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Arranged Meets vs Quickly Arranged Meets !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago

Arranged Meets vs Quickly Arranged Meets

What do you prefer and why and what’s your views?

I normally prefer arranged meet, getting to know the person(s) that I meet but for past few months I’ve been so busy due to family health problems it’s been up in the air for me. Had a cpl of 1 on 1 socials and went to the arranged bowling social but had to miss silent disco due to rushing to hospital.

But the question is what do you prefer and why and it can be social meets of fun meet?

I prefer arranged but last minute meets can be brill fun too

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden

My Quickly Arranged Meets (QAM™) are exceptionally påssionate encounters arranged from a month¹ onwards.

My Rare Arranged Meets (RAM™) are exquisitely romantic trysts arranged two² months in advance, at least. My last one (Monday just gone) was arranged in early July. Currently there is one arranged in November, the foundations of which were laid in mid-August.

Life gets in the way - we are increasingly trapped in our work and home lives, but not so much that we are not deterred by scheduling romantic dalliances which require careful planning and logistical arrangements.

I like to get to know the person which involves extensive messaging between myself and her. Short flirtatious chats and long sensual missives, moving over to WhatsApp or Telegram to build on that emerging chemistry and the sexual frisson. I am a slow burn. Quite often my paramours are too.

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By *hagira ShagiraWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I think arranged meets builds a tension and a want for the other participant , the only way I'd do quick meets is with people I've met with previously .. each has there place on here though and both can be incredibly exciting .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago


"My Quickly Arranged Meets (QAM™) are exceptionally påssionate encounters arranged from a month¹ onwards.

My Rare Arranged Meets (RAM™) are exquisitely romantic trysts arranged two² months in advance, at least. My last one (Monday just gone) was arranged in early July. Currently there is one arranged in November, the foundations of which were laid in mid-August.

Life gets in the way - we are increasingly trapped in our work and home lives, but not so much that we are not deterred by scheduling romantic dalliances which require careful planning and logistical arrangements.

I like to get to know the person which involves extensive messaging between myself and her. Short flirtatious chats and long sensual missives, moving over to WhatsApp or Telegram to build on that emerging chemistry and the sexual frisson. I am a slow burn. Quite often my paramours are too."

Great post but ‘quickly arranged meets’ I’m meaning like on the day, you see someone looking to meet now and you arrange a meet. As against any arranged meet, a cpl of days, week, a month etc..

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"My Quickly Arranged Meets (QAM™) are exceptionally påssionate encounters arranged from a month¹ onwards.

My Rare Arranged Meets (RAM™) are exquisitely romantic trysts arranged two² months in advance, at least. My last one (Monday just gone) was arranged in early July. Currently there is one arranged in November, the foundations of which were laid in mid-August.

Life gets in the way - we are increasingly trapped in our work and home lives, but not so much that we are not deterred by scheduling romantic dalliances which require careful planning and logistical arrangements.

I like to get to know the person which involves extensive messaging between myself and her. Short flirtatious chats and long sensual missives, moving over to WhatsApp or Telegram to build on that emerging chemistry and the sexual frisson. I am a slow burn. Quite often my paramours are too.

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Great post but ‘quickly arranged meets’ I’m meaning like on the day, you see someone looking to meet now and you arrange a meet. As against any arranged meet, a cpl of days, week, a month etc..

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Oh I sêê. No, I don't do 'meet now', unless she's a forum-dweller and wants to meet for a coffee because I happen to be in the vicinity. But for sex, nø. 🚫

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
10 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Always pre-arranged meets however sometimes you get a good vibe about someone and I have been know to meet within a short period but never the same day as contact.

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By *hyme2020Woman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

I have never met someone on the day I have started talking to them, and never would. I just prefer to get to know someone first so normally chat for a while. It can be difficult as life gets in the way, but I would never be that horny I would just invite a total stranger over. I have had last minute meets arranged with men I have met multiple times before then we realise we are both free and that’s a great bonus. Safety is paramount and I wound never feel safe inviting a stranger into my house that quickly.

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By *rdadjokesMan
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I do usually like to get to know someone but have met on the day if we have really clicked.

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By *quaRegiaMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'd never do a quickly arranged meet, I like to get to know someone a bit beforehand and make sure there's some rapport before going any further.

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By *enLucyCouple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

I find the requests for ‘meet tonight’ or ‘asap’ unappealing. They’re demanding and it strikes me that they’d be as happy with a prozzie.

Plan it, build it up. Get inside our heads before you seek to get inside the rest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Arranged meets, as they are usually longer lasting and you know the person a little.

Quick meets are rushed and an exscue to release the poison with anyone. No real sexiness to it.

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By *SCouple81Couple
10 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Arranged for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago


"I find the requests for ‘meet tonight no’ or ‘asap’ unappealing. They’re demanding and it strikes me that they’d be as happy with a prozzie.

Plan it, build it up. Get inside our heads before you seek to get inside the rest lol"

I would probably say this, arranged meets are always best. Yeah there’s nothing better for me when that couple, that single female wanting me, want my company and knowing they want to play. The chats, the lead ups, they all work and without doubt you can have some of the most amazing fun

But there are the quick meets, could be a social and or fun and don’t think they should be discarded but always check and make sure comfortable and if there is any bit of a doubt then don’t . Quick meets can be with someone you know or chatted to previously or even someone who has taken your fancy and they feel the same way.

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By *opeyXWoman
10 weeks ago

Dun Dee

I've mostly always chatted before meeting, but have arranged last minute coffees etc with those people I do chat with if we both happen to be free and to be fair I've usually met them at a organised social before briefly. I don't do let's just meet now and have sex thing. Always a social meet first.

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By *agnar73Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Nerves would get me with quickly arranged and I’d be a bit worried on getting caught

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By *dyCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

we have had both but the ones arranged at least a few days in advance with the chance to chat and suss out usually works out a more enjoyable meet. we have definitely had some really good last minute meets, usually when someone else has cancelled, but also had a couple of disappointments this way too. bit of a lottery :D

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By *lemFandango23TV/TS
9 weeks ago

Sou City Centre

I would prefer to arrange for in a couple days but all the meets I have had with guys have happened with in a couple hours of chatting, have yet to meet other people really

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