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"Too vanilla? Feeld would like a word "I found it ok if you wanted to join a couple lol | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……." Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here  | |||
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"Fab dating should definitely be a site of it's own "Yes I think so too - I would love to do more dating but I got rid of tinder etc just as I found it so boring and rarely got any decent conversations. Sadly I’m up in Aberdeen so I’m slightly limited location wise but still keen to date up here | |||
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"Fab dating should definitely be a site of it's own
Yes I think so too - I would love to do more dating but I got rid of tinder etc just as I found it so boring and rarely got any decent conversations. Sadly I’m up in Aberdeen so I’m slightly limited location wise but still keen to date up here "Yeah but unfortunately I think it would fill up with guys looking to get laid rather than date. Feeld is a bit more of an open dating tool, find more polyamorous people there. Also you should all want to date Bootyful she is an amazing person | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here "I’m sure Falcon organised one years ago, heard it was a great night but don’t think there hs been one since | |||
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"Fab dating should definitely be a site of it's own
Yes I think so too - I would love to do more dating but I got rid of tinder etc just as I found it so boring and rarely got any decent conversations. Sadly I’m up in Aberdeen so I’m slightly limited location wise but still keen to date up here
Yeah but unfortunately I think it would fill up with guys looking to get laid rather than date.
Feeld is a bit more of an open dating tool, find more polyamorous people there.
Also you should all want to date Bootyful she is an amazing person "Yeah I guess that’s true! Aw shush you wee cutie  | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here "Watch this space😜 | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
I’m sure Falcon organised one years ago, heard it was a great night but don’t think there hs been one since "That was an amazing night
I'm still laughing about the lady who said as soon as I sat down, "I don't really know why I came, I know if I want to sleep with someone as soon as I see them."
"I see. How am I doing so far, then?"
[Swigs wine] "...eh." | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
I’m sure Falcon organised one years ago, heard it was a great night but don’t think there hs been one since
That was an amazing night
I'm still laughing about the lady who said as soon as I sat down, "I don't really know why I came, I know if I want to sleep with someone as soon as I see them."
"I see. How am I doing so far, then?"
[Swigs wine] "...eh.""Pmsllll, if she had lifted her hand up and shouted Cheque, then you were in | |||
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"I have tried tinder etc, but find it the same old boring chat from people “hey how’s you” type stuff all the time, it just gets boring, A fab dating site or night would be amazing, better chat more open about what you want and interest and not shy away from what both are actually looking for, sounds great. "This. No feeling the need to hide this part of yourself either. | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜"Oooh pleeease. Sign me up. | |||
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"I have tried tinder etc, but find it the same old boring chat from people “hey how’s you” type stuff all the time, it just gets boring, A fab dating site or night would be amazing, better chat more open about what you want and interest and not shy away from what both are actually looking for, sounds great.
This. No feeling the need to hide this part of yourself either."Absolutely agree, it’s good to chat to like minded people who are just open and honest. Just don’t tend to find that on normal dating sites | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up. "Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜 | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜"Ohhh well that would be a lot of fun 😜 haha | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜"I would definitely be up for this!!! Count me in x | |||
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"Definitely should be a thing and up for dating. Normal apps are tricky for me as I’m very specific to what I’m looking for and don’t play well with “normal” men x "Trying not to laugh here, but I'm definitely not normal. I have been in a mental institution, in the lock up ward but hey, I was visiting a family member | |||
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"Definitely should be a thing and up for dating. Normal apps are tricky for me as I’m very specific to what I’m looking for and don’t play well with “normal” men x
Trying not to laugh here, but I'm definitely not normal. I have been in a mental institution, in the lock up ward but hey, I was visiting a family member "Just my type then | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜"Definitely interested x | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜
Definitely interested x"A forum post will go up nearer the time. Numbers will be very limited and only genuinely single and meet verified people will be permitted. | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……." I think they are and the kink focused ones are absolutely horrible | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 13/10/24 19:22:26]" I totally typoed that last post - D'Oh! I said, Maybe Fabs should add Dating as an interest on the list on here? That way it would be easy for others to see if you're interested in dating via this place. Mandy | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites " . I am one of them. I would reckon I get 5 times as many meets as I do on here. Most of these meets are for sex. It may be a one-off or a FWB situation occurs. | |||
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"Oooh I read the speed dating but and that sounds fun" Keep an eye out for a post for a speed dating social in the new year! Plans are well underway | |||
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"Oooh I read the speed dating but and that sounds fun Keep an eye out for a post for a speed dating social in the new year! Plans are well underway" Will do thanks. Just need to pull my big girl brave pants on lol | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites . I am one of them. I would reckon I get 5 times as many meets as I do on here. Most of these meets are for sex. It may be a one-off or a FWB situation occurs. " Same here. Many times more meets and dates from the usual dating sites and the ladies are all attractive and chatty, with plenty kink going on !!. Just not enough women on here to make it a _ealistically successful thing unfortunately, otherwise be a great idea. Profiles of the same person vary between sites as is normal and to be expected. | |||
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"This is a really interesting one and been a good read through the posts. We all know the dating scene is a cesspit, I ended up with two stalkers (not joking btw), and it isn’t going to improve. People must be choosing to be single now rather than risk the negative experiences of the dating scene. I think fab dating would work for fb situations but it’s rare to have singles meet over here and have successful relationships. We all see the drama and hurt feelings that those interactions lead to. Perhaps dating socials/ singles only socials would be a more effective idea." Totally agree with this | |||
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"I like the idea of dating but dating apps give me the fear!. Maybe this would be the way to go" Dating sites are the pits in general!! But I've actually made some good friends off them, so they aren't Ll bad! | |||
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"I gave up on dating sites within about 3 months. Every guy I spoke to on dating sites were wanting to settle down... aye right! Just be upfront. Don't think I could ever go back to a traditional relationship. I like my telly remote too much😜🤣" I prefer not to be cheated in so I'd never date again... It's only open relationships and friends with benefits.. I can't stomach the dating sexual double standards | |||
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"So has anyone who has posted here had any interest and gone on any dates? " Yeah a couple of dates. Not socials. Though they still feel like socials. 😂 | |||
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"So has anyone who has posted here had any interest and gone on any dates? Yeah a couple of dates. Not socials. Though they still feel like socials. 😂" Not so good then? | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites " What other sites are they other than fab? | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites What other sites are they other than fab?" Google dating sites. It's not hard | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites What other sites are they other than fab? Google dating sites. It's not hard" Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites What other sites are they other than fab? Google dating sites. It's not hard Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens " That's your answer then. It's a lucrative business! | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites What other sites are they other than fab? Google dating sites. It's not hard Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens That's your answer then. It's a lucrative business!" Ooh look at you with the fancy words be normal an just say profitable 😂 not pay for something that say a have 20 odd messages and ask you to pay to see an just been registered with the place so what’s you answer for that one | |||
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites What other sites are they other than fab? Google dating sites. It's not hard Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens That's your answer then. It's a lucrative business! Ooh look at you with the fancy words be normal an just say profitable 😂 not pay for something that say a have 20 odd messages and ask you to pay to see an just been registered with the place so what’s you answer for that one " You asked if there were any sites like this. You've now researched and found most are behind a pay wall. Therefore there are not many sites like this. You have find the answer. Oh and I will use whatever words I like. As can you😜🤣 | |||
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"I like the idea of dating but dating apps give me the fear!. Maybe this would be the way to go" Inbox me if your still keen | |||
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self? Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……." | |||
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"I know successful partnerships have started on fab so this is defo possible, has there been any recent successes? " Happy New Year Mrs! I know of a recent successful match from one of our socials... I'm buying a hat and a flight to Vegas apparently🤵♂️👰 | |||
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"I know successful partnerships have started on fab so this is defo possible, has there been any recent successes? Happy New Year Mrs! I know of a recent successful match from one of our socials... I'm buying a hat and a flight to Vegas apparently🤵♂️👰" Jeeez. Good to hear. | |||
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"Wasn't me lol. " Certainly wasn’t me. | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣" It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣 It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace " I'm not sure about sky high demands and expectations but personally I refuse to just settle. I want romance, passion, mutual attraction, chemistry, dates and adventures. Someone who matches my effort and brings as much to the table as I do. I don't think that's asking for too much, infact to me it should be the minimum everyone is searching for | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣 It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace I'm not sure about sky high demands and expectations but personally I refuse to just settle. I want romance, passion, mutual attraction, chemistry, dates and adventures. Someone who matches my effort and brings as much to the table as I do. I don't think that's asking for too much, infact to me it should be the minimum everyone is searching for " This | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣 It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace I'm not sure about sky high demands and expectations but personally I refuse to just settle. I want romance, passion, mutual attraction, chemistry, dates and adventures. Someone who matches my effort and brings as much to the table as I do. I don't think that's asking for too much, infact to me it should be the minimum everyone is searching for " Oh the list of demands that are made on profiles. makes it a slog or it felt like a slog for me. Some women around my age looking for men that had no ties for holidays etc or don’t be this or that.. The matching and messages, so you actually don’t really get to a point to say ‘go for a coffee/chat?’ My experience with it was that you don’t actually get to dates as the way it’s set up with the dating site is to maximise your time looking rather than get you to an outcome where you can do the dates or adventures or find chemistry or passion. Sort of fruitless endeavour and agree with those that say prolonged exposure to dating sites can be not good for mental health I do not particularly want to settle for anything either but, it’s also pointless being in the shelf of a dating site | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣 It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace I'm not sure about sky high demands and expectations but personally I refuse to just settle. I want romance, passion, mutual attraction, chemistry, dates and adventures. Someone who matches my effort and brings as much to the table as I do. I don't think that's asking for too much, infact to me it should be the minimum everyone is searching for " This⬆️ if I ever decide to date my expectations will be very high. Love my single life so if someone isn't bringing a good deal to the table I will continue to eat alone. On the couch. With the remote to myself🤣 | |||
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"I know successful partnerships have started on fab so this is defo possible, has there been any recent successes? Happy New Year Mrs! I know of a recent successful match from one of our socials... I'm buying a hat and a flight to Vegas apparently🤵♂️👰" Awwww love this! Vegas baby! | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣 It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace I'm not sure about sky high demands and expectations but personally I refuse to just settle. I want romance, passion, mutual attraction, chemistry, dates and adventures. Someone who matches my effort and brings as much to the table as I do. I don't think that's asking for too much, infact to me it should be the minimum everyone is searching for This⬆️ if I ever decide to date my expectations will be very high. Love my single life so if someone isn't bringing a good deal to the table I will continue to eat alone. On the couch. With the remote to myself🤣" Same as Ms Wyld and Sassie, this is the bare minimum, having tried dating I'm back to just having fun. If it comes along its meant, but it should upgrade your life. I've stopped trying to make sense of people. The right people will get your kind of crazy. I'd rather be a vibrant ball of energy, not a dimmed light in the corner. Men who dont play mind games, and just say what they mean are attractive. No drama, just me and someone whose actions echo there promises. Someone whose heart is a big as their sense of humour. Someone who keeps the bare minimum away from me and who shows up with passion. Sometimes what doesnt work out for you, really does work for you. 2025 is all about effort without forcing. If its not meant to be, peacefully let it go. Life's far too short, I'd rather spend that time with real connections with friends and family and doing all the things I love. I have been so much happier single than in some realtionships, so I will choose being happier every single time. It's good to have boundaries and know your own worth. | |||
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"I am trying to get my head around dating and lone wolf/singleton existence 🤣 It’s not so easy. Did dating sites before fab and it’s just a load of weirdness really and im guessing a lot of people I saw in it two or three years ago will still be there with their sky high demands and expectations. I wouldn’t say any site is any better and simply not worth it in terms of time and headspace I'm not sure about sky high demands and expectations but personally I refuse to just settle. I want romance, passion, mutual attraction, chemistry, dates and adventures. Someone who matches my effort and brings as much to the table as I do. I don't think that's asking for too much, infact to me it should be the minimum everyone is searching for This⬆️ if I ever decide to date my expectations will be very high. Love my single life so if someone isn't bringing a good deal to the table I will continue to eat alone. On the couch. With the remote to myself🤣" I may have expressed it wrongly or been taken wrong way but from what I saw on internet dating sites from quite a few profiles of women around my age wasn’t appealing in terms of what they said and how they said it. Probably not what I was looking for in terms of building my own confidence again and basically to try and get dates and see if there was a connection or not. Of course, I understand what you and others are saying in tenant of self worth and that’s entirely fine. But some of the things I saw were jaw dropping lists of demands and guys my inevitably will be parents or have went grey etc etc | |||
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