FabSwingers.com forum: “Woe is me”

By *lxxdstag OP Man
9 weeks ago

East Kilbride

What’s the deal with all the guys posting on the forums feeling sorry for themselves😂?

It’s funny you always see it “oh why can’t I get a message back blah blah” then you check & it’s the most boring bland profile that you have ever seen & it’s giving wife doesn’t know I’m on here.

If you actually want to meet people & aren’t just chasing some fantasy to get your rocks off when the Mrs is at work while you’re sitting on the couch then go to events, socials, clubs.. nobody wants to hear your pity stories, a woman isn’t going to see it & think oh poor man I should fuck him to make him feel good about himself.

Do better.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

What's more boring is profiles with nothing written and loads of dick pics

No imagination but they expect to get laid

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

I prefer the male solidarity threads, where masculine carmarderie prevails and men support each other.

The ones that I dislike are the 'men bashing' ones, often created by other (luckless) men.

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By *DXNaturalMysticXWoman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Agreed.

Sending random phrases like you have Tourette’s doesn’t help.

Sending full blown random niche fantasies instead of a message doesn’t help.

Bitter or self pitying statuses and bios are a massive ick.

Being huffy is a huge ick.

We are all just human here but put in a little effort and it will get returned. That doesn’t mean copy and paste war and peace.

Face pics and showing you are a normal human helps!

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By *exicolaMan
9 weeks ago

West Lothian

There are some genuinely looking for advice though and the forums are the best place to ask.

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By *rmrsp999Couple
9 weeks ago

glasgowish

"Agreed.

Sending random phrases like you have Tourette’s doesn’t help.

Sending full blown random niche fantasies instead of a message doesn’t help.

Bitter or self pitying statuses and bios are a massive ick.

Being huffy is a huge ick.

We are all just human here but put in a little effort and it will get returned. That doesn’t mean copy and paste war and peace.

Face pics and showing you are a normal human helps!

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I think a wee bit of humour can help as well

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"There are some genuinely looking for advice though and the forums are the best place to ask."

If I may counter what you are saying. I believe the forums are full of fakery and sarcasm bordering on bully tactics sometimes. 80% is ego, 20% real...

Sifting through the minefield is a task in itself.

Take much with a pinch of salt.

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By *ee69Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow

"There are some genuinely looking for advice though and the forums are the best place to ask.

If I may counter what you are saying. I believe the forums are full of fakery and sarcasm bordering on bully tactics sometimes. 80% is ego, 20% real...

Sifting through the minefield is a task in itself.

Take much with a pinch of salt."

Ad say so best to keep it light and post fun , unfortunately anything serious usually end in tears , better with giggles

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By *ightaswelltryMan
9 weeks ago

Coatbridge

Thread title reminds me of Billy Connolly talking about teachers at School saying “Woe Betide the boy who doesn’t do his homework, woe betide the boy who plays football instead of coming to School”

Billy said he thought it was a lad called Wobbie.

“Good on fucking Wobbie I say!”

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By *DXNaturalMysticXWoman
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Good humour and being able to not take themselves too seriously is a big bonus.

I had someone write me a really good poem once and it was actually lovely. Haha.

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By *enpauljonesMan
9 weeks ago

glasgow

How have I just discovered these forums??? I’ve clearly never paid enough attention till this point! Shame on me ! Brilliant points raised all round here /nice work folks

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