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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is a time waster,I keep hearing about guys So what do use class as a time waster ?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ok, a time waster as I see it is someone who takes up people's valuable time chatting and thing to become friends so they can see private pics and then agrees to meet but never shows up and doesn't let you know they aren't coming either.

We all have vanilla lives and yes sometimes shit happens but it's nice to tell people something's gone wrong and you can't make it

I think that covers it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Guy who 1st message is...

Do you want to cum see Me wank

Erm....take a Guess mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys and / or couples who want to play message ping pong for weeks but either never arrange to meet or when they do they don't show up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say 95% of the time... people that dont turn up had no intention of doing so in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A Guy who 1st message is...

Do you want to cum see Me wank

Erm....take a Guess mate?

"
Was that you i remember that You miss it lol xx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Timewaster....

Someone that wastes their own time....Not mine

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By *reacherUKMan
over a year ago

Livingston

People who don't show up. Especially if you've taken a while to get there.

I'm not sure I would class messaging without intent as time wasting unless there is a promise of something more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People who don't show up. Especially if you've taken a while to get there.

I'm not sure I would class messaging without intent as time wasting unless there is a promise of something more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A Guy who 1st message is...

Do you want to cum see Me wank

Erm....take a Guess mate?

Was that you i remember that You miss it lol xx "
i was,washing my hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A Guy who 1st message is...

Do you want to cum see Me wank

Erm....take a Guess mate?

Was that you i remember that You miss it lol xx i was,washing my hair "
Well you miss a good show Don't worry it will cum again pmsl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a time waster,I keep hearing about guys So what do use class as a time waster ? "
about 98% of this site

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Imagine it...

You see someone you like, you message them...

They reply with "Im only here to waste your/my time so maybe better if you looked elsewhere"?

"oh, ok....well thanx for letting me know.....Happy swinging"!

Oh man....cant even go into forum and complain about that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think chatting is time wasting as long as you make it clear that you have no intention of meeting, but when you make arrangements and take the time to get ready or even time off work, travel to the agreed place and then he/she doesn't show... Thats a TIMEWASTER!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it means arranging to meet and not showing with no call or text to say they can't make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's keeping Some1 chatting for weeks with no intention of taking it further. Or letting the person know early doors it's just chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The last two answers to me are spot on

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

i had one on the other day wanting 15 pounds for petrol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"i had one on the other day wanting 15 pounds for petrol "

Why is that a timewaster?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"i had one on the other day wanting 15 pounds for petrol "

Thats not a timewaster thats an extortionist

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

A timewasters is someone who leads you into believing you will meet one day

A timewasters is someone arranging to meet then not showing

If someone is wasting your time through chat making you think there will be a meet that too is timewasting

Timewasting comes in all Maner of different ways some might think it is timewasteing others won't ...if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A timewasters is someone who leads you into believing you will meet one day

A timewasters is someone arranging to meet then not showing

If someone is wasting your time through chat making you think there will be a meet that too is timewasting

Timewasting comes in all Maner of different ways some might think it is timewasteing others won't ...if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER"
could not put it more nicer than that

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER"

Agree with everything you said except this part.....

Thinking someone is wasting your time doesnt make them a timewaster....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER

Agree with everything you said except this part.....

Thinking someone is wasting your time doesnt make them a timewaster...."
I think it's a bit of both really

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER

Agree with everything you said except this part.....

Thinking someone is wasting your time doesnt make them a timewaster....I think it's a bit of both really "

I just think....wasting my own time..

Fuk em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER

Agree with everything you said except this part.....

Thinking someone is wasting your time doesnt make them a timewaster....I think it's a bit of both really "
I think it just how we look at things Anyone can chat with me I don't think everybody wants to shag me So they are not wasting my time A no show is a time waster in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting is fine... but making a date and time for a meet, then going radio silent on the day is a timewaster.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER

Agree with everything you said except this part.....

Thinking someone is wasting your time doesnt make them a timewaster....I think it's a bit of both really I think it just how we look at things Anyone can chat with me I don't think everybody wants to shag me So they are not wasting my time A no show is a time waster in my book "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I know monk but if the assumption within the conversation is that one day you will meet and it doesn't happen ...is what I ment of Course we all have ppm we chat to who we know we will never meet lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I know monk but if the assumption within the conversation is that one day you will meet and it doesn't happen ...is what I ment of Course we all have ppm we chat to who we know we will never meet lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a noshow...simple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A timewasters is someone who leads you into believing you will meet one day

A timewasters is someone arranging to meet then not showing

If someone is wasting your time through chat making you think there will be a meet that too is timewasting

Timewasting comes in all Maner of different ways some might think it is timewasteing others won't ...if you think your time has been wasted then that's a TIMEWASTER"
came across that fairly recent no intention of meeting but hey its a big fab world x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know monk but if the assumption within the conversation is that one day you will meet and it doesn't happen ...is what I ment of Course we all have ppm we chat to who we know we will never meet lol "
Conversation is foreplay without we are just two dugs on heat xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is how I see it most guys here, think because a woman says hi. She sitting waiting with her panties off Then because she does not want him They call her names fat ugly bitch and a time waster Were is the fun in that A time waster is a no show Guys get over yourself Some women may just like a little chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought your original ask was about guys being timewasters ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No just trying to workout what a time waster is mate Everybody keep going on about them To me it a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few traits timewasters display...my fav being, oohhhh just too nice..overdone niceness.

Then theres Talk a great meet and that shows itself in the form of message- overkill.

Then theres the confirming meet time reached...no sign or Mr talk-a-great meet with the marvelous sudden inability to text or call or message.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I know monk but if the assumption within the conversation is that one day you will meet and it doesn't happen ...is what I ment of Course we all have ppm we chat to who we know we will never meet lol Conversation is foreplay without we are just two dugs on heat xx"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No intention in chatting to anyone i wouldnt meet......

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Conversation is foreplay without we are just two dugs on heat xx"

Dugs

If you guys think having a conversation is foreplay....

Telling you know....Dont feckin talk to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No intention in chatting to anyone i wouldnt meet...... "
What are you doing on the forum So your going meet every guy here pmsl lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know monk but if the assumption within the conversation is that one day you will meet and it doesn't happen ...is what I ment of Course we all have ppm we chat to who we know we will never meet lol Conversation is foreplay without we are just two dugs on heat xx "
Follow the ball pmsl

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You consider this chatting?

I dont

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I know monk but if the assumption within the conversation is that one day you will meet and it doesn't happen ...is what I ment of Course we all have ppm we chat to who we know we will never meet lol Conversation is foreplay without we are just two dugs on heat xx Follow the ball pmsl "
Oh I fully understand what u were saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You consider this chatting?

I dont

"
O right you just cut off my manhood there pmsl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is how I see it most guys here, think because a woman says hi. She sitting waiting with her panties off Then because she does not want him They call her names fat ugly bitch and a time waster Were is the fun in that A time waster is a no show Guys get over yourself Some women may just like a little chat "

well sed, we r not all gagging for any tom, harry or penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew dodged a bullet there glad am called Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahahaha

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Just got rid of another one!!!! Lmao. Supposedly a couple in fife, been on 5 hours and messaged me this morning. Sent 2 pics of 'her' and asked if I'd be interested, so as I was getting ready for work I decided to play along and then 40 mins after their first message - user no longer on site lmfao

Always mess with their minds!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just got rid of another one!!!! Lmao. Supposedly a couple in fife, been on 5 hours and messaged me this morning. Sent 2 pics of 'her' and asked if I'd be interested, so as I was getting ready for work I decided to play along and then 40 mins after their first message - user no longer on site lmfao

Always mess with their minds!!!!! "
But would you call them time wasters As really you wasted your own time mate

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Just got rid of another one!!!! Lmao. Supposedly a couple in fife, been on 5 hours and messaged me this morning. Sent 2 pics of 'her' and asked if I'd be interested, so as I was getting ready for work I decided to play along and then 40 mins after their first message - user no longer on site lmfao

Always mess with their minds!!!!! But would you call them time wasters As really you wasted your own time mate "

Yes I would call them timewasters as they already had 4 or 5 people on their friends list. I didn't waste my time though as indie it whilst getting ready for work so it amused me - better than watching the news lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I don't think we will sort time wasters if we just keep calling every flirt or tease and fake,a time waster To stand outside a pub for a hour waiting for a meet feeling like a fool with no phone call or txt That a time waster You don't get that feel sitting at your computer mate

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Well I don't think we will sort time wasters if we just keep calling every flirt or tease and fake,a time waster To stand outside a pub for a hour waiting for a meet feeling like a fool with no phone call or txt That a time waster You don't get that feel sitting at your computer mate "

You are quite right mate. But the people on the fiends list were all fairly new too. And it was the way they messaged me that made me see through them. I guess I can spot one 50% of the time now. My half hour amusing myself may have saved one of the others an evening standing around getting stood up so I think it was worth it. And like I said, it amused me lol

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