FabSwingers.com forum: When do you stop.....terms of numbers?

By *cots boost OP Couple
3 days ago

Glasgow

I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.

We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.

Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?

What is enough ?

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By *p4Fun7070Man
3 days ago

Leven

All depends if you both still enjoy it or not.

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By *ympho6969Woman
3 days ago

glasgow

"All depends if you both still enjoy it or not. "

This is the only question that matters.

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By *cots boost OP Couple
3 days ago

Glasgow

Don't get me wrong we both still enjoy it.

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By *wizzler9Couple
2 days ago

Scotland

If you’re asking the question on the forum, pretty sure that’s answered it. If there’s any doubts call it a day before you resent it. Yes you both might still be saying you’re happy but if it’s getting questioned it’s really time to sit down and have a heart to heart and find out where you both stand! Also it’s not a numbers game this lifestyle we’re not all young idiots putting “notches on the bedposts”

Hopefully you can figure it out soon

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By *innMan
2 days ago

edinburgh

"If you’re asking the question on the forum, pretty sure that’s answered it. If there’s any doubts call it a day before you resent it. Yes you both might still be saying you’re happy but if it’s getting questioned it’s really time to sit down and have a heart to heart and find out where you both stand! Also it’s not a numbers game this lifestyle we’re not all young idiots putting “notches on the bedposts”

Hopefully you can figure it out soon

This is a good answer and it’s good to see a thread that isnt littered with stupid replies and “banter” that doesn’t add to the subject.

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By *arah272Woman
2 days ago

nearby

Hopefully you can figure it out soon

Great reply talk it through X … personally I’d rather play again with people who I’ve had great times with where the dynamic gets even better rather than add ongoing ‘numbers’ but that’s me speaking from single perspective

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By *cots boost OP Couple
21 hours ago

Glasgow

Well the excitement for me is still the whole thing about complete strangers having sex with my wife...

And her excitment comes from her being submissive....

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By *ieryfireMan
21 hours ago

Glasgow

Perhaps a time to reflect and change things up… it’s just a number.

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By *antra MassageMan
21 hours ago

city

As long as it remains exciting for you BOTH... Then carry on.

I once like the idea of gangbangs, and liked to watch. But, I've come around to wanting one to one, so much more intimate. We change as we grow.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
20 hours ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.

We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.

Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?

What is enough ?"
Are you talking about stopping with your Mrs (wife) or with the 3 women you meet with ?

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By *arry bethelABCMan
20 hours ago

Aberdeen

Sounds like you both enjoy it. My view is keep doing until one party no longer likes it

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
19 hours ago

Falkirk

"I love watching my Mrs having sex with strange men while I watch and then join in.

We started doing around 2 years ago and it was a slow burner to start with, loads of no show men etc but it got better and better.

Having watched my Mrs have sex now with around 25 men since we started....is it time to stop?

What is enough ?Are you talking about stopping with your Mrs (wife) or with the 3 women you meet with ?"

Touché

To echo what's already been said, the fact that you have asked the question he in the forum makes me wonder if there is some doubt there for you, your wife, or both of you. Better to have that conversation now than it potentially go completely pear shaped. Hopefully you find a resolution.

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By *uietbloke67Man
13 hours ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

86.

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By *haggie MayWoman
12 hours ago

Lanarkshire

I really don't get why grown adults would want to keep score or "bodycount" . If you both enjoy it and still having fun with it then that's all that matters , if not then it's time to have a serious discussion about it. Tallying up the conquests seems rather infantile. In my opinion (and only mine I don't speak for anyone else) ,when scores are totted up it's far to easy to use them as a weapon .

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