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By *am909 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night

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By *hyme2020Woman
11 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland


"Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night "

Ok purely because you have asked, I will give you my opinion on what I think based on your profile.

You are much younger than me and may not give a toss what I think but here goes-

No public picture. Shadow pics aren’t going to strike any interest. Show some subtle but interesting pics. A lot of women are put off by cock pics, but they like to beable to see at least what they are looking at and if you are their type.

You are young but really “young, hung and full of cum” is not enticing. I find that cringey.

Your age range is 18-99. Be realistic about what age you are looking for as most women would rather know you are not planning on shagging school leavers and corpses.

Maybe you won’t want to pay any attention, but there is nothing about your profile that makes me want to look at it or reply to a message or send one.

Good luck finding what you are looking for.

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By *am909 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Ok thank you I appreciate it !

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
11 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night "
Your profile is your shop window if there is nothing on it to entice people in then they will simply walk on by.

Set an age range that way people with take you serious rather than looking at the 18-99 age range and people thinking you don't care much about what age people are.

Let people know what you have to offer.

Again the young fun & full of cum will put many off too .

Good luck !

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By *am909 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night Your profile is your shop window if there is nothing on it to entice people in then they will simply walk on by.

Set an age range that way people with take you serious rather than looking at the 18-99 age range and people thinking you don't care much about what age people are.

Let people know what you have to offer.

Again the young fun & full of cum will put many off too .

Good luck ! "

Thank you

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By *herriesandcreamCouple
11 weeks ago

Dundee

I agree with what the others have said.. advice wise. Whilst you are to young for us, you don't really have much to say for yourself on your profile, literally no pics, and a shadow pic.

Also if messaging people take the time to read their profile and send a decent message to get their interest. The amount of "hi" or I want to shag the missus messages we get... they just get ignored. Make yourself sound interesting enough to chat to. Good look x

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By *am909 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I agree with what the others have said.. advice wise. Whilst you are to young for us, you don't really have much to say for yourself on your profile, literally no pics, and a shadow pic.

Also if messaging people take the time to read their profile and send a decent message to get their interest. The amount of "hi" or I want to shag the missus messages we get... they just get ignored. Make yourself sound interesting enough to chat to. Good look x "

Thank you

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

Perhaps add an air of mystique to your profile with some more photographs and incorporating a profile avatar. I agree with all the other comments above.

Good luck OP.

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By *aylorMan
11 weeks ago

Fife

Even if you go with the advice you have been given, it's not guaranteed you will get a meet.

No expectations is my mantra

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By *am909 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Thank you appreciate it guys

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Even if you go with the advice you have been given, it's not guaranteed you will get a meet.

No expectations is my mantra "

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Correct. The whole point of this exercise it to ensure that it's not your profile that's attributing to any lack of success.

Get yourself to some fab organised socials, often held in a bar or a pub. It's the perfect way to make new acquaintances and expand your network.

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By *aylorMan
11 weeks ago

Fife


"Even if you go with the advice you have been given, it's not guaranteed you will get a meet.

No expectations is my mantra

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Correct. The whole point of this exercise it to ensure that it's not your profile that's attributing to any lack of success.

Get yourself to some fab organised socials, often held in a bar or a pub. It's the perfect way to make new acquaintances and expand your network."

Exactly, there's no magic formula.

What appeals to some won't appeal to others.

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By *tew008Man
11 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night "

Don’t worry wait till it’s been 7 years and no one will talk to you

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By *aylorMan
11 weeks ago

Fife

And even if you do have a social meet, it might not lead to anything further 🤔

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By *assy LassieWoman
11 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night

Don’t worry wait till it’s been 7 years and no one will talk to you "

Why do you think that is. Your profile? Your messages?

Have you tried different approaches in the 7 years.

You get out what you put in. Minimal effort. Minimal return

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By *tew008Man
11 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Any other males finding it really difficult to actually meet someone on the site? I’ve always wanted to try a club night but haven’t yet which may be part of the reason why. I have been on this 7 months now and have no idea why I haven’t met anyone on this yet can’t purely be because I haven’t attended a club night

Don’t worry wait till it’s been 7 years and no one will talk to you

Why do you think that is. Your profile? Your messages?

Have you tried different approaches in the 7 years.

You get out what you put in. Minimal effort. Minimal return"

Nope went to events and constructed intricate poetry in messages but I’m just ugly as fuck

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By *eiaorganaWoman
11 weeks ago

Dundee

Also be aware that attending a club is not a pass for sex. They are a way to socialise and meet likeminded people, not a brothel.

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By *ennyjMan
11 weeks ago

falkirk


"Also be aware that attending a club is not a pass for sex. They are a way to socialise and meet likeminded people, not a brothel."
agreed on this, been too a few club nights some without anything actually occurring but met a good few people socially, it's about taking part and club nights aren't as intimidating as some may think.

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By *cottishMrsWoman
11 weeks ago

Wishaw

Definitely agree with the others... you need more photos. It doesn't have to be a face photo, but maybe like your torso, your smile, even a full body picture with your face cropped out. And, by all means, include a dick pic, but someone messaged me the other day and he had TWENTY TWO!!!!!!! dick pics! All different angles. Call me crazy, but one or two pictures is enough for me to figure out what I'm working with lmao!!

And, as for club nights and socials, it is a good way to socialise and for people to see you're genuine. It isn't a guaranteed shag.

I think it could also be worth looking at your opening message. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it as I don't know what you send, but if you're not having much luck, you want to look at all avenues.

Oh, and get that greyed out profile picture changed so people know you're not just a weekender looking for some horny chat.

Good luck 💜

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