FabSwingers.com forum: Married but looking

By *arrguy49 OP Man
4 days ago

stevenson

Hi. No judgement please. But would any ladies and gents like a group. WhatsApp prob. For married fun seekers. Numbers kept as level as possible ie. Male to female ratio. Some woman on here are happy to meet married guys or are married but many more are not. Just a thought happy to set group up.

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By *icker55Man
4 days ago

ayr

Good idea as its not just married men not getting any sex , some married women aren't as well .So it could help everyone .

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By *encuckMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

I'd join

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By *ushido 777Man
3 days ago

Falkirk

Im definitely interested in joining

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By *yr48Man
3 days ago

ayrshire

Yes please

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By *tormin1965Man
3 days ago

edinburgh

Yes please.

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By *rversachyMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

Yeah id be interested

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By * J xxxMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

I’m interested

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By *cotscock69Man
3 days ago

Loanhead

Add me

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By *hefifevoyeurMan
3 days ago

Leslie

I'd be up for it.. But fear as always it will be all guys and no gals... But would love to be proved wrong

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By *unForrestRunMan
3 days ago

North Ayrshire.

All guys by the looks of it

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By *oggie-dMan
3 days ago

dundee

I’m up for that

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By *ifemarkMan
3 days ago

dalgety bay

The ratio in responses alone tells a story

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By *octor WhenMan
3 days ago

GLASGOW

"The ratio in responses alone tells a story

I was thinking the same thing.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
3 days ago

Hinckley

"Hi. No judgement please. But would any ladies and gents like a group. WhatsApp prob. For married fun seekers. Numbers kept as level as possible ie. Male to female ratio. Some woman on here are happy to meet married guys or are married but many more are not. Just a thought happy to set group up. "

But that wouldn't be a group of swingers, would it??

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By *oyeur 777Man
3 days ago

glasgow

Great idea and I would love to be involved too but seems to be a lack a females interested which could be a problem.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
3 days ago

Hinckley

"Great idea and I would love to be involved too but seems to be a lack a females interested which could be a problem."

Maybe all you guys could have fun together!!

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By *exy gentMan
3 days ago

Midlothian

I would be interested

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By *2ooMan
3 days ago

Borders

Sounds good to me

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By *rettCoolMan
2 days ago

Dunfermline

Ye I would definitely join

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
2 days ago

Nowhere

I think the women to man ratio is already looking a bit tricky

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By *ipserviceCoolMan
1 day ago

Glasgow

I'd be in but also think it's only guys who want to join

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By *assy LassieWoman
1 day ago

Lanarkshire

Women won't need to. More guys will meet married women that the opposite.

Hence why you never see a married woman complaining about lack of attention on the forums...

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By *andN2Couple
1 day ago

Glasgow

I think you guys are needing a cheating website, rather than a swinging website. Might have more luck there

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
24 hours ago

Perth

"I think you guys are needing a cheating website, rather than a swinging website. Might have more luck there

Absolutely true

Cheating isn't swinging.

It's dishonest. Our swinger friends, and our lifestyle choices are very honest.

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By *octor WhenMan
18 hours ago

GLASGOW

"Judge not, that ye be not judged"

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By *hrobbermanMan
18 hours ago

Lanarkshire

""Judge not, that ye be not judged"

"Do what thou will't, shall be the whole of the Law."

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By *assy LassieWoman
15 hours ago

Lanarkshire

Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷‍♀️

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By *agnar73Man
12 hours ago

glasgow-ish

"Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷‍♀️"

Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.

Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.

We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
8 hours ago

Hinckley

Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.

Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.

We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life."

Modern life has not become a dishonest life, or did I miss something along the way??

Cheating is dishonest and disrespectful. An abuse of trust.

That isn't being judgemental, before all the cheats get on their high horse, it is merely stating how it is.

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By *omble 69Man
5 hours ago

Symington

Cheating is cheating !!!!

It seems such and easy thing to say and cast all married guys as selfless.we are cheaters,however we never know guys reasons for looking somewhere else I'm not making excuses just explaining the situations.

Personally I would rather not be here and back to the times when my wife and I had a good sex life and it was something we thought would always be that way however just over 10 years ago my wife that I have been with for over 30 yrs took ill with what the doctor thought was due to s reaction to a possible insect bite and ended up in hospital with vascular issues the upshot of this is she started to suffer joint and muscular pain which has progressively got worse to a point sex is not an option due to the pain as its painful she has had no interest for almost 10 years tried various medication to help the pain with no real effect,now on anti depressants due is effect on her mental health.

This is the person I've loved almost from the day we met she's my best friend and soul mate and I thought things would improve in time and it never has,she use to get so upset that she couldn't enjoy sex due to the constant pain and got very down knowing that it was something I was missing see her like this was awful and I said it's not an issue and not to worry about it and joked I'm all shagged out from the past with you and not as much intrest now!

Which isn't true I still miss sex with her so much and know I can't go through the rest of my life without sex but wouldn't tell my wife that as there's nothing she can do to fulfill my need for sex and I wouldn't hurt her by bringing the topic up and I do know that I can be a bit short with here sometimes due to my sexual frustration which I hate.

In every other way our marriage is perfect and I would never leave and ultimately that's why I'm here to fulfill my own needs and I know it makes me selfish and a cheater, people can call me what they like but please don't judge everyone without knowing the reasons or what their situation is.

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By *agnar73Man
1 hour ago

glasgow-ish

Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.

Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.

We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life.

Modern life has not become a dishonest life, or did I miss something along the way??

Cheating is dishonest and disrespectful. An abuse of trust.

That isn't being judgemental, before all the cheats get on their high horse, it is merely stating how it is."

As I said that’s modern life. If people can handle it, that’s for them

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