FabSwingers.com forum: Chatting Up In Bars

By *estiswest OP Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

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By *assy LassieWoman
11 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Have you seen the young ones in pubs. They still communicate on their phones🤣

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By *estiswest OP Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

I noticed that actually, pre club nights in particular. Wetherspoons excluded

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By *yeSureMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Would love the wife chatted up in front of me. Maybe in bar, hotel bar, just wherever we are when out

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By *oneys1Couple
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

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Honey absolutely loves getting chatted up in bars.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

Alas, chatting up in the finest of cocktail bars is a thing of the past. It's a place where I go to reminisce and look back with sensual fondness on how things used to be. Many a clandestine encounter or a romantic tryst was established on the back of woo'ing a woman at a bar or across the floor as she was seated on a vintage leather banquette.

We live in sad times. 🩶

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
11 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"Alas, chatting up in the finest of cocktail bars is a thing of the past. It's a place where I go to reminisce and look back with sensual fondness on how things used to be. Many a clandestine encounter or a romantic tryst was established on the back of woo'ing a woman at a bar or across the floor as she was seated on a vintage leather banquette.

We live in sad times. 🩶"

I agree, pulling on a night out is a dying art. Loved socialising in pubs and clubs in my teens and twenties. Chatting to everyone, flirty looks across the room, bumping into your new winch while waiting at the bar.

My kids don’t get to experience any of that now. Everyone is face down in their phones.

Everything being prearranged on a dating app……theres no spontaneity or excitement.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

She has a rather delectable derrière... ... ... ...⬆️

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By *bcplCouple
11 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

"Would love the wife chatted up in front of me. Maybe in bar, hotel bar, just wherever we are when out

My husband would love this to happen too

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By *assy LassieWoman
10 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

We live in sad times. 🩶"

I can picture it very clearly. You have a way with words Mr Nero😜

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By *estiswest OP Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow

Was in Bon Accord last night, gorgeous girl at the bar…make the leap make the leap but no! Digital has to go.

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By *essicaandmarkCouple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mr loves watching Mrs getting flirted with! Sadly it seems to be a dying art.

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By *bcplCouple
10 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

I don’t know but I’m planning a date night with Mrs where hopefully someone chats her up and it leads to things

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By *yeSureMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Would love the wife chatted up in front of me. Maybe in bar, hotel bar, just wherever we are when out

My husband would love this to happen too

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By *uietbloke67Man
10 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Achh ye canny beat a wee blether

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By *exsaCouple
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Ahhh i love meeting people when out… cant beat a bit of flirty banter. It does seem harder these days though.

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By *addison blueMan
10 weeks ago

falkirk

A busy night in Edinburgh on Saturday, managed to chat to a couple in angels share and chatted up a woman in rat pack, flirting was happening on both counts……. Success x

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

Honey absolutely loves getting chatted up in bars."

any particular bars? 😀

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By *hyme2020Woman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

I definitely have noticed it is a dying art, but the last time I was out in Glasgow I was chatted up by a younger guy and we had a lovely evening 🤣🤣so maybe I have just been going to the wrong pubs

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Id chat you all up

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm sure it does happen. It's just sadly never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I'm sure it does happen. It's just sadly never happened to me "

Im sure youve been chatted up plenty times

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By *lanenakedMan
10 weeks ago

near you

Always managed to pull no bother on nights out .. like everything else .. failure means you learn .. if you don't have a go you'll never know lol .. just wish (usually younger) women didn't immediately put a barrier up that you have to fight to break down first.

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By *azzle99Woman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

As someone who was out most/every weekend in there late teens, 20’s and most of 30’s, occasionally in my 40’s - NEVER had a vanilla one night stand, and NEVER had a guy chat me up/offer drink etc!

As a super confident, social butterfly had plenty guy friends try to explain to me why..! Fab does wonders for my confidence that bars don’t!

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By *exsaCouple
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?

I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it.

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
10 weeks ago

edinbugh

I’m out in a few weeks so I can’t wait for you all to chat me up

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By *yeSureMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *otwifedundeeWoman
10 weeks ago

Dundee

found it very rarely happens on nights out now days. Shame as abit of banter and flirting when out can be fun.

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By *azzle99Woman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?

I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it. "

Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset

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By *rs23Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow

"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?

I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it.

Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset "

Love a confident woman as well from time to time

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By *exsaCouple
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?

I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it.

Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset "

Ahhh i kinda thought as much. Trouble is, im looking at them thinking i am punching too 😂

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By *rStamina100Man
10 weeks ago

central belt

"found it very rarely happens on nights out now days. Shame as abit of banter and flirting when out can be fun. "

Question is when your next out

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By *otwifedundeeWoman
9 weeks ago

Dundee

"found it very rarely happens on nights out now days. Shame as abit of banter and flirting when out can be fun.

Question is when your next out

I can hope for a Christmas miracle

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By *ighlandballsMan
9 weeks ago

perth

Can't beat socialising chatting up talent

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dundee

"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

Ocasionally still happens when I'm out.

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By *assy LassieWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

Ocasionally still happens when I'm out.

Cause you're a hottie🔥🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

Ocasionally still happens when I'm out.

Cause you're a hottie🔥🤣"

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You are both hóttìes. Hot enough to melt the hearts of Knights and Paladins. †

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dundee

"Is this still a thing or is it all online now?

Ocasionally still happens when I'm out.

Cause you're a hottie🔥🤣

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You are both hóttìes. Hot enough to melt the hearts of Knights and Paladins. †"

Tenner in the post Sassie.

Nero you smooth talker!

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By *hee CASAMan
9 weeks ago

Banterville

For me it’s still a thing I’d do it but I think most of it is online now

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

People still meet at work I think

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By *ocallurkerMan
9 weeks ago

Inverurie

Local pubs or maybe even it could happen in a local shop...

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By *addison blueMan
9 weeks ago

falkirk

"found it very rarely happens on nights out now days. Shame as abit of banter and flirting when out can be fun. "

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By *rStamina100Man
8 weeks ago

central belt

"found it very rarely happens on nights out now days. Shame as abit of banter and flirting when out can be fun.

Question is when your next out

I can hope for a Christmas miracle "

No need for a Christmas miracle I’m just a message away to bump into you when your heading out xx

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By *abrina59TV/TS
8 weeks ago

moved to cuckold land

Didn't even see any flirting or chatting up in swingers bars in PDI Gran Canaria which was disappointing having managed get wife to go to them

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By *agnar2323Man
8 weeks ago

Valhalla

Christ I wouldn't even know how ti start a conversation never mind trying to chat a woman up.lol

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By *lanenakedMan
7 weeks ago

near you

"What was your guy friends explaination out of curiosity?

I dont tend to get chatted up a lot… unless i intiate it.

Most guys feel intimidated when a female appears more confident than them, or the whole ‘punching above their weight’ mindset "

Initially perhaps but you just relax into it. I love a confident outgoing woman.

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By *wen StiffFannyWoman
7 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I think it's a minefield for the younger generation with chatting people up on a night out . Too many snowflakes who are far too quick to take harmless flirting the wrong way .In turn they miss out on the pleasure of seeing someone they like and going for it .Its much easier done through their socials and apps . Sadly is a very different world they live in.

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By *_murphWoman
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

A couple of guys tried to chat me and a pal up last night.

As I'm so used to guys messaging on here, I was surprised they didn't say "Fancy a fuck" and get their cock out!!

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

"A couple of guys tried to chat me and a pal up last night.

As I'm so used to guys messaging on here, I was surprised they didn't say "Fancy a fuck" and get their cock out!!

Did they swipe left or did they swipe right?

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By *inderbox10Man
7 weeks ago

Enjoying Maspalomas and Playa del Inglés

Really, in some of the bars in Glasgow I would have thought that might well have been the opener... 😜😜

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By *lanenakedMan
7 weeks ago

near you

"I think it's a minefield for the younger generation with chatting people up on a night out . Too many snowflakes who are far too quick to take harmless flirting the wrong way .In turn they miss out on the pleasure of seeing someone they like and going for it .Its much easier done through their socials and apps . Sadly is a very different world they live in."

Agree x

Glad I'm gen x

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By *tew008Man
7 weeks ago

edinburgh

Works better in bars than on here

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By *t112Man
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Wife chat on snap or WhatsApp ?

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