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By *nverman67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have been having fun with a married lady for a few months and have fallen for her. We have had chats and she acknowldeges we are good together but she has young children so doesn't want to jeapordise what she has.

She wants to carry on our fun but I have really fallen for her and want to continue having fun but I also want more. I think I should cut and run before it gets too deep. She knows how I feel about her.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she on here x

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I think I should cut and run before it gets too deep."

Think you answered your own predicament bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well does she feel the same way

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Walk away mate before it gets too late

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If she doesn't want more, it sounds like your just going to be hurt in the long run. She sounds a bit like wanting her cake and eating it.

Ultimately only you know what your tolerance is - but if she loves someone else, and is always going to go back to her husband and family, can you take the pain of being her bit on the side and a secret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I should cut and run before it gets too deep.

Think you answered your own predicament bud "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No good can ever come from having an affair with someone who is married and has young kids! Do you really want her to leave and be with you??

Cut and run, loads more pebbles on the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play with fire and you will get burned. cut and run you will get over her and who knows she may get back ontrack with her family and husband once your out of her life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Pillow Pimp said I think you have answered your own question !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No good can ever come from having an affair with someone who is married and has young kids! Do you really want her to leave and be with you??

Cut and run, loads more pebbles on the beach "

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Think of her children and walk away now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young kids says it all doin the right thing pal

And walk

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Walk away not just her husband whos going to get hurt if she decides to walk out on him .

Step out of the box for a second and see the bigger picture ...good luck xxx

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Walk away not just her husband whos going to get hurt if she decides to walk out on him .

Step out of the box for a second and see the bigger picture ...good luck xxx "

I agree - walk, you know it makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you actually thought for one second someone would actually say go for it?

Its obviously if your falling for her to cut ties now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile states I have a thing for married women

However, I only play with them where ground rules are CLEARLY SET.

NO TIES. It's purely sex, nothing else.

We all have reasons to be here and vast majority if them are for FUN with no strings

She ain't going to leave him mate so cut loose and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of a famous pop song

' I think you'd better leave right now '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is obviously not interested in going further, so the way I see it you have 2 choices:

1. Cut and Run.

2. Continue having NSA fun but no further.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Walk away asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away asap."

You will regret it if try for more and you will regret it by walking away. If there's kids involved I would walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one

Only u know what the right thing to do is buddy.

It's not about how u feel. Got to consider she has a family

It's about doing the right thing for her and her kids. Got to put your feelings to one side

If you can truely get a grip on how u feel then I dont séé why it can't continue as just fun. But if u cant and can't accept u cant have her then walk away on good grounds mate as hard as it may be. Youll get over her

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Walk away not just her husband whos going to get hurt if she decides to walk out on him .

Step out of the box for a second and see the bigger picture ...good luck xxx

I agree - walk, you know it makes sense."

Sx

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I had figured this for a "skat" post when I saw the heading....oh how disappointing lol

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