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By *in and tonic for 2 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

We are just dipping our toes in this lifestyle. We've been a few times to a club and was good but I feel social part is short. Seeking advice on which is best route to having amazing experiences?

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By *SCouple81Couple
2 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Organised socials are good as well

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By *luebell888Woman
2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I like hotel meets.

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By *astyBrownieMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow


"We are just dipping our toes in this lifestyle. We've been a few times to a club and was good but I feel social part is short. Seeking advice on which is best route to having amazing experiences?"

there are few people who organise socials, so if you can dm them they would help you with the upcoming dates and social events

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By *omeo1991Man
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I like hotel meets."

Definitely enjoy this and smaller parties than some of the clubs

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By *ock1Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I have been in the lifestyle for a long time, and attended all the different events over this time, socials are a good way to start, club are fantastic, everyone is always friendly and welcoming, and you don't have to do anything you don't want to,

You can just sit and chat and have a good night out

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife

I don't think the UK has or know the definition of lifestyle it's very much only tick box and discreet..

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By *amierebelMan
2 weeks ago

nae danger.

Mollies

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By *oneys1Couple
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

We would like to meet more folk on socials too. With no necessary expectation something is going to happen.

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By *amierebelMan
2 weeks ago

nae danger.


"We would like to meet more folk on socials too. With no necessary expectation something is going to happen. "

Sounds like a free night out tbh 👍

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"I don't think the UK has or know the definition of lifestyle it's very much only tick box and discreet.."

What is the difference? Genuine question.

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By *itkat_and_cutCouple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Our preference is socials then personal meet. We like to get to know people. Makes it more fun for us x

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By *exsaCouple
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Mostly on the forums. Or if you go to events and search organised social. Most of the bigger ones are there

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By *exsaCouple
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Thanks, will definitely keep an eye out. x

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I think it’s a pretty even balance between clubs and socials. Contrary to some beliefs (from those who perhaps haven’t been), clubs also have a strong social atmosphere without any pressure to go further.

There’s a lovely group that often meet for social drinks before CJs, you have the city specific social events ran by good folk listed here in the forums and ofcourse the clubs themselves

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By *exicolaMan
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

Personal / private meets for me.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Social events lead to good networking.

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By *ucketlist DuoCouple
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"We would like to meet more folk on socials too. With no necessary expectation something is going to happen. "

That's the same for me (L) I'm still fairly new to this and not very confident, I'd like to do more social stuff where if it naturally progresses to play, so be it, but not "ok, here's a drink so get naked now"

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By *ucketlist DuoCouple
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up. "

Not daft, I'd also like to know this

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife


"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.

Not daft, I'd also like to know this "

They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event

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By *inky-girl-for-useWoman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire/glasgow


"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.

Not daft, I'd also like to know this

They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event "

I’ve been to multiple socials that are actual social events rather than a drink before a club, they’re always advertised on the Scotland forum

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By *ucketlist DuoCouple
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.

Not daft, I'd also like to know this

They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event "

Yeah I'm not a fan of using kik etc, at least on here both my husband and I can see messages

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.

Not daft, I'd also like to know this

They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event

I’ve been to multiple socials that are actual social events rather than a drink before a club, they’re always advertised on the Scotland forum "

Yup plenty non play social events. We've done bowling and mini golf. Silent discos and karaoke...no at the same time🤣. That would be brutal🎵

There is a really good social scene in Glasgow and edinburgh

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By *uyin2Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I like hotel meets."

I Have a thing for starched hotel linen!

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By *oomsOnFireCouple
2 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Our preference is private parties. A social and meet all in one! Organised socials are a great way to meet people and we’ve always had a fun night at them! Mrs x

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By *ifeycplCouple
2 weeks ago

Stirling

Tescos biscuit aisle is ill-advised - ("spill on aisle 9!")

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By *exsaCouple
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

This is great to know, lots to look forward to, we are East based so will keep a look out for the next event.

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By *lanenakedMan
2 weeks ago

near you


"We would like to meet more folk on socials too. With no necessary expectation something is going to happen. "

Sounds ideal tbh

But the usual problem is getting to the first hurdle of getting any replies and chat ..

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