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"Anyone ever been to a group meet where everyone just sits wanking " Sounds like fun | |||
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"Can I watch? "Of course you can and welcome to play with yourself too | |||
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"Can I watch? "I can come round and you can watch lol | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking." sounds good woud u like to be coverd in our cum | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking. sounds good woud u like to be coverd in our cum" Wouldn't be able to answer that without meeting everyone. Best to say no and not get expectations up | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking. sounds good woud u like to be coverd in our cum Wouldn't be able to answer that without meeting everyone. Best to say no and not get expectations up" Happy just to play for your enjoyment. Whatever suits you best. | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking." Would a married man be allowed to be there? For mutaul wank with the other guys. Obviously not involved in any contact with yourself? If so id enjoy this. | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking." The issue you will have is that not everyone will be honest about being single. | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking. Would a married man be allowed to be there? For mutaul wank with the other guys. Obviously not involved in any contact with yourself? If so id enjoy this." I wouldn't be there if I knew married men were. Got to trust them to be honest and respect my choices. No touch? It's a no touch meet  | |||
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"I would be interested if a single guy arranged something like this for other singles. Sorry married men is a no for me. And it would be strictly mutual wanking." Would you be wanting it age restricted if no touching involved Kay lol 😈 | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical" Like most things on here lol | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical" I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored" Yip. Same as always. No wonder I take so many breaks from here. Guess I'll just keep that for my imagination | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored Yip. Same as always. No wonder I take so many breaks from here. Guess I'll just keep that for my imagination " I shall apologise and step away. No offence intended. | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored Yip. Same as always. No wonder I take so many breaks from here. Guess I'll just keep that for my imagination I shall apologise and step away. No offence intended. " No point. I've revoked my interest. So you guys can have your fun together. | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored Yip. Same as always. No wonder I take so many breaks from here. Guess I'll just keep that for my imagination " Shouldn’t let them get you down hot stuff- and from the posts I’ve seen today, you have an absolutely fantastic imagination- wow! | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored" just typical for this forum mate 1 single guy with a shit attitude ruins it for all the other single guys | |||
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"I'm happy to join you if you get a woman to come watch us." Did you not read the thread. That ship sailed with usual thirsty guy mentality 🤣 | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored just typical for this forum mate 1 single guy with a shit attitude ruins it for all the other single guys " I would say it goes beyond the forum even, the whole scene is dragged down by this kind of thing. There’s still lots of fun going on but couples/women get burnt so often that most of it takes place in smaller, more insular groups. It’s a shame, we’d love to do something like this, but from experience, we’d get hassled by couple of creepy guys and it would kill the mood. And then most/all of the non-creepy guys would probably cancel at the last minute or just straight up ghost us  | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored just typical for this forum mate 1 single guy with a shit attitude ruins it for all the other single guys I would say it goes beyond the forum even, the whole scene is dragged down by this kind of thing. There’s still lots of fun going on but couples/women get burnt so often that most of it takes place in smaller, more insular groups. It’s a shame, we’d love to do something like this, but from experience, we’d get hassled by couple of creepy guys and it would kill the mood. And then most/all of the non-creepy guys would probably cancel at the last minute or just straight up ghost us "Sounds like the same old song and dance. Its why I'm so selective with meets. Thought I'd put myself out there and another crash and burn. Boundaries pushed left and right | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored just typical for this forum mate 1 single guy with a shit attitude ruins it for all the other single guys I would say it goes beyond the forum even, the whole scene is dragged down by this kind of thing. There’s still lots of fun going on but couples/women get burnt so often that most of it takes place in smaller, more insular groups. It’s a shame, we’d love to do something like this, but from experience, we’d get hassled by couple of creepy guys and it would kill the mood. And then most/all of the non-creepy guys would probably cancel at the last minute or just straight up ghost us "it's true and a shame, there are a lot of creepy guys out there and yes it spoils it for normal guys. Unfortunately it makes meets with people very challenging | |||
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"Thought I'd put myself out there and another crash and burn. Boundaries pushed left and right" Aw I’m sorry that keeps happening. It’s so hard to find reliable people you can trust on here  At this stage, we literally just use Fab to meet people at club nights we’re going to.
I hope you find some decent people to explore with! We did in the end but it took much longer than we bargained for | |||
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"it's true and a shame, there are a lot of creepy guys out there and yes it spoils it for normal guys. Unfortunately it makes meets with people very challenging " Yeah it’s not easy for anyone here tbh. I do feel sorry for the genuine guys who struggle to get heard through the noise (unless they’re the ones that make excuses for the bad eggs!). Normally, meeting people clubs are the best way to cut through all the BS, but for a wank group there really isn’t anything sadly. I (Mr) was looking to explore this kind of thing a while back, and even just between guys, it went absolutely nowhere. It’s a bit of a long shot but I reckon the best bet for organising something like this might be to see if it can be arranged at a swingers club that has a cinema room and allows private bookings on non-event evenings (somewhere like AD comes to mind) | |||
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"Sounds like it isn't worth the hassle or drama. Typical I don't blame you to be honest. You were making a brave offer and your reasonable conditions were simply being ignored just typical for this forum mate 1 single guy with a shit attitude ruins it for all the other single guys I would say it goes beyond the forum even, the whole scene is dragged down by this kind of thing. There’s still lots of fun going on but couples/women get burnt so often that most of it takes place in smaller, more insular groups. It’s a shame, we’d love to do something like this, but from experience, we’d get hassled by couple of creepy guys and it would kill the mood. And then most/all of the non-creepy guys would probably cancel at the last minute or just straight up ghost us "Something never thought of until reading this thread. Wife has a big voyeur kink and at times likes too fulfill it with a let me watch and play with myself. So think something like this could appeal to her kink as long as there was enough girls there for her too watch and not just full of wanking zombies | |||
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"it's true and a shame, there are a lot of creepy guys out there and yes it spoils it for normal guys. Unfortunately it makes meets with people very challenging Yeah it’s not easy for anyone here tbh. I do feel sorry for the genuine guys who struggle to get heard through the noise (unless they’re the ones that make excuses for the bad eggs!). Normally, meeting people clubs are the best way to cut through all the BS, but for a wank group there really isn’t anything sadly. I (Mr) was looking to explore this kind of thing a while back, and even just between guys, it went absolutely nowhere. It’s a bit of a long shot but I reckon the best bet for organising something like this might be to see if it can be arranged at a swingers club that has a cinema room and allows private bookings on non-event evenings (somewhere like AD comes to mind)" I think that would present the best solution. As always with these things establishing the first event will be the most difficult | |||
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"How can you tell when you meet if a guy is married or single? If he lies that's ok but tells the truth he scum weird situation and probably was never going to happen " there’s nothing you can do if a person lies about being married but if she knows he’s married that might play on her conscience | |||
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"How can you tell when you meet if a guy is married or single? If he lies that's ok but tells the truth he scum weird situation and probably was never going to happen there’s nothing you can do if a person lies about being married but if she knows he’s married that might play on her conscience " How would she know though | |||
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"How can you tell when you meet if a guy is married or single? If he lies that's ok but tells the truth he scum weird situation and probably was never going to happen there’s nothing you can do if a person lies about being married but if she knows he’s married that might play on her conscience How would she know though" because the guy in question on this thread said he was married but asked if he could play anyway even tho she had stated no married men | |||
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"How can you tell when you meet if a guy is married or single? If he lies that's ok but tells the truth he scum weird situation and probably was never going to happen there’s nothing you can do if a person lies about being married but if she knows he’s married that might play on her conscience How would she know though because the guy in question on this thread said he was married but asked if he could play anyway even tho she had stated no married men " Dont invite him then it's a simple solution  | |||
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"How can you tell when you meet if a guy is married or single? If he lies that's ok but tells the truth he scum weird situation and probably was never going to happen there’s nothing you can do if a person lies about being married but if she knows he’s married that might play on her conscience How would she know though because the guy in question on this thread said he was married but asked if he could play anyway even tho she had stated no married men Dont invite him then it's a simple solution "I agree with you 💯 it is a simple solution but I guess she felt different at the time and that could be down to her mood at the time some people can just get fed up | |||
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"How can you tell when you meet if a guy is married or single? If he lies that's ok but tells the truth he scum weird situation and probably was never going to happen there’s nothing you can do if a person lies about being married but if she knows he’s married that might play on her conscience How would she know though because the guy in question on this thread said he was married but asked if he could play anyway even tho she had stated no married men Dont invite him then it's a simple solution I agree with you 💯 it is a simple solution but I guess she felt different at the time and that could be down to her mood at the time some people can just get fed up " | |||
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"Just need a venue" Woukd you be interested in a wank group meet with crossdressers?? | |||
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"I’m not going ahead with hosting this There’s to many guys asking if they can touch the woman or touch each other or cum on her etc Whatever boundaries you set it seems everyone wants to push them so I don’t think I would enjoy hosting this as I would be on edge wondering if someone will overstep the mark and ruin it for the others " And it only ever takes one to turn the event into a total disaster. I’m sorry you had to go through that, we know the feeling you’re describing too well. There’s a particular event, at a particular club, we don’t go to anymore because half the time there would be one guy (often the same one!) who would would knowingly cross boundaries. Nothing went massively wrong but I was constantly on edge whenever we were at that one. I imagine with hosting a group of random guys off fab you’d be fairly likely to come across at least one of those. (In my opinion) For any kind of event like this you really need an institution that has the power to control what takes place, kick people out, ban them, and foster a community of well behaved people. Also a bonus if they already have a list of known creeps to filter out! Otherwise it’s just the Wild West, and that’s no fun for anyone | |||
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"I’m not going ahead with hosting this There’s to many guys asking if they can touch the woman or touch each other or cum on her etc Whatever boundaries you set it seems everyone wants to push them so I don’t think I would enjoy hosting this as I would be on edge wondering if someone will overstep the mark and ruin it for the others " That's exactly why I retracted my offer too. I'd never trust men like these to be in a situation like that. Ever | |||
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"Anyone ever been to a group meet where everyone just sits wanking " Yeah, I went to one about 2 years ago hosted by a woman, acting as a Dom for the room, there was a mix of guys there (Straight, BI, Gay). It was well organised with everyone respecting the woman who controlled the dynamic. BI\Gay guys wanking off each other, straight guys wanking themselves. Many of the guys finished on the woman after she climaxed (orally by one of the guys). Really good session, a bit different. | |||
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"Anyone ever been to a group meet where everyone just sits wanking Yeah, I went to one about 2 years ago hosted by a woman, acting as a Dom for the room, there was a mix of guys there (Straight, BI, Gay). It was well organised with everyone respecting the woman who controlled the dynamic. BI\Gay guys wanking off each other, straight guys wanking themselves. Many of the guys finished on the woman after she climaxed (orally by one of the guys). Really good session, a bit different." Think I was at that one.....a very good well respected meet. | |||
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"Anyone ever been to a group meet where everyone just sits wanking Yeah, I went to one about 2 years ago hosted by a woman, acting as a Dom for the room, there was a mix of guys there (Straight, BI, Gay). It was well organised with everyone respecting the woman who controlled the dynamic. BI\Gay guys wanking off each other, straight guys wanking themselves. Many of the guys finished on the woman after she climaxed (orally by one of the guys). Really good session, a bit different. Think I was at that one.....a very good well respected meet." Yeah I think I remember you being there too As you’ve stated, everyone on the day was respectful to the organiser. She started out by telling everyone they must behave or “get the fuck out” that behave they did, impeccably. Likewise I’d be up for doing something similar, where there is a female focus. So if anyone is thinking of organising let me know thanks | |||
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"I believe that lovely lady is not on the scene anymore, unfortunately. I'd be happy to arrange something one afternoon, book an airbandb and have a small select group of male, crossdressers and females who want to wank only. " would join in again last one i went to she had me suck a guy | |||
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