FabSwingers.com forum: Do woman search for men....

By *eth_Gecko OP Man
12 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Do woman actually search for men on here or do you just reply to messages?

Just out of curiosity?

I'm assuming the number of men way outdo the woman in here and receive hundreds of messages a day.. Just wondering u reply only to the messages or actually search for men?

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By *cottishMrsWoman
12 weeks ago

Wishaw

We reply to messages. I wouldn't even know how to search, can you search like locally and for your specific filters? I might need to look into this as some of the guys who find me don't pass the vibe check lol. I wonder if I'd get on better if I done the searching lol xx

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By *k8888GLWWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Both. I very rarely get a message from a guy I'm interested in talking to.

When I do message 1st, the guy is usually quite shocked. Its kinda sweet

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By *oe3333Man
12 weeks ago

enniskillen

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By *hyme2020Woman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

I don’t search for men, but occasionally will send a first message if I see a funny status update or something. Normally just reply to the odd few messages if something takes my interest once I have checked their profile.

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By *igsaw93Woman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

I personally search or meet people in real life at events. 99.9% of the people who message are not what I'm looking for.

Jigs x

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By *yrdsisWoman
12 weeks ago

Gleam Street

I search... It saves time

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By *arah272Woman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yes I do as there is search options for people closer to home not easy to meet if many miles away

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By *luebell888Woman
12 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I have sent many messages to men on fab.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
12 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I have searched for men & wouldn't have a problem messaging any who I was interested in

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By *allndarkMan
12 weeks ago

Dalbeattie

Thanks for the lovely answers in here , as I was beginning to loose faith that women really do search for men. It can be incredibly quiet in here for us guys.

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By *lit.masterMan
12 weeks ago

Between your legs

Nah they dini

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I got one last week. Trusted my instincts that it was bollocks

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By *uttercupWoman
12 weeks ago

Borders

I also searched. Often find nice men in the forums. Have to be honest tho, my meets do mainly happen from a man messaging me first. I enjoy checking guys profiles

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I also searched. Often find nice men in the forums. Have to be honest tho, my meets do mainly happen from a man messaging me first. I enjoy checking guys profiles

That's a fine backside

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By *anarkshireLad83Man
12 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

I have to admit I don't often get messages from women. It can be frustrating at times as I think my profile is ok. Ok my pictures are alot of d pics but I want to remain discrete so not willing to splash my face all over profile but happy to share if chatting to someone and it's going somewhere.

I wink alot but guess women get alot of winks so prob don't looked them.

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By *opeyXWoman
12 weeks ago

Dun Dee

"Do woman actually search for men on here or do you just reply to messages?

Just out of curiosity?

I'm assuming the number of men way outdo the woman in here and receive hundreds of messages a day.. Just wondering u reply only to the messages or actually search for men? "

Yeah I send out messages could be of the back of a status or forum thing mostly rarely look at the search thing.

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By *azzle99Woman
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yip, often when I’m travelling and going to be somewhere new. Majority dont believe I’m genuine!

Can’t win at times

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Other than keeping in touch with forum-dwellers on here - mostly women I'll admit - I've only sent a handful of 'first contact' messages in the last 3 years. All of my socials and trysts have been on the back of women sending the first message.

So yes, women do search and they also instigate the first message.

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By *2001Man
11 weeks ago

Wishaw

"We reply to messages. I wouldn't even know how to search, can you search like locally and for your specific filters? I might need to look into this as some of the guys who find me don't pass the vibe check lol. I wonder if I'd get on better if I done the searching lol xx "
~you can search, however local updates also does the trick ~ x

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By *otblonde71Woman
11 weeks ago

stonehaven

Funnily enough not all women will do the same thing …

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Oddly enough, my best times have been with women who have contacted me first. It's been a while since I've messaged first.

Once you live in Aberdeenshire and been on here a few years, you tend to find the pool doesn't get stocked as often as you'd like it (from a man's pov)

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By *agatoXXXMan
11 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

It's nothing more than a wild rumour.

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By *mudg3rMan
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

If they do, they sure haven’t been searching for me. lol.

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By *ancy38Woman
11 weeks ago

galway

"I personally search or meet people in real life at events. 99.9% of the people who message are not what I'm looking for.

Jigs x "

This. Very very few msgs I'm interested in and I get quite a lot. Most I don't even read.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
11 weeks ago

barnstaple

I don't search. Ms

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