FabSwingers.com forum: Recognising someone in public

By *r Mystery OP Man
5 days ago

Montrose

What is the best way to approach someone you recognise from fab in public with out embarrassing them or yourself ? Its never happened to me I'm just curious .

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By *andsCouple
5 days ago

Edin

Don’t!

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By *ab_Fucker_xxxMan
5 days ago

Bellshill

Yeah don’t, like ever

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By *aygee246Man
5 days ago

Maidenhead Central

I agree. Unless you meet them in the swingers club, just don't do it.

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By *ackeeoMan
5 days ago

edinburgh

just b polite

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By *TRAY-CATMan
5 days ago

dundee

Nod and keep on walking .

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By *appyman3943Man
5 days ago

Aberdeen

Unless they are carrying a pineapple then leave them be….

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By *ah wah wizardMan
5 days ago

Kilmarnock

Simple answer is don't.

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By *ah wah wizardMan
5 days ago

Kilmarnock

"Unless they are carrying a pineapple then leave them be…."

And don't if they are also carrying gammon steak!

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By *appyman3943Man
5 days ago

Aberdeen

"Unless they are carrying a pineapple then leave them be….

And don't if they are also carrying gammon steak! "

You will start a pineapple or egg debate with statements like that!

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By *ah wah wizardMan
5 days ago

Kilmarnock

"Unless they are carrying a pineapple then leave them be….

And don't if they are also carrying gammon steak!

You will start a pineapple or egg debate with statements like that!"

Or the old favourite about pineapple on a pizza?

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By *elsbells2011Couple
5 days ago

fife

Can’t believe some people would even dare to think it’s ok to approach a stranger in public about fab. I know how hubby would react and I’m sure a few others would be the same.

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By *ocheelad84Man
5 days ago

Perth

OH! just saw your Tits on Fab, what a great opener, I think NOT

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By *okesandsmilesCouple
5 days ago

Edinburgh

There private life is there private life even an innocent joke or comment could alarm or scare them. x

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By *cotsfun23Man
5 days ago

Stirling

This is where the problems start on this site everyone has a life away ftom it and that should always be respected

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By *edhead19Woman
4 days ago

aberdeen

I don’t mind if someone I’ve saw off fab speaks to me… but I wouldn’t approach them first

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By *apio51Man
4 days ago

Edinburgh ish

Yeah, no.

OP didn’t specify whether the protagonists had met at all. But no…even if we had met I wouldn’t approach anyone outside of the fab sphere and especially wouldn’t approach them if we hadn’t met.

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By *assy LassieWoman
4 days ago

Lanarkshire

Stay the fuck away. Unless I already class you as a friend

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By *ags73Man
4 days ago

glasgow-ish

"What is the best way to approach someone you recognise from fab in public with out embarrassing them or yourself ? Its never happened to me I'm just curious ."

Don’t. I’d be really cautious unless you actually have talked to them, even then..

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By *vcarolTV/TS
4 days ago

kilmarnockish

For the vast majority - what happens in fab world stays in fab world.

I personally don’t mind - there are very few around me that don’t know what I do, so life is easy on that front.

I would not make the first move tho, I have a few male friends whose straight life would not be comfortable talking to a trans person especially if their partner is close.

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By *hoebeWoman
4 days ago

Edinburgh

If ts someone ive met/know from a club and they're alone, I might give a nod or wee smile. If they ( or I) are with people, I don't acknowledge them.

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By *otandDashCouple
4 days ago

Farnham

Don't , it's not the done thing .

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By *agnar2323Man
4 days ago

Valhalla

"What is the best way to approach someone you recognise from fab in public with out embarrassing them or yourself ? Its never happened to me I'm just curious ."

Why would you even ask this. Unless your friends with them then it's a different story

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
4 days ago

SW Scotland

"What is the best way to approach someone you recognise from fab in public with out embarrassing them or yourself ? Its never happened to me I'm just curious ."

If you’re not a close friend of the person then leave them well alone.

We’ve had messages saying people have recognized us after they’ve seen us out shopping, that’s fine to message us afterwards

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By *sjrcMan
4 days ago

Glasgow

At most a polite nod if they are alone, but generally just no. Wouldn’t dream of going up to someone I recognised on here.

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By *opeyXWoman
3 days ago

Dun Dee

"What is the best way to approach someone you recognise from fab in public with out embarrassing them or yourself ? Its never happened to me I'm just curious ."

Don't! Like ever! There private lifes private.

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By *r Mystery OP Man
3 days ago

Montrose

Thank you all for the input, it's one of these things that if you don't ask then you don't know. I'm still wrapping my head around the etiquette but you are all helping a great deal

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By *otuseater11Man
3 days ago

IRVINE

You don't walk on by.

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By *angtidy42Couple
3 days ago

Redditch

The first rule of FaB club is ......

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By *exyStefaniTV/TS
3 days ago

Motherwell

If they are in B&Q using a TV remote to measure things, I think it may just be safe to say hello.......

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By *tew008Man
3 days ago

edinburgh

Yea I’ve seen some folk but never said owt

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Fife

Well i prefer to be treated like a human. If it's in a store simply have a conversation like a normal person about something..Introduce your real self because you've clearly saw my real self. The fab part is irrelevant at that moment.

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By *erfHerder74Man
2 days ago

Inverclyde

Say hello

If it’s quiet try stretching the conversation, take time, don’t seem in a rush or asking for sex

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By *enni WhiteTV/TS
2 days ago

Glasgow

I've had plenty messages in here from people who have seen me in public. I think that's the correct thing to do.

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By *uttercupWoman
2 days ago

Borders

Please dont, I've been approached a couple of times. I've personally hated it

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By *cotsman269Man
2 days ago

Falkirk

Apparently a cock pic or the cock it’s self is the best way to approach someone on fab ! 🤣😂

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Just think of Rule 1 of Fight Club!

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By *atte Lover 82Man
2 days ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

I think the done thing is to just not approach. Maybe you could message later on and see if it opens up a conversation.

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By *uctifanoWoman
2 days ago

Glasgow

"Don’t! "

Definitely definitely this!

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By *hagira ShagiraWoman
24 hours ago

Lanarkshire

Definitely don't, there is no need to be approaching anyone of here that you don't know . I think it's a case of feeling like ye know someone because you happen to be n the same site , have seen pics but the reality is , it's a stranger! Would you approach someone you don't know but might very seen pics on vanilla social media platforms ,I think not ,here should be no different . It would only serve to cause distress and alarm . Its a case of fantasy and real life shouldn't mix ,just because it seems you now someone ,you dont !

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By *hyguy1966Man
23 hours ago

Forfar

"I've had plenty messages in here from people who have seen me in public. I think that's the correct thing to do. "

I would 100% agree. Afterwards perhaps message and if they want to progress a conversation that’s fine but I would hate to be pulled up. One day I was messaged by a random guy who used my nickname. I could’ve melted and felt panicked by it. I then tried the cover up with them ‘who’s ???’ Etc. another guy said he knew my wife and kids and that felt horrible. Bad enough being recognised online but in the street would be worse.

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