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By *yeaye1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Just Here

Is it acceptable to receive and read messages without deleting or even blocking the sender if not interested and no intention of replying?

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By *nomeo_and_julietCouple
4 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

Yes, nobody on here is owed anything.

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By *exsaCouple
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Its just the nature of it unfortunately.

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By *WC 101Man
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes as just because you have received a message doesn’t mean it guarantees a reply.

Don’t get me wrong, of course it’s good manners to reply, even if a no thanks but it shouldn’t be expected.

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By *okesandsmilesCouple
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

There is a lot of decent people on this site and the time just isn’t there to reply to everyone especially if a profile gets lots of messages.

Also it can be the nicest message from the greatest of person but if the mood or timing is wrong that can come into effect also.

I think the key is expect nothing back and don’t take it personal a no reply can be for multiple of reasons that’s not even anything to do with the sender

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By *exsaCouple
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"There is a lot of decent people on this site and the time just isn’t there to reply to everyone especially if a profile gets lots of messages.

Also it can be the nicest message from the greatest of person but if the mood or timing is wrong that can come into effect also.

I think the key is expect nothing back and don’t take it personal a no reply can be for multiple of reasons that’s not even anything to do with the sender "

Yes to all of this

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By *yeaye1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Just Here

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By *yeaye1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Just Here

Agree with all that also

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By *yeaye1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Just Here


"Yes, nobody on here is owed anything."

Absolutely get that. Would it not help your inbox though?

I’ll get a “thanks but no thanks” I have no issues and will delete and block.

Is that harsh ?

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By *yeaye1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Just Here


"There is a lot of decent people on this site and the time just isn’t there to reply to everyone especially if a profile gets lots of messages.

Also it can be the nicest message from the greatest of person but if the mood or timing is wrong that can come into effect also.

I think the key is expect nothing back and don’t take it personal a no reply can be for multiple of reasons that’s not even anything to do with the sender

Yes to all of this "

Absolutely yes to all this

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By *j2015Couple
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Maybe we are too naive but we always respond to all “messages”!

For clarity

The one line vulgar comments and “hey”’s are just deleted on site but anything that has taken 60s+ to type deserves the same in respect as far as we are concerned… (for now 😅😈)

If we dont want messages we turn them off, the setting is right there 🤷‍♂️. I hate the idea of ignoring genuine messages if you are open to receiving them. We answer the way we want to be answered… even if that means “no thank you”

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By *anger01Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Maybe we are too naive but we always respond to all “messages”!

For clarity

The one line vulgar comments and “hey”’s are just deleted on site but anything that has taken 60s+ to type deserves the same in respect as far as we are concerned… (for now 😅😈)

If we dont want messages we turn them off, the setting is right there 🤷‍♂️. I hate the idea of ignoring genuine messages if you are open to receiving them. We answer the way we want to be answered… even if that means “no thank you”"

Quite agree with that x

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By *assy LassieWoman
4 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

People with deal with their inboxes as they choose. Accept what you can't control and focus on what you can

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By *yeaye1000 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Just Here


"People with deal with their inboxes as they choose. Accept what you can't control and focus on what you can"

Absolutely!

Great advice.

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By *ebel just for kickssWoman
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Inboxes can be overwhelming especially if just posted a new picture or status update. Let’s all keep it kind and considerate. With all the will in the world no one has time to reply to every message received. That being said there is no need for vulgar and hateful messages once “ignored” or rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

No different to getting the old school

“Knock Back” when I was younger lol one of those things but upto yourself a no thanks is just a way of cutting it off quickly. Most are grown up enough to not dwell on it and move on lol You can’t be everyone’s type

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