FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback yes or no?

By *ornyfifelad24 OP Man
25 weeks ago

fife/kent

Trying to work out something I understand having bareback sex with regulars and only if able to count on one hand or not not sure. Imput from others please what's your view's xx

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
25 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Yes. I prefer bareback. Unfortunately, I've not had the opportunity to do it with a female yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Always a no for me. You just never know what a partners sexual activity is like on here.

Best thing anyone can do is look after their own sexual health, and then that has the added bonus of protecting your partners.

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By *jezee1000Man
25 weeks ago

perth

Akways

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By *pen to offers!Man
25 weeks ago

Carlisle

It depends on what the person I’m meeting wants. Most prefer bareback, hence the reason for regular testing.

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By *omble 69Man
25 weeks ago

Symington

Safe only here

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By *hilmeup85Man
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

Safe sex for me unless it's with someone regular, it's been agreed and she's on contraception

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By *ennox DuncanMan
25 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

I've only ever been sodomised a few times, four men in total, two, I let do it to me bareback, but they were both 19 at the time, me in my fifties, and they had done it to very few people before me, so I thought it was a calculated risk. The other two were 25 and 30 respectively, so I got them to wear condoms.

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By *enelope2UWoman
25 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

A regular has the benefit of no restrictions

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By *ornyfifelad24 OP Man
25 weeks ago

fife/kent

"A regular has the benefit of no restrictions

Yeah as long as not got alot off one offs they are fucking bareback then I agree that's why I have a few regulars that o ly do it with their other half or me thankfully x

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By *hyme2020Woman
25 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference

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By *ab_Fucker_xxxMan
25 weeks ago

Bellshill

Not a chance.

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By *ornyfifelad24 OP Man
25 weeks ago

fife/kent

"Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference "

I understand where your coming from I am fortunate enough to have trust and know they won't bullshit me as I won't bullshit them with me it's take me as I am forward blunt and to the point no crap no shit talking just truth that's all I ask for in return means trust is alot stronger that way for me aswell x

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By *hyme2020Woman
25 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

You just need to look at how many people are on here behind their partners back. Where is the trust there? They could be going back to their unsuspecting partner and having a normal relationship but playing bare with multiple other people who they “trust”

You do what suits you. We’re all different and I will stick to playing safe.

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By *ornyfifelad24 OP Man
25 weeks ago

fife/kent

I get that but the ones I'm with are here as a couple and their partners know about us that'd the trust part for me xx

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By *ore_Please81Woman
25 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Everybody lies, trust no one and play safe.

This is a swingers site where people have multiple partners and they have multiple partners and they have multiple partners…..you never just sleep with one person more like hundreds! Get on prep if bi and going bare

I only play bare with someone once we’ve both been tested and are in a monogamous relationship or play together safely!

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

My x would scream for a strangers cum

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By *j2015Couple
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Everybody lies, trust no one and play safe.

I only play bare with someone once we’ve both been tested and are in a monogamous relationship or play together safely! "

Completely agree except for the inclusion of your Bi comment.

Any penetrative sex without a condom carries a risk of HIV or Hep A regardless of preference or sex.

Also testing is not a defence unless you are abstained for 6+weeks before your next play.

Infact its well documented that in the first 6 weeks of contracting HIV the virus is at its most transmissible while being likely undetectable.

We live is a better time. PEP and PrEP are available for free. If your are bare backing outside of monogamy and not using these you are either lazy or stupid. Unless risk is your kink and your partner is on board! Just make sure nobody else is involved untill that 7week result 🤷‍♂️

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By *entlemanrogueMan
25 weeks ago

Barrhead

I always use protection as mentioned above you never know who who else is fucking around, despite any trust between you.

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By *agnar2323Man
25 weeks ago

Valhalla

Only with my wife. If I'm meeting someone else then protection always

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By *atindollTV/TS
25 weeks ago

edinburgh

I much prefer bareback sex,it is so much more natural than condoms,no fiddling about with slippery wrappers while you lose your horn,just push yourself inside me,as long as you fill me with cum I'm happy.

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By *enelope2UWoman
25 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"A regular has the benefit of no restrictions

Yeah as long as not got alot off one offs they are fucking bareback then I agree that's why I have a few regulars that o ly do it with their other half or me thankfully x"

Trust is required..so many I know who turn their noses up to my choice have condom kids, STDs, STIs, multiple fathers to multiple children and are sneaking off to fulfill their bi and or cheating habits.. meanwhile laying next to a partner who's oblivious but yeah them...

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By *ert999400Man
25 weeks ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

My sexual health is important so I'm always protected.

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By *otuseater11Man
25 weeks ago

kilwinning

Me personally I like to play safe at all times

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By *ariadx2Couple
25 weeks ago

Wrexham

We test regularly and all of our meets have been bareback.

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By *4rk4ndL1ghtMan
25 weeks ago

Bonnybridge

Fully agree 👍

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By *r-Mrs BackagainCouple
25 weeks ago

Perthshire

Hell no , it’s not worth dying over . Bareback with the Mrs butbit gets wrapped up for everyone else

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By *r-Mrs BackagainCouple
25 weeks ago

Perthshire

I get folk test regularly but I always think one day those results will come back positive for something really nasty then it’s too late , you’ve got it

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By *erts86Man
25 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

I love bareback. It's just so much more intimate and naked.

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By *ountry cowboyMan
25 weeks ago

Perth

"Trying to work out something I understand having bareback sex with regulars and only if able to count on one hand or not not sure. Imput from others please what's your view's xx"

I agree no restrictions with trusted confidential friends which is what she wants anyway as she has a thing for sitting on my face and having me clean her out after sex.

It works for us both as she gets off on it and cums hard.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Scream like a banshee as I feel like it would be more of a release

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By *apdadgeMan
8 weeks ago

sextown

I second that .

Why take the risk or risk other people .

Play safe allways .

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By *enelope2UWoman
8 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Perk of a regular.. otherwise zero chance

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By *enelope2UWoman
8 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Fully agree 👍"

And couples with cheating partners ... ..like most on here

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Bareback is our preference

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By *pforflirtMan
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Always played safe but recently just want someone to really really fk me!

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By *atindollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

edinburgh

Bareback is best,just slip inside without fuss

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By *ightswearer1313Man
7 weeks ago

cumbernauld

God yes bare is best

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By *djojoTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Bareback and Condom, and im on event based prep and tested every 3 months.

I make a choice based on the kind of chat and the person im with, See in here, the majority of people lie and that's just the way it is, and so i take my time to work people out.

Profiles that say straight and yet they contact me, ring alarm bells. Guys that are married and playing away and yet knock me for using prep and getting tested wow wow wow.

Normally prefer to only bareback with guys and gals whom are also on prep and sti checked.

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By *ariadx2Couple
7 weeks ago

Wrexham

Same for us

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 weeks ago

glasgow

It's a no for me. Much to my own displeasure.

My safety and health come first. I get tested regularly, but still isn't worth the extra risk to me.

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By *wingingphil69Man
7 weeks ago

castleford

No problem with or without bareback is fine if you both agree

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
7 weeks ago

Bathgate

Not a chance, always play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Safety sammy here

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By *omble 69Man
7 weeks ago

Symington

Safe only here

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By *r Funtime GlasgowMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

No welly no dipping !!

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
7 weeks ago

nowhere, next to neverbinthere

If i had the choice it would be bareback but its not worth the gamble tbh unless you have built up a trustworthy relationship with the woman i would always wrap it up

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I was in a relationship with someone for 9 years, bareback obviously proper couple, once we separated I discovered they'd been having an affairfir the last 6 months of the relationship, I immediately got tested found out I had Chlamydia antibiotics prescribed and cleared up, this was 15years ago but I still remember that experience.

Yes I love the feel of bareback who doesn't but yeah trust me it's not worth it people.

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By *urvy fanMan
7 weeks ago

Dundee

In a solid, stable relationship yeah its swap fluids all day long.

But on here with randoms why would you? Some folk have more veris than chins in a chinese phone book, the odds are stacked against you as one could be barebacking with a dozen who in turn do the same.

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By *anilla_SundaeCouple
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

With a trusted partner yes, random people from here no. It's not worth the risk

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By *hyme2020Woman
7 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

It actually shocks me how many people are saying yes if both want it. My god I would want it every time I have sex, but will I do it, absolutely not because I know men I am having sex with are having sex with others too and that’s just the way it is. Bare contact with one “trusted” person could end up being contact with hundreds of we all have one or two “trusted” people. If someone doesn’t want to wear a condom with me, there will just be no sex and that’s fine by me

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By *erfHerder74Man
7 weeks ago

Inverclyde

If regular bed buddy yes

Random hook up definitely no

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By *ampervanfun2000Man
7 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Definitely not for me. My health comes first. Who knows what you are poking. So many irresponsible people don't seem to care about the consequences.

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By *cots boostCouple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?

As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.

I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose.

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?

As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.

I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. "

When you start having kids from a BJ then I'll buy defeats the purpose. There's a purpose for everything.

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 weeks ago

glasgow

"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?

As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.

I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. "

The risk is still there but isn't nearly as high. It's significantly reduced, though not for all STDs so you're right on that.

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By *oyboy34xMan
7 weeks ago

edinburgh

Safe play or no play this is a swingers site don’t know what sexual activity everyone has got upto I don’t mind and will always wrap it up

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By *uboCouple
7 weeks ago

East kilbride

Threads like this certainly increases the block list

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By *dtanyaTV/TS
7 weeks ago

gallowayshire

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By *TRAY-CATMan
7 weeks ago

dundee

I'm wrapping it ,

Play safe always ..

This is not just about possible pregnancy ( not in my case ✂️), but a health decision ,why take chances ? .

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"I'm wrapping it ,

Play safe always ..

This is not just about possible pregnancy ( not in my case ✂️), but a health decision ,why take chances ? .

Much like yourself stray cat I can't get people pregnant either I'm an official medically certified member of territorial army hahaha but yeah don't want a disease that's for damn sure I'd like him to stay healthy and active for a long time

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By *ergus1622Man
7 weeks ago

Dundee

Always got to play safe on here for obvious reasons

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By *ylonfan38Man
7 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Absolutely never bareback.

It doesn't matter if you have just been tested.

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By *tew1985Man
7 weeks ago

Near You

As much as I love bareback with trusted people I always feel like a hero wearing a condom. I can go for ages because I really struggle to cum wearing one.lol

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By *corpioboyMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Nope not for me.

Your health (and mine) comes first so no glove, no love.

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By *ouple up for fun1Couple
7 weeks ago

Hamilton

We would never do bareback with anyone trusted or not no matter how long weve known them for . We value our health and others we have fun with .

Anyone who does bareback gets instantly blocked along with anyone they have met and been verified by .

Thanks to this thread we have added quite a few profiles to our block list .

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My paranoia tells me to always "wear a jacket" as a female friend calls it.

My last/late girlfriend and I had been together for nearly 2 years, and she'd moved in before I stopped using condoms.

With my new partner, we're not at that stage yet, but if/when we do, the "jacket" will be on each time.

Mandy

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By *pank-me-harderWoman
7 weeks ago

close to leven

Definitely no for me far too many liars that will say anything to you . Safe sex only gotta be safe

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By *WeePurpleDragon.Couple
7 weeks ago

East Lothian

Never bareback you have got to keep yourself and others safe that's that ... Have fun but be responsible. Xxxx

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By *j2015Couple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hate that this is even a discussion.

Swinging and safety must be hand in hand.

The only 2 STDs that can genuinely kill you have a 6+ week incubation period before testable where the are most infectious..

We understand that risk is a kink in some circumstances but this isnt the 80s. And all you 100% straight people can get aids too. If you wanna fk bare take PReP an advertise you are doing it to educate others.

Seen 10 posts on barebacking and Never once a post on PReP 🤷‍♂️

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By *j2015Couple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?

As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.

I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. "

Its statements like these that are genuinely uneducated and worrying. There is absolutely a risk of infection via oral sex but it is definitely not comparable.Sex will always carry an accepted risk. Penetration (of anykind) carries a significantly higher exposure to infections and additionally opens you to exposure of AIDs and HEP A. These are blood transferring diseases that will impact every day for the rest of your life and so easily prevented by being a responsible adult and wearing a condom. Dont like the free ones? Us too, so open your wallet and buy some expensive condoms youre worth it!

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By *anilla_SundaeCouple
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Definitely safe for us. You can't buy back your health

Mrs

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By *atindollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

edinburgh

I love it,much more natural and either im very lucky or the risk now is negligible,of course there's always a whole raft of other stds but ive never had any issues.

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By *ee69Man
7 weeks ago

glasgow

I prefer bare , find girls do too but needs to be trust and honesty between partners , obviously in heat a moment it can just happen so always best discussed and agree beforehand

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By *idingawayCouple
5 weeks ago

Central

"I prefer bare , find girls do too but needs to be trust and honesty between partners , obviously in heat a moment it can just happen so always best discussed and agree beforehand"

I agree and bare does feel better

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By *ipserviceCoolMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

Really need to be safe so no to strangers but someone you know 😜

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By *idingawayCouple
5 weeks ago

Central

you just make new friends quicker so they're not strangers lol

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By *hiny CultureCouple
5 weeks ago

Greenock

100% agree! X

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By *hiny CultureCouple
5 weeks ago

Greenock

"Hate that this is even a discussion.

Swinging and safety must be hand in hand.

The only 2 STDs that can genuinely kill you have a 6+ week incubation period before testable where the are most infectious..

Seen 10 posts on barebacking and Never once a post on PReP 🤷‍♂️"

Exactly this!xx

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By *eallneedsomefunMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Never

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By *kinkkCouple
5 weeks ago

Cambridge

Prefer to be sure lol no cure for AIDS yet

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By *issBehave69Man
5 weeks ago

Skype, Bulgaria

There’s a reason to get tested regularly.

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By *carletbpoolTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Blackpool

If there any other way to fuck

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
4 weeks ago

east lothian

Wouldn’t be for us the thought of it is hot but no need to take chances

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Condoms were invented for more reasons than just birth control folks!

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *omble 69Man
4 weeks ago

Symington

No safe only

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By *oger_81Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

This right here!

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By *idingawayCouple
3 weeks ago

Central

I love bare with regular "friends"

it does feel so much better

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
3 weeks ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?

As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.

I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose.

Well the current oral gonorrhoea rates for Scotland speak for themselves !! Far too many folk in Scotland are being complacent and taking stupid risks Bathgate and Livingston numbers are the highest in the UK !!

Most of the documented cases have been picked up in the GP surgeries folk thinking they have tonsillitis !! Which is even scarier because it’s not even being picked up in the clinics ??? So these folk are only getting a positive result because they’re worried about their general health.

I’m at that stage now I don’t even think I could honestly go bareback with a regular partner on fab !!

The cases of OG have been through the roof since November with numbers not decreasing but increasing, had I known this I defo wouldn’t have been participating in my favourite social party game pass the polo ! First time I’ve ever had to go to the clinic and genuinely be concerned for my results

thankfully all clear but let’s hope all these unknowing partners of those cheating get off as favourably.

I feel like we’re taking a step backwards rather than forwards in promoting good safe sex practices and being mature adults !

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By *idingawayCouple
3 weeks ago

Central

you can still be same and have sensible fun

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By *eparated_galWoman
3 weeks ago

Salford

I prefer bare

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
3 weeks ago

Carmarthen

"I prefer bare"
absolutely me too

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By *ugehandsMan
3 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

Safe only for me.

Even when people say they only have regulars it's not to say their regulars are thier only regulars.

Stay healthy

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By *pl 4 funCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

An easy No !

Health has surely got to be everyone's priority

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Mrs has only ever done bareback. Joke was on her as when we broke up for a year she got a STD, unfortanly for me she never said anything when we got back together.

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By *ergus1622Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

Without a doubt everyone prefers bare however safety first is a must when it comes to this scene.

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