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By *rmrsp999 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

glasgowish

Here's a scenario, (thankfully hasn't happened to us).

Your browsing through your who's looked at me page, and you find someone who you know, wether it be a friend/ family member/ work colleague has looked at you or messaged you.

Do you offer a polite no thank you, or explain to them it's a no because you know them but let them know your not gonna out them because their there fir the same reason as you?

Discuss

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By *echnaMan
9 weeks ago

not near

IF it were to happen, I’d likely make each decision individually if they made contact.

Probably internally whoop at ‘calling it! Or ‘I thought they might be’

- as a single guy, receiving contact first is quite rare

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

You block them and move on.

To tell them you know them could raise panic in that person.

More morally ethical to block.

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By *cotsman269Man
9 weeks ago

Falkirk

It’s an interesting one. I would be worried but at the same time excited. Love the thought of knowing someone is on here you know and of the same mindset.

Wouldn’t out anyone though that’s just bad taste.

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By *rmrsp999 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

glasgowish


"It’s an interesting one. I would be worried but at the same time excited. Love the thought of knowing someone is on here you know and of the same mindset.

Wouldn’t out anyone though that’s just bad taste."
I definitely wouldn't out anyone, that's just not fair

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By *rmrsp999 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

glasgowish


"You block them and move on.

To tell them you know them could raise panic in that person.

More morally ethical to block. "
I agree with that, like I said, it was a theoretical question

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By *ee69Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow

Or maybe you like each other and go fuck it lol

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By *rmrsp999 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

glasgowish


"Or maybe you like each other and go fuck it lol "
there's always that option right enough

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By *acelvisMan
9 weeks ago

Thurso

I had a very similar experience I was messaging a couple and turned out they were from same village. Had a few messages back and forth something, I must have said that they realised who I was. They told me they knew me and thought it would be awkward. I said surely not I didn’t think it would but they replied believe us it would as we know you very well lol. Never did find out who and amicably stopped messaging

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By *ighlander34Man
9 weeks ago

skye


"I had a very similar experience I was messaging a couple and turned out they were from same village. Had a few messages back and forth something, I must have said that they realised who I was. They told me they knew me and thought it would be awkward. I said surely not I didn’t think it would but they replied believe us it would as we know you very well lol. Never did find out who and amicably stopped messaging "

Surely it wasn't your parents??

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By *ightaswelltryMan
9 weeks ago

Coatbridge

Heard of two people messaging and when the girl sent the guy a face pic it was his Aunt.

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By *ore_Please81Woman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I’ve had men messaging me knowing exactly who I am(using my name) but their profiles are blank and too chicken to say who they are…..so it’s a block from me x

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By *isbehavingWoman
9 weeks ago

Huntly

I’ve had it happen numerous times. I’ve dealt with it on an individual basis. Some I’ve just politely declined and never mentioned I know them. Others I have disclosed I’ve know them. Some I have gone on to meet, others it has been a thing that’s gone no further than messages.

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By *acelvisMan
9 weeks ago

Thurso

I wouldn’t say it was luckily. But no the aren’t around lol. Now that would be awkward

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By *iss xWoman
9 weeks ago

hamilton

I got chatting to a guy I went to school with on here , was bit weird , as we both kinda guessed who each other was . We were also both married at the time , I'm now divorced but he's still married . I have also been messaged by a few people I know , just tend to ignore and definitely wouldn't out someone

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By *hyme2020Woman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

I was messaged by a couple on here who after a few messages sent me a picture even though I hadn’t asked and I knew her. I didn’t know what to say I just said they were a lovely couple and ignored the next few messages

Think they are still on here as I have seen them look at my profile a few times, but no further contact.

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By *DXNaturalMysticXWoman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

This is a pet hate and heavy creepy!

I’ve been recognised from my pictures irl as well.

I don’t have face pictures so I don’t know how.

Who is someone else to judge being here.

I’m single and straight up with people.


"I’ve had men messaging me knowing exactly who I am(using my name) but their profiles are blank and too chicken to say who they are…..so it’s a block from me x"

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By *ocal Bi Guy For FunMan
9 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Having seen people I know from work and through friends on here it’s not that uncommon to receive a message from someone you may know… if you like them and you’re up for some fun, then all power to your elbow… if you know them and think “feck that” it’s best just to block and move on with your life.

Blocking happens all the time, the only issue is that is doesn’t hide/remove the blocked profile from showing up

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By *ane DTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Glasgow ish

Happened to me once, a couple I know in my Vanilla world sent me some pics and a friend request.

I didn't answer back. Too close to be comfortable for me.

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By *iguymatureMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Would like that idea of talking to someone who I know and they know who I am and we share our fantasy ideas to each other and I have already thought that I had been talking to someone I knew who was a colleague of my wife and I know if it was who I think it was then we really have an attraction to each other

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By *iguymatureMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think it depends on who they are and what sort of attraction you have between you i have seen someone who I know well and we have had a conversation about having a meet but because I swing by myself now they said they don't do married

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
9 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"Here's a scenario, (thankfully hasn't happened to us).

Your browsing through your who's looked at me page, and you find someone who you know, wether it be a friend/ family member/ work colleague has looked at you or messaged you.

Do you offer a polite no thank you, or explain to them it's a no because you know them but let them know your not gonna out them because their there fir the same reason as you?

Discuss "

So a friend of my hubby's messaged him and said "did I see you on a certain site?" My hubby played dumb until his pal straight up said "fab". It's definitely raised some interesting conversations

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Whatever happens on fab should stay on fab- discretion is the better part of Valor!

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By *iguymatureMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have seen a profile of a married woman who I know and she states that she is doing it behind her husbands back and I have sent her a few messages and she has replied with some really nice pictures and I realised who she was when I noticed a back drop of one of her pictures and she told me that she would like to meet up with a guy who is discreet and she said she wanted lots of kinky sex as she said her marriage had no sex at all.

I was asking her what she wanted to do and when I knew who she was i started to ask her what if a guy approached her with no fuss said that he recognised her profile on fab and she said that she was thinking about that saying that she got turned on by the idea

I was sending her photos of my cock and she asked me to send her a tribute video which I did and she said she would like to have that cock of mine and she said she was bi curious about another woman with me asking her if she had seen a woman that she knows but she found her very sexy and that she can imagine her with her and get really horny

And I was saying to her that I had various neighbours that I would wank to but it was really horny thinking about them and she tells me that she had done it before thinking about a married woman and I ask her what she looked like and she described her and I realised that it was my wife but didn't say to her but I said to her if she had a husband and she said she did asking her if she would fuck her husband and she said that she would love to fuck him and we talked about different fantasy thoughts and she said she liked getting fucked from the back with her saying especially with your big cock and I was so horny and was thinking of how to let her know it is me she had been talking to so I thought if I got her in the morning as she walked her dog.

So next morning I was up early as I see her walking the dog and I walked over to her and was talking to her asking her if she is going to work and when she said she has the day off work and she will have the house to herself

So I go online and send her a message and we exchanged messages with me asking her if I could have her phone number so she said yes but I have to promise not to call her without her saying to and she sent her number and I hide my number and I called her and I hear her say hello sexy as I say to her that she is very sexy and that she gets me hot and horny thinking about her and she said she was the same as we talked she said that my voice is familiar with me asking her what her name was and when she said Tracy I said what no way she said to me what did I mean with me saying that I know her and not to panic about it when I said to her that I would call her back in ten minutes and put the phone down and went downstairs to her front door and she opened it and I said to her could I speak to her in private as she told me to come sit with her and I said to her that she was not to worry about anything but I am the guy she is talking to on fab and she just looked at me and smiling as she asked me if that was really my cock picture with me saying to her that it was with her saying it got her so horny with me saying so did that picture of her pussy and she said she was surprised when I said I was not as I realise it was her and I told her that I wanted to kiss her as I move to her and kissing her with me pushing my hand inside her skirt and I feel that she has a really small pair of knickers on as I run my hand through her pussy as I kiss her lips with my tongue in her mouth and she is getting wet and she is saying to me that we can't just go for it here and I tell her to come next door to mine and she said she would be two minutes and I go back to my house and she rings the bell and I let her in and I see that she had got herself changed into a very short skirt and white blouse with her nipples pressing against it with me kissing her and playing with her nipples saying that I really wanted her and she replied that she was so horny for me and we had gone to the room and she asked me what about my wife and saying to her that she was not into sex like i was as I tell her that we had met with another couple before and she said she would not do it again as I was between her legs and I have my face in her pussy and she is absolutely moaning and saying she was loving it and maybe we could swing together

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By *hagira ShagiraWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"I have seen a profile of a married woman who I know and she states that she is doing it behind her husbands back and I have sent her a few messages and she has replied with some really nice pictures and I realised who she was when I noticed a back drop of one of her pictures and she told me that she would like to meet up with a guy who is discreet and she said she wanted lots of kinky sex as she said her marriage had no sex at all.

I was asking her what she wanted to do and when I knew who she was i started to ask her what if a guy approached her with no fuss said that he recognised her profile on fab and she said that she was thinking about that saying that she got turned on by the idea

I was sending her photos of my cock and she asked me to send her a tribute video which I did and she said she would like to have that cock of mine and she said she was bi curious about another woman with me asking her if she had seen a woman that she knows but she found her very sexy and that she can imagine her with her and get really horny

And I was saying to her that I had various neighbours that I would wank to but it was really horny thinking about them and she tells me that she had done it before thinking about a married woman and I ask her what she looked like and she described her and I realised that it was my wife but didn't say to her but I said to her if she had a husband and she said she did asking her if she would fuck her husband and she said that she would love to fuck him and we talked about different fantasy thoughts and she said she liked getting fucked from the back with her saying especially with your big cock and I was so horny and was thinking of how to let her know it is me she had been talking to so I thought if I got her in the morning as she walked her dog.

So next morning I was up early as I see her walking the dog and I walked over to her and was talking to her asking her if she is going to work and when she said she has the day off work and she will have the house to herself

So I go online and send her a message and we exchanged messages with me asking her if I could have her phone number so she said yes but I have to promise not to call her without her saying to and she sent her number and I hide my number and I called her and I hear her say hello sexy as I say to her that she is very sexy and that she gets me hot and horny thinking about her and she said she was the same as we talked she said that my voice is familiar with me asking her what her name was and when she said Tracy I said what no way she said to me what did I mean with me saying that I know her and not to panic about it when I said to her that I would call her back in ten minutes and put the phone down and went downstairs to her front door and she opened it and I said to her could I speak to her in private as she told me to come sit with her and I said to her that she was not to worry about anything but I am the guy she is talking to on fab and she just looked at me and smiling as she asked me if that was really my cock picture with me saying to her that it was with her saying it got her so horny with me saying so did that picture of her pussy and she said she was surprised when I said I was not as I realise it was her and I told her that I wanted to kiss her as I move to her and kissing her with me pushing my hand inside her skirt and I feel that she has a really small pair of knickers on as I run my hand through her pussy as I kiss her lips with my tongue in her mouth and she is getting wet and she is saying to me that we can't just go for it here and I tell her to come next door to mine and she said she would be two minutes and I go back to my house and she rings the bell and I let her in and I see that she had got herself changed into a very short skirt and white blouse with her nipples pressing against it with me kissing her and playing with her nipples saying that I really wanted her and she replied that she was so horny for me and we had gone to the room and she asked me what about my wife and saying to her that she was not into sex like i was as I tell her that we had met with another couple before and she said she would not do it again as I was between her legs and I have my face in her pussy and she is absolutely moaning and saying she was loving it and maybe we could swing together "

call me cynical but like that actually happend ... thats some yarn tae spin Meryl Streep got an oscar for less

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