FabSwingers.com forum: Shy people...1st time

By *ikos81 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Hamilton

there I m a shy guy who want to attend an event..now I suffer of precous ejaculation and I m.shy sp if in a room if others guys I will cum quickly. Probably I will feel ashamed. did someone had an experience like that?? Girls how did you get on if a guy wants fuck you in front of hubby or others guys and cuts in 2minutes did u treated him like rubbish??

Thanks to everyone.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
3 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"there I m a shy guy who want to attend an event..now I suffer of precous ejaculation and I m.shy sp if in a room if others guys I will cum quickly. Probably I will feel ashamed. did someone had an experience like that?? Girls how did you get on if a guy wants fuck you in front of hubby or others guys and cuts in 2minutes did u treated him like rubbish??

Thanks to everyone."
I would never treat them like rubbish ever.

However it's very disappointing when it does happen especially on a 121 meet & the guy isn't a repeater.

It's not an issue if he is.

If a guy comes quickly and not a repeater then I'd expect some form of foreplay before hand to try and delay that happening.

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By *r-p-mrs-cCouple
3 weeks ago

near dumfries

Go to boots. Buy numbing cream called 'emla 5%'. Rub pea size amount on tip of penis. Leave for 20 minutes or more. Clean off before sex. Enjoy......

If this makes you struggle to get hard take selidnafil 50mg or 100mg whatever you need.

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By *hagira ShagiraWoman
3 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I think if this is genuinely the case and you are aware that there's a high chance of this happening maybe inform potential meets as I know if I was the meet and this happened I'd feel like I had been short changed .

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By *hyGuyIntroMan
3 weeks ago

Central

Try not to worry about it. (I know, easier said than done)

Best thing is to keep going, keep hard.

And a good women will keep you hard.

Isn't that right ladies?

Keeping fit and a healthy lifestyle helps.

Kinda, on the same topic, Porn movies will film the cum shots first, then have the stamina to keep going.

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By *assy LassieWoman
3 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Why don't you try attending small social events and meet folk in a more natural environment. Play might go better if you have all had some kind of interaction previously.

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By *ppicplCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mrs here - Maybe think of a plan B for if this happens. Oral? Massage? Vibrator? Or just a chat to find out what your partner might like (men sometimes forget we like to be asked!) Everyone’s different of course but generally showing consideration to a partner’s experience is the most important thing to us.

And I (Mrs) empathise because I’m pretty laid back and sexually confident in some situations and then have had bad bouts of stage fright other times, which can affect me physically. I’ve also known guys with a brilliant track record of all sorts of sexual adventures have various issues under pressure. At the end of the day we’re all human not robots.

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