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Glasgow

I know this will probably come across as single guy/sour grapes but fuck it. Some couples are just as bad at time wasting.

I’ll keep this short but the long and short of it is…

Verified couple profile today posted looking for single guy for afternoon meet at hotel in town.

I spoke with the male and he agreed for me to come. He said he would be in and off fab throughout the morning but not to worry about it because the meet was definetly happening. The profile has 10 meet veris and looks legit.

Latee He pushed meet back by 15mins which was fine I told him .

I turned up in plenty of time and let him know I was in the hotel car park just so he knew I had turned up.

He told me what floor the room was but to hang tight as she was running 10 mins late (so now 25past the original scheduled time)

Told him no problem and to keep me posted.

I went to the bar for a drink, the new time came and went with no update.

I gave it 15 mins and messaged asking if there was any update. Not being pushy, just checking because he wasn’t forth coming with info even though he knew I was sat there waiting.

He got back saying don’t worry she’s definetly in her way.

Anyway. It got to a point that I sussed either she was really late, which would have been fine, they could have just let me know and that wouldn’t be a problem, or the meet for whatever reason wasn’t happening, and again they could just let me know and that would be fine rather than leave me hanging.

Because i was in town it didn’t make any sense for me to rush away so I waited for 1 hour from the rearranged time and has no response whatsoever.

Eventually I messaged saying I had to go cos I couldn’t wait around.

Now I understand things change, people run late, plans fall through but a wee message to keep me updated would have took all of 10 seconds . Atleast that would have shown a wee bit of decency.

I’m quite fortunate that I work for myself so can juggle things around quite easily but many can’t, and even at that my time is precious and I certainly could have done something more productive with it than sit in a bar waiting in a message in a Wednesday afternoon.

6 hours later he still hasn’t read my last message, then I put a status saying couples can be as big time wasters and males and for an instant block lol.

What I can’t get my head round is they arranged the meet, they agreed from me to come, it’s not like I was badgering them for a meet or messaging them out of thing air.

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By *heRingerMaster OP Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

I should add that it wasn’t actually his partner from the couple playing, it was his ‘side piece’ (his words!), which did strike me as odd at first but he was posting from the couples profile so I assume that’s an arrangement his mrs is familiar with. He did stipulate no anal and to treat her with respect at all times (the irony) which I was happy with and agreed to.

Anyway fab will roll on, they’ll still have guys lining up to meet them cos they’re a couple. I just hope they treat the other guys with abit more respect and decency.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
8 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I know this will probably come across as single guy/sour grapes but fuck it. Some couples are just as bad at time wasting.

I’ll keep this short but the long and short of it is…

Verified couple profile today posted looking for single guy for afternoon meet at hotel in town.

Latee He pushed meet back by 15mins which was fine I told him .

I turned up in plenty of time and let him know I was in the hotel car park just so he knew I had turned up.

He told me what floor the room was but to hang tight as she was running 10 mins late (so now 25past the original scheduled time)

Told him no problem and to keep me posted.

I went to the bar for a drink, the new time came and went with no update.

I gave it 15 mins and messaged asking if there was any update. Not being pushy, just checking because he wasn’t forth coming with info even though he knew I was sat there waiting.

He got back saying don’t worry she’s definetly in her way.

Because i was in town it didn’t make any sense for me to rush away so I waited for 1 hour from the rearranged time and has no response whatsoever.

Eventually I messaged saying I had to go cos I couldn’t wait around.

Now I understand things change, people run late, plans fall through but a wee message to keep me updated would have took all of 10 seconds . Atleast that would have shown a wee bit of decency.

6 hours later he still hasn’t read my last message, then I put a status saying couples can be as big time wasters and males and for an instant block lol.

What I can’t get my head round is they arranged the meet, they agreed from me to come, it’s not like I was badgering them for a meet or messaging them out of thing air.

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click on their profile & report & move on .

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By *heRingerMaster OP Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"click on their profile & report & move on ."

Thanks! I didn’t realise you could do annything after they had blocked me and I always assumed reporting was just for fake profiles.

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Click on their profile & report & move on ."

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This ⬆️

As the lådy suggested, click on their profile, select "MENU" from top right, select "Report User" and then select the option "tilted Arranged meet, did not turn up".

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By *ellinever70Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Next time you are looking to meet a woman for sex, arrange it with a woman, not a guy claiming an unusual set of circumstances

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By *heRingerMaster OP Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Next time you are looking to meet a woman for sex, arrange it with a woman, not a guy claiming an unusual set of circumstances "

It was to meet them as a couple (by their request), not a guy arranging a 1 on 1 for a female friend . I didn’t see anything out the ordinary chatting/arranging with the guy as this is what happens on 90% of my couple meets. other than it not being the partner from his profile , which he stated right from the start, there wasn’t any red flags and it all seemed pretty straight forward and above board.

I did my checks and they have been on here for over a year, profile has over 10 veris, which are all single male meets, and all mention the partner so I presumed this was just some extra fun they were all in on with a female friend. it was done on the couples profile which i assume his partner has access to so didnt think he was upto anything or being sneaky.

Just weird, wasn’t like he tried to bait n switch or even swap picks / dirty chat then blow me off like you get some fantasist couples. Literally just agreed to meet, as a couple, at a time and place, said she was running late but he was there, to hand tight and then went radio silent.

Just had to say my bit last night because I was annoyed at the rudeness and disrespect of it.

I’m over it now and atleast I got a wee afternoon pint out of it.

Some strange interactions you get in here.

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By *cottish CherryWoman
8 weeks ago

ayrshire

Och fab can be weird like that many times i try meet someone they dont show, or cancel right before it and get blocked too even more shit when your ghosted

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
8 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I've not had a no show. Late, yes but only by 10 mins.

You just have to put the checks and balances in place and get a good feel for the other person/people.

How long has you been talking to him for prior to the (non) meet?

Was it a rush job? Did you get a good vibe or was Mr Penis taking over from Mr Brain. 😂

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By *luebell888Woman
8 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Did you speak to the female on the phone?, did you know what she looked like?, did she even exist?. Maybe next time arrange a social with all parties beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

There are timewaster, spammers and men trying to pretend they are a couple, all for different reasons.

We just have to carry on and make sure the relevant checks are done , obviously within time constraints. Speaking to both on the phone, have a video call with both at the same time and many more, yes the person can give excuses for not managing to do what your want/require to make sure genuine but it's our own choices to go ahead or not. On this site if there is the slightest doubt, you'll usually be right and best just to move on

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By *outhlanarkshireguyMan
8 weeks ago

carluke

Have you messaged any of the people that verified them? Just in case it has been unfortunate.

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By *anarkshireLad83Man
8 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

I have had a similar experience but with a single female who I had chatted to for ages and ages and also on the phone. Arranged to come round to hers. Was given street name but not number. I got to the street and phoned for flat number as agreed and it rang out. Rang a few times over 20 mins or so and all rang out.

My mind said give up but it also said I reckoned they looked out window and although they had seen pictures of me they saw me in person and changed their mind.

Completely wasted my time.

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