FabSwingers.com forum: is it weird

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That I prefer to have a social meet as a first meet?

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most folk I know do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No deffo not. . When are you free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just checking as I've just had someone say that a phonecall should be enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No deffo not. . When are you free

Haha anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just checking as I've just had someone say that a phonecall should be enough"
yeah well they would say anything to you. So how you doinnnnmm lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Each to their own but for me i'm here to fuck. Simply don't have the time to piss around drinking coffee lol.

I do understand and accept that some prefer a click meet first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird no.

Sensible I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like coffee meets. Wot if you get there and turns oot her pics are fae the 80 s

Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

No your not weird and anyone who thinks you are then they aint worth meeting in my book ...good luck and happy swinging xxx

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I like coffee meets. Wot if you get there and turns oot her pics are fae the 80 s

Lol

Mantelpiece poke and fire lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like coffee meets. Wot if you get there and turns oot her pics are fae the 80 s

Lol

Mantelpiece poke and fire lol

Exactly you could turn up and they look nothing like their pictures. It's happened before and it's not something I'd like to experience again thank you very much lol

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

"I like coffee meets. Wot if you get there and turns oot her pics are fae the 80 s

Lol

Think there would be a problem if you wanted to meet me with one of my pictures from the 80s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like coffee meets. Wot if you get there and turns oot her pics are fae the 80 s

Lol

Think there would be a problem if you wanted to meet me with one of my pictures from the 80s"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think it's a better idea. Its not like there comin to paint yer front room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's good to meet someone socially at first, before deciding whether to take things further.

It takes the pressure off the girls who may not want to have sex with a guy they've just met. And it gives us guys the chance to decide if we want to meet up for more.

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I think for single women it should be a must. A lot safer that way. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always do a social meet first, so not weird at all. Sensible we think, and if folk don't like it, tough

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"That I prefer to have a social meet as a first meet?"

No. Fancy a blindfold shag in 5 minutes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think it's good to meet someone socially at first, before deciding whether to take things further.

It takes the pressure off the girls who may not want to have sex with a guy they've just met. And it gives us guys the chance to decide if we want to meet up for more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I prefer to have a social meet as a first meet?"

Most definitely not!

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Mr and I have had no meets yet but it will always be social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always do a social meet first, so not weird at all. Sensible we think, and if folk don't like it, tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each to their own but for me i'm here to fuck. Simply don't have the time to piss around drinking coffee lol.

I do understand and accept that some prefer a click meet first though

you just chat lassies up on buses though eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as it gives u both a good idea of what ull end up with on a non-social meet

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

For me a social meet first is just the most sensible thing to do for a number of reasons. Anyone who just wants to meet after two messages and wants to be fucking within 5 mins of ringing the doorbell...well, that just says it all about them!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"For me a social meet first is just the most sensible thing to do for a number of reasons. Anyone who just wants to meet after two messages and wants to be fucking within 5 mins of ringing the doorbell...well, that just says it all about them!"

What does it say about them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a social meet usually.. Takes the nerves off, knowing that there's no expectations as such, that way, the next meet can be more fun (if it goes that far).

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

What does it say about them ?

Tells me they dont give a toss and will fuck just about anything that offers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads last post and walks away whistling

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Why anyone would invite a complete stranger into their home for sex is beyond me....

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Tells me they dont give a toss and will fuck just about anything that offers..."

Some perhaps, but not this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why anyone would invite a complete stranger into their home for sex is beyond me...."
peeks in nope not commenting on that either

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Tells me they dont give a toss and will fuck just about anything that offers...

Some perhaps, but not this one.

PP im guessing you send more than 2 messages

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Tells me they dont give a toss and will fuck just about anything that offers...

Some perhaps, but not this one.

PP im guessing you send more than 2 messages

The girls i meet i have banter with either through messages or on forum.

When we meet we know were fucking yeah course if she's good i'll make her a cuppa after and even light a fag for her

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

The girls i meet i have banter with either through messages or on forum.

When we meet we know were fucking yeah course if she's good i'll make her a cuppa after and even light a fag for her

Always the gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invited to join a couple, spur of the moment, is any guys swinging, funnest moment, biggest fear is chapping the wrong house door!!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

The girls i meet i have banter with either through messages or on forum.

When we meet we know were fucking yeah course if she's good i'll make her a cuppa after and even light a fag for her

Always the gent

Milk and sugar ?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"That I prefer to have a social meet as a first meet?"

You do things your way and fk what anyone else thinks...

How many times have we read advice on meeting for 1st time?

Always meet in a public place!!!!!

Being a member of this site does not change that

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

The girls i meet i have banter with either through messages or on forum.

When we meet we know were fucking yeah course if she's good i'll make her a cuppa after and even light a fag for her

Always the gent

Milk and sugar ?

And a light please

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"Invited to join a couple, spur of the moment, is any guys swinging, funnest moment, biggest fear is chapping the wrong house door!!

Done that.....

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

The girls i meet i have banter with either through messages or on forum.

When we meet we know were fucking yeah course if she's good i'll make her a cuppa after and even light a fag for her

Always the gent

Milk and sugar ?

And a light please

fuck sake want me to smoke it fir yeah tae lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Always the gent

Milk and sugar ?

And a light please

fuck sake want me to smoke it fir yeah tae lol

You keep that one.....Im already smokin

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"You keep that one.....Im already smokin

Hot lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"You keep that one.....Im already smokin

Hot lol

Its the fluffy slippers and dressing gown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. It's compulsory for my first meet

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"That I prefer to have a social meet as a first meet?"

Just what makes u think that its weird?

We do it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually always insist on a social meet first, exceptions have been guys that friends from here have met so I kinda know they're sane. Lol. If a guy will not accept that I will want to meet them socially first then I simply won't meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually always insist on a social meet first, exceptions have been guys that friends from here have met so I kinda know they're sane. Lol. If a guy will not accept that I will want to meet them socially first then I simply won't meet him. "

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

Sane? On here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not weird. A must 4 a social first x

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By *rystalsdragonCouple
over a year ago

central for fun / axarquia

we always do social first to "break the ice" also when meeting anyone the fem chats on the phone 1st too xx

gives all a chance to see if "click" or do we run for the next NO 42 bus !!

seriously - in this day and age its sensible plus we dont just fuck anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I prefer to have a social meet as a first meet?"
why its weird

its what i ask for 1st an foremost

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

"we always do social first to "break the ice" also when meeting anyone the fem chats on the phone 1st too xx

gives all a chance to see if "click" or do we run for the next NO 42 bus !!

seriously - in this day and age its sensible plus we dont just fuck anyone

xx"

A burlesque night's always good for a wee social meet eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice for Cuteblondemilf:

Best be safe than sorry!

Advice for Victor Vargus:

Stop giving good advice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm glad that everyone else thinks the same as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't judge if I want to share body fluids with someone by viewing dodgy pics and a couple of messages. I need to see what I'm getting in the flesh. I've met ppl where I've had high hopes only to be let down at the initial meet. Defo wee social for me.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I like to meet for a coffee first too. It's not weird. It's sensible. It gives everybody an 'out' without any pressure.

Plus, I've had an absolute scream on some social meets so it can be great fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope our first ever meet was a social, think it was for the best as we had gone back to the UK, both very nervous , Ian more so that me, knew there and then nothing was going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Invited to join a couple, spur of the moment, is any guys swinging, funnest moment, biggest fear is chapping the wrong house door!!

Aint that true!

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