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"Why is it full of profiles saying nsa or fun now etc and no woman reply’s is it full of fake profiles a don’t get it? Anyone else agree" Maybe they are having nsa and fun with other guys. Doesn't make them fake just because they don't meet you | |||
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"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day? Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls." Never mind per day imagine per hour even faceless profiles don’t last long on here if the gender is female either they’re fake profiles or can’t deal with the desperation in the inbox | |||
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"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day? Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls." We have about 500 unread on here at the moment, we do try to reply to most but the box always grows | |||
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"I dm you there " Fs, how come she gets a dm and yet I go without being given attention? This is a cruel cruel place | |||
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"Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection. I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. " This 100% | |||
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"Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection. I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. " And the occasional ham sandwich | |||
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"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day? Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls. We have about 500 unread on here at the moment, we do try to reply to most but the box always grows " As one of those guys still awaiting, I do appreciate that you try. 
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"Why is it full of profiles saying nsa or fun now etc and no woman reply’s is it full of fake profiles a don’t get it? Anyone else agree" For single men, its a slow burn. Like a zen master you got to be at peace with it. Flow with it. It seems counterintuitive but going into each interaction without even expecting to be responded to can help. Put the effort in, but accept that even your very best can be met with silence or go unread altogether. There is nothing you can do to guarantee responses. And even an initially responsive user can suddenly become unresponsive for a variety of reasons. You have not necessarily done anything wrong. Its a frustration that you can adapt to and the less you care, the easier it becomes. However, you must at the same time not allow a learned indifference to tank the quality of your messages. Its truly an emotional as well as intellectual challenge. But It can be done.
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"Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection. I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. And the occasional ham sandwich " No, no, no….you were supposed to stop all talk of ham sandwiches 🤢 | |||
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"I honestly dont get the mentality of jumping to the conclusion that if a woman doesnt reply to you they must be a fake and a timewaster . Theres such a thing as preference and sorry but if you dont meet that then your mails essentially deadwood , As harsh as that sounds it the truth . when getting a mail first thing i do is click on the profile and make a decision from there if that doesn't appeal then i wont be replying , as probably 9 times outta 10 when i say no thanks not for me i get met with abuse or just as bad desperation on why i should take that chance, sometimes replying to a mail that's no wanted just opens up the channel for subsequent unwanted mails . Also having a whinge on the forums about how unfair it is for you is hardly gonna have hoards of women wae there breeks round their ankles batterin down your inbox ! " ⬆️ what she says!!! | |||
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"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day? Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls. We have about 500 unread on here at the moment, we do try to reply to most but the box always grows " Message filters help if you are overwhelmed by your inbox | |||
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" I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. " Oh I dunno, it would work for me  | |||
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" I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. Oh I dunno, it would work for me "You've a male profile so your point doesn't stand🤷♀️🙄 | |||
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" I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. Oh I dunno, it would work for me
You've a male profile so your point doesn't stand🤷♀️🙄"You’re correct, I do however have a sense of humour. | |||
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" I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. Oh I dunno, it would work for me
You've a male profile so your point doesn't stand🤷♀️🙄
You’re correct, I do however have a sense of humour. "Good for you! My point stands tho | |||
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