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By *idtwolf OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I’m trying to get a meet with couple or single female, very difficult obviously because there are lots of single guys on here. How ever, trying to get verified is so tough because folk won’t touch you without verification. It’s like a rock and a hard place. Any help would be appreciated.

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By *issBlackedCouple
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Go to one of the clubs or go on cam and chat

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By *idtwolf OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yeah, it’s getting to the clubs with work etc. plus it’s very expensive for guys too. I’d love to meet w single female to do that with.

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By *issBlackedCouple
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Then go on the cam part of fab and chat with some people. It really isn't that hard, all you need is your phone and time.

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By *idtwolf OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Ok thank you

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By *j2015Couple
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

With all due respect im glad its not easy.

We have tried to met unverified solo males a fee time but as soon as we ask a few (extra) questions the red flags pop up everywhere.

Almost always married 😔

We got our first at a club meet and never had to ask for one yet 🤷‍♂️ couple privileges maybe

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By *idtwolf OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely get that, they do spoil it for genuine single guys on the site trying to meet someone. I’ll keep trying and hope someone takes a chance on me. I’m always respectful within my messages and always would go for a social meet first.

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By *ella MacabreWoman
9 weeks ago

Crystal River

Better going to a club and meeting the regulars there.

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By *assy LassieWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Absolutely get that, they do spoil it for genuine single guys on the site trying to meet someone. I’ll keep trying and hope someone takes a chance on me. I’m always respectful within my messages and always would go for a social meet first. "

They absolu, tely don't waste it for genuine guys. In fact they make the genuine ones stand out more.

The number of guys doesn't make it more difficult either. Women either want to meet you or they don't. The only control you have here is your own profile and chat. Is it the best it can be. Does it convey what you are seeking. Does it give an insight to what you offer.

This is what guys should be focusing on. Not the perceived competition of others

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Clubs ain't expensive you stay in Edinburgh u got club there. We have to get hotel etc but it's worth it

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

I suggest that you attend one of fantastic socials that are held in Glasgow, Edinburgh and Aberdeen (or anywhere else in the UK for that matter). It's a great way to meet people and build your network. 🌈

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dun Dee

Agree with all of the above. You've got a club in Edinburgh. If your out of town its more expensive travel and hotels etc. Plus the club does social nights too.

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dun Dee


"Clubs ain't expensive you stay in Edinburgh u got club there. We have to get hotel etc but it's worth it"

Do you know of any decent hotels that ain't too overpriced? Everytime I've looked for Edinburgh recently they've been sky high silly prices.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Clubs ain't expensive you stay in Edinburgh u got club there. We have to get hotel etc but it's worth it

Do you know of any decent hotels that ain't too overpriced? Everytime I've looked for Edinburgh recently they've been sky high silly prices. "
ibis is OK usually

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By *andi_kinkygramTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Hotels seem to have been prohibitively expensive since the spring, even basic travelodge is around £200.

It's possible to book the Edinburgh swingers club out of standard opening hours that seems to be the most cost effective option. Given it is also open 3 nights a week it's convenient as meeting location midweek/weekends.

As for the OPs original question about getting verified, I don't think getting a single verification is going to open floodgates. Yes you might be able to message more ppl but some will be dismissive of webcam verifications. The advice of others is sound; if you are serious find the time to go to clubs.

Cx

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

He's bn verified so must of had meet this morning lol

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By *asemiro33Man
9 weeks ago

Preston/Dundee

Same thing, it has been so hard to meet people. Specially here in Scotland as im not verified i tried to but it does not accept the verification

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By *ugh_jardonMan
9 weeks ago

Larkhall

Yeah its hard enough to get a meet, never mind a veri, clubs seem to be the way forward, ill have to give it a go, ive seen a few daytime ones advertised on here which would suit me better, but i dont know if i have the bottle to do it, lol

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

Perhaps they should do this in Scotland, in the same way they do it in Ireland: Help A Fabber Out.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1633620

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By *idtwolf OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That’s an excellent idea, gives men, woman and couples the confidence at meeting too, not everyone finds being social comfortable

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dun Dee


"That’s an excellent idea, gives men, woman and couples the confidence at meeting too, not everyone finds being social comfortable "

There was a neurodivergent social not so long ago for people who prefer a quieter social/find socials difficult. There's also activity based socials some people find easier than sitting down drinking ones.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I have met guys for coffee just to help them get a veri.

Infact, sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

They would at least have a verification saying they were genuine people with the intention to meet.

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By *ugh_jardonMan
9 weeks ago

Larkhall


"I have met guys for coffee just to help them get a veri.

Infact, sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

They would at least have a verification saying they were genuine people with the intention to meet. "

Great idea

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By *cottishMrsWoman
9 weeks ago

Wishaw

Much the same as Regina, I've met folk for a coffee and happy to leave them the verification, that was when I ran a group though. Socials and clubs are your best bet by far xx

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers."

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx"

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital.

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dun Dee


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital. "

Definetley are. Looking forward to getting back to one of your socials!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital.

Definetley are. Looking forward to getting back to one of your socials! "

Thank you, been missing you since the golf night x

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dun Dee


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital.

Definetley are. Looking forward to getting back to one of your socials!

Thank you, been missing you since the golf night x"

I seen you at the Xmas one 😂🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital. "

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What?! They're not held in Edinburgh?

😁

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By *assy LassieWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital.

•

What?! They're not held in Edinburgh?

😁"

Glasgow's miles better😜

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital.

Definetley are. Looking forward to getting back to one of your socials!

Thank you, been missing you since the golf night x"

Aawwwww thats nice

Anyone been missing me since a social ?

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By *assy LassieWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"...sassy and I were discussing possible socials which we would open to unverified accounts in order to help them kick start their fab careers.

•

That's because altruism is in both of your bloodlines. 💌

I hear you both hold some wonderful socials in the 'Burgh of Edin'. xx

I think we are good people.

But we don’t hold socials in Edinburgh, we tend to do them in our stomping ground, which is about 50 miles west of Scotlands capital.

Definetley are. Looking forward to getting back to one of your socials!

Thank you, been missing you since the golf night x

Aawwwww thats nice

Anyone been missing me since a social ? "

You were mentioned at the social by someone who wanted to meet you in person.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


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Anyone been missing me since a social ?

You were mentioned at the social by someone who wanted to meet you in person. "

This is true. A certain sheep shagging, ladder carrying, live fab chat frequenting gentleman asked to be introduced to you when you arrived.

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By *opeyXWoman
9 weeks ago

Dun Dee


"

Anyone been missing me since a social ?

You were mentioned at the social by someone who wanted to meet you in person.

This is true. A certain sheep shagging, ladder carrying, live fab chat frequenting gentleman asked to be introduced to you when you arrived. "

Has to be Fugy! 😂

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By *OSCCOSMITH69Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow


"Yeah, it’s getting to the clubs with work etc. plus it’s very expensive for guys too. I’d love to meet w single female to do that with. "

Single dad so i get that free time is a luxury but make the effort to go to club and socialise and not just sit in the corner… thats what i found work great. Plus verification on this site are a hit n miss some are fake some are time wasters even with verifications. Going to a club socialise you ll soon find then wheat from the chaff

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
9 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"

Anyone been missing me since a social ?

You were mentioned at the social by someone who wanted to meet you in person.

This is true. A certain sheep shagging, ladder carrying, live fab chat frequenting gentleman asked to be introduced to you when you arrived.

Has to be Fugy! 😂"

Of course!

I told him he was a legend.

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