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"It may not be the answer that you're looking for, but in my eyes, if you're struggling to go through with or enjoy things and your late wife is still in the forefront of your mind, you're simply not ready. Maybe it would benefit to take a step back from things for a while and to heal yourself a little. Of course your wife will never have your mind completely, but there will come a time where it feels "okay" to do the things that you've mentioned. " Thanks for your advice I appreciate it, talking I’m finding easy just taking the next step is harder for me | |||
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"It may not be the answer that you're looking for, but in my eyes, if you're struggling to go through with or enjoy things and your late wife is still in the forefront of your mind, you're simply not ready. Maybe it would benefit to take a step back from things for a while and to heal yourself a little. Of course your wife will never have your mind completely, but there will come a time where it feels "okay" to do the things that you've mentioned. " Totally agree with this . How long is it since your wife passed if you don't mind me asking !? Like this poster has said it sounds like you are not ready to move on without your wife . Take more timeout to totally come to terms with things then one day hopefully you will feel it's time to move on . Sometimes it's impossible to move on because certain things you enjoyed as a couple you might struggle to do with other people . Just hide your profile and come back when you feel the time is right . | |||
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"Firstly, sorry for your loss. It is very hard to loose a person who had a huge influence on areas of your life. Particularly when you enjoyed them so much together. Only you can decide when you are ready. But think of it in this light... What would she be saying to you right now. I'll garrantee it would be to live life to the fullest and that's how you honor their memory.❤️ Thank you appreciate everyone helping x " | |||
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"It may not be the answer that you're looking for, but in my eyes, if you're struggling to go through with or enjoy things and your late wife is still in the forefront of your mind, you're simply not ready. Maybe it would benefit to take a step back from things for a while and to heal yourself a little. Of course your wife will never have your mind completely, but there will come a time where it feels "okay" to do the things that you've mentioned. Totally agree with this . How long is it since your wife passed if you don't mind me asking !? Like this poster has said it sounds like you are not ready to move on without your wife . Take more timeout to totally come to terms with things then one day hopefully you will feel it's time to move on . Sometimes it's impossible to move on because certain things you enjoyed as a couple you might struggle to do with other people . Just hide your profile and come back when you feel the time is right ." Very sage advice. Without going in to too many details publicly, I've lived through pretty much the same situation as you OP. Perhaps it would be wise to seriously consider what it is you're looking for through Fab too. Is it purely of a fun and sexual nature, or do you miss the intimacy of a more serious relationship too? It's a bit of a cliche saying, but it's true to say that you have to be happy and comfortable in yourself before you consider involving anyone else. Whether that be on a fun basis or otherwise. | |||
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