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What Is Your Dynamic When You Meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago

This can be a long winded one for many to go through but feck, it, why not.

So what is your dynamic when you meet?

What do you feel normally, what do you think you want, desire, connection, intimacy, sexual compatibility, and communication around sex or you most interested in a fuck?

You maybe submissive, switch, naturally dominant, toy, brattish, experimental etc.. but what is the dynamic you want the most?

AND do you truly think of your company's enjoyment as well as your own when meeting?

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By *opeyXWoman
7 weeks ago

Dun Dee

Its really not long winded for me. Its as simple as meeting and being myself and hoping there themself and chatting and seeing if theres chemistry/connection/likes dislikes etc and taking from there. Its certainly not about just a fuck.

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By *ugehandsMan
7 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

As HopeyX says. Simple really

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By *exy gentMan
7 weeks ago

Midlothian


"Its really not long winded for me. Its as simple as meeting and being myself and hoping there themself and chatting and seeing if theres chemistry/connection/likes dislikes etc and taking from there. Its certainly not about just a fuck. "

100% agree 👍

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By *cottishMrsWoman
7 weeks ago

Wishaw

I always like a social meet first so I can see if we vibe. It's easy to type words on a screen and think you're hitting it off but if your personalities clash etc it won't work. Folk think I'm an arsehole for insisting on even a quick ten minute coffee to say hello, but there's nothing more awkward than arranging a meet and then having to get out of that meet halfway through because you're not vibing.

Then on to the meet, I love mutual fun and enjoyment. I've had far too many meets now where the guy is all about him, and it's just not satisfying. Especially when, most of the time, it's me doing the travelling. So now, for me, it's about enjoying each other, building up the passion, tension and excitement, flirting, teasing, touching, exploring and then getting down to it 🥵

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By *assy LassieWoman
7 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"I always like a social meet first so I can see if we vibe. It's easy to type words on a screen and think you're hitting it off but if your personalities clash etc it won't work. Folk think I'm an arsehole for insisting on even a quick ten minute coffee to say hello, but there's nothing more awkward than arranging a meet and then having to get out of that meet halfway through because you're not vibing.

Then on to the meet, I love mutual fun and enjoyment. I've had far too many meets now where the guy is all about him, and it's just not satisfying. Especially when, most of the time, it's me doing the travelling. So now, for me, it's about enjoying each other, building up the passion, tension and excitement, flirting, teasing, touching, exploring and then getting down to it 🥵"

This 100%

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By *alcon43Woman
7 weeks ago

Paisley

For me it was the endless coffee meets with the occasional one that led to a follow up meet for fun. There has to be a connection and plenty to chat about. For me it’s always been a very sociable experience. Not a play and go.

The enjoyment has to be mutual, relaxed, easy to get on with. The result being that I still have friends from 12/13 years ago that I still keep in touch with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago


"I always like a social meet first so I can see if we vibe. It's easy to type words on a screen and think you're hitting it off but if your personalities clash etc it won't work. Folk think I'm an arsehole for insisting on even a quick ten minute coffee to say hello, but there's nothing more awkward than arranging a meet and then having to get out of that meet halfway through because you're not vibing.

Then on to the meet, I love mutual fun and enjoyment. I've had far too many meets now where the guy is all about him, and it's just not satisfying. Especially when, most of the time, it's me doing the travelling. So now, for me, it's about enjoying each other, building up the passion, tension and excitement, flirting, teasing, touching, exploring and then getting down to it 🥵

This 100%"

ffs i wish I knew how to build up the passion, tension, desire, excitement, flirting, teasing, wanting, touching, exploring and then letting go...

Feck it, one day I might figure it out

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"I always like a social meet first so I can see if we vibe. It's easy to type words on a screen and think you're hitting it off but if your personalities clash etc it won't work. Folk think I'm an arsehole for insisting on even a quick ten minute coffee to say hello, but there's nothing more awkward than arranging a meet and then having to get out of that meet halfway through because you're not vibing.

Then on to the meet, I love mutual fun and enjoyment. I've had far too many meets now where the guy is all about him, and it's just not satisfying. Especially when, most of the time, it's me doing the travelling. So now, for me, it's about enjoying each other, building up the passion, tension and excitement, flirting, teasing, touching, exploring and then getting down to it 🥵"

100% agree

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By *exsaCouple
7 weeks ago

Dunfermline

This 100% Always a social first.

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