie NicksWoman
11 hours ago

Lanarkshire

So i must be in the up my own arse category as my profile is riddled with do's and donts ..

However it's transparent and saves time when explaining "what I'm looking for on here" as it's probably the most asked question i get just behind the "hi how's you" .

Funny concept women are allowed to have preferences should that be in looks , personality , attitudes and above all who they want to meet . Why should it be we're expected to abandon that because we are on here .

As far as not getting a look in on "vanilla street" that just comes across as sour grapes . Some folk really cannae handle rejection and that's usually the basis for the woe is me posts .

Try being a woman on this site getting the mails we get . Taking abuse (usually after being showered with insincere compliments).

I'll stick to keeping my profile do's and donts that way everyone knows where they stand .

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By *b2002Man
11 hours ago

bishopton

Dont think theres anything wrong with a woman saying what they are looking for. The only thing that annoys me on here are the fake profiles punting premium websites or fake profiles where its clearly a guy pretending to be a woman or using pictures from America etc (guys american taps and sockets look different, if you’ve got a clue you can tell from 1 pic).

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By *askedcouple37Couple
10 hours ago

Inverclyde


"So i must be in the up my own arse category as my profile is riddled with do's and donts ..

However it's transparent and saves time when explaining "what I'm looking for on here" as it's probably the most asked question i get just behind the "hi how's you" .

Funny concept women are allowed to have preferences should that be in looks , personality , attitudes and above all who they want to meet . Why should it be we're expected to abandon that because we are on here .

As far as not getting a look in on "vanilla street" that just comes across as sour grapes . Some folk really cannae handle rejection and that's usually the basis for the woe is me posts .

Try being a woman on this site getting the mails we get . Taking abuse (usually after being showered with insincere compliments).

I'll stick to keeping my profile do's and donts that way everyone knows where they stand . "

To be honest the way your profile set out, I like. Able too read it like aye we like that, we like that too so on. Although the banter/patter is up for debate!!

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By *obstoneMan
2 hours ago

Hamilton

I totally understand why women in here have a large list of requirements on their profil, basically to help filter out the people they are not interested in in meeting and a few arse holes who won't take no for an answer.

But it also puts the nice guys off it looks your going to pure fucking hard work.

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By *issBlackedCouple
2 hours ago

Glasgow

So having morals and boundaries comes off as angry to you? Too many rules is an issue for you?

How do you think profiles that complain about such things in the forums come across?

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By *ola cubesMan
1 hour ago

coatbridge


"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?"
simp culture caused many females to have imo a skewed view of reality andany firmly believe that everything revolves around themselves my personal favorite is do not contact me without a recent face pic fro a profile that only shows a pair of tits

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
58 minutes ago

glasgow


"Folks, are you like us and totally put off by female profiles that just sound angry, lots of attitude, like they think they are some kinda prize with a load of rules that just suggest, red flag?simp culture caused many females to have imo a skewed view of reality andany firmly believe that everything revolves around themselves my personal favorite is do not contact me without a recent face pic fro a profile that only shows a pair of tits "

I can assure i dont believe anything revolves around me, if someone contacts me id expect a recent facepic just like id send one if i contacted someone first.

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