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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hay there, I've been on the site a wee while now and had a couple of fun meets. Starting to get curious about attending CJ's or just other parties.

My point is that very inexperienced about these sort of parties and wondering if there is any sort of ettiquette regarding the time between walking in the door and finding someone to have some fun with. Is it just have a chat and see what happens? Do people get started and invite others to watch/join in to break the ice?

Any info on anything about the parties would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been a few times

Never have played so ...

Mostly standing about downstairs until either someone asks you Or you go perv in the Open room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CJs and parties are what you make of them you can just socialise or go look for some fun to join I don't wait for anyone to ask me lol I wander upstairs after a few drinks to perv on what's happening in the open rooms you don't have to take part but I can't help myself iv gate crashed a few sessions without complaints. I just need one person to give me the eye of approval lol I'm sure I was on centre stage last night when I was tied to the cross and flogged in the dungeon ouch stingy butt lol just come along see it as a house party and take it from there ... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to go but hard for being single guy n trying to find a femalen is even harder

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Treat it like any other house party..

Get chatting, enjoy and go with the flow...

There are no guarantees that you will have fun....Its what you make of it....

Never just sit in the corner and expect others to come to you

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Desperately trying to pluck up the courage to go to my first!

Heard such great things about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat it like any other house party..

Get chatting, enjoy and go with the flow...

There are no guarantees that you will have fun....Its what you make of it....

Never just sit in the corner and expect others to come to you "
am trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CJs and parties are what you make of them you can just socialise or go look for some fun to join I don't wait for anyone to ask me lol I wander upstairs after a few drinks to perv on what's happening in the open rooms you don't have to take part but I can't help myself iv gate crashed a few sessions without complaints. I just need one person to give me the eye of approval lol I'm sure I was on centre stage last night when I was tied to the cross and flogged in the dungeon ouch stingy butt lol just come along see it as a house party and take it from there ... X "
your ass was definitely mine lol. cannot wait to have you all to myself, let you see what I can really do to you. Goddess. Aphrodite. x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CJs and parties are what you make of them you can just socialise or go look for some fun to join I don't wait for anyone to ask me lol I wander upstairs after a few drinks to perv on what's happening in the open rooms you don't have to take part but I can't help myself iv gate crashed a few sessions without complaints. I just need one person to give me the eye of approval lol I'm sure I was on centre stage last night when I was tied to the cross and flogged in the dungeon ouch stingy butt lol just come along see it as a house party and take it from there ... X "
yeah but your a fem,,

how many guys would be allowed to do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CJs and parties are what you make of them you can just socialise or go look for some fun to join I don't wait for anyone to ask me lol I wander upstairs after a few drinks to perv on what's happening in the open rooms you don't have to take part but I can't help myself iv gate crashed a few sessions without complaints. I just need one person to give me the eye of approval lol I'm sure I was on centre stage last night when I was tied to the cross and flogged in the dungeon ouch stingy butt lol just come along see it as a house party and take it from there ... X yeah but your a fem,,

how many guys would be allowed to do that? "
If the situation is controlled lots, just not to mine as im domme lol. x x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"but your a fem,,

how many guys would be allowed to do that? "

Only a trusted male would get to do it...

Plenty others were watching....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to make it one day... Pipers welcome? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a couple of times, to CJ's She is a lovely host, a lovely lady, makes everyone feel welcome, always met lovely people to chat with too.

I would recomend CJ's to everyone, I'm also sure you would have a great night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you pay your money to chat? lol

yeah shes a lovely host and always made to feel welcome but,,

as i just feel whenever iv been all single guys do is pay their money and either hang about in the kitchen waiting on folk to talk to them or hang about outside the bedrooms?

auds x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

That depends on the single guy...

Is he the kind to wait about and just hope something will happen?

Or does he make an effort to interact with others?

MOST make the effort...

But there are also singe women and couples that dont make the effort to chat and get involved...Some just sit in lounge/soft play and dont really move...

ME? Il chat to anyone, even forced my ass into lounge and soft play just to say hi to others...

Most will chat back....but you do get the rare few that simply dont make the effort..

Hell Auds...Iv even chatted to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always found CJs friendly, and liked it as a newbie as I have always been invited to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya!!! Lol

Yeah it is a friendly place..but...

Would i go alone as a single guy..

Nope i wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to CJ's on my own 5-6 times and have enjoyed every visit.

Sometimes I've played others times I haven't but more often than not have met cpls/fems that I've met up with at a later date.

Some say the price for a single guy is high but when u compare how much you would spend on an average night out then it's no dearer,yes cpls/fems get in cheaper but that's just the way it is.

You'll be made more than welcome by everyone there and as long as you don't have the attitude of I've paid my money now I want a fuck you'll have a great night.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"Hiya!!! Lol

Yeah it is a friendly place..but...

Would i go alone as a single guy..

Nope i wouldnt

"

I would't

She would probably cut my balls off if I did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a few times.

It's good.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I do feel for the single guys in this situation...

It must be hard for them...

But if you dont go and check it out for yourself, you will never know....

So man up...and get going...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel for the single guys in this situation...

It must be hard for them...

But if you dont go and check it out for yourself, you will never know....

So man up...and get going... "

Couldn't have put it better myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do feel for the single guys in this situation...

It must be hard for them...

But if you dont go and check it out for yourself, you will never know....

So man up...and get going... "
Yip well said

Whats great for some might Not be that Good for others..

Only you can decide

Xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CJs and parties are what you make of them you can just socialise or go look for some fun to join I don't wait for anyone to ask me lol I wander upstairs after a few drinks to perv on what's happening in the open rooms you don't have to take part but I can't help myself iv gate crashed a few sessions without complaints. I just need one person to give me the eye of approval lol I'm sure I was on centre stage last night when I was tied to the cross and flogged in the dungeon ouch stingy butt lol just come along see it as a house party and take it from there ... X your ass was definitely mine lol. cannot wait to have you all to myself, let you see what I can really do to you. Goddess. Aphrodite. x x "

Come and get it xxx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defoe love to have courage to go, just no sure of what to do as far as standing about like a spare,standing on own in room as night goes by ahhhh memories of 80s school disco flooding back!!!! Need a buddy there.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont stand about like a spare then....

Get chatting to others there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will do , hope to go soon ,will work on chat skills and no it wont start with show us your tits!!!!!

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By *edo CplCouple
over a year ago

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CJs is a great safe environment for like minded people to mingle and a must for every one to try at least once

Yes we may have a biased opinion here as we are good friends with the host having attended since her first ever club 8 or so years ago but that doesn`t mean our opinion maybe is always a favourable one as changes can always be made to improve even the best of venues / parties but we genuinely believe CJ and her team try their very hardest with limited resources and put on a brilliant night

We can see Janda`s point aswell though and will agree on occasions that we havn`t always had the best of nights there and that we would also like to see some theme nights making more of a comeback for example "Fetish night" not something we thought we would be into but we found them highly interesting evenings lol

We have also suggested themes like "Lingerie nights" or even a "Nude night" to throw something completely different into the mix especially so for regulars who may feel things sometimes go a bit stale and samey when you attend the same venue all the time however CJ has to think of the majority of attendees when it comes to these themes so sadly has felt they might not suit her style of party

She has however took other suggestions onboard from ourselves and others and these have been tried and tested some being successful some not so

So what i`m trying to say is the venue is there for a small fee but what you make of it once your there is entirely down to the individuals so maybe some need to try a little harder and not be so shy the next time they go ourselves maybe included in that

We are unfortunately on a work load / shift pattern forced break from CJs just now but hope to return soon

Give it try folks

xxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

So what i`m trying to say is the venue is there for a small fee but what you make of it once your there is entirely down to the individuals so maybe some need to try a little harder and not be so shy the next time they go ourselves maybe included in that

xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you make a forum up looking to see who is going on the 11th fun for all

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