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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " Thats always going to be a problem as we all want the best of both worlds. Spending time and enjoying a relationship and exploring the kink side together. Hard to find but once you do I'm so sure it's perfection. Good luck   | |||
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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " I think more guys would be up for than you think?? Just need to find a decent guy. And that's what I wanted when I first joined fab? A like minded filthy animal, that wants to kiss cuddle and snuggle from time to time, inbetween absolute debauchery. 🤷♂️ | |||
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" I think more guys would be up for than you think?? Just need to find a decent guy. And that's what I wanted when I first joined fab? A like minded filthy animal, that wants to kiss cuddle and snuggle from time to time, inbetween absolute debauchery. 🤷♂️" I would love to meet one of these guys who wants a normal relationship but with a kinky side lol. Like, let’s go to Ikea for that new wardrobe we need but whilst we’re there, have a little fun where no one can see us lol! | |||
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"Yeah I’m struggling to find what I’m looking for. Going to go to some socials soon and meet new people " This sounds good - which socials are you going to (if you don’t mind me asking)? X | |||
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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " I am in exactly the same situation, trying to find a kinky partner who wants the normal relationship stuff aswell. I'm going to a couole of socials in the hopes I will bump into someone. Fingers crossed. | |||
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" I think more guys would be up for than you think?? Just need to find a decent guy. And that's what I wanted when I first joined fab? A like minded filthy animal, that wants to kiss cuddle and snuggle from time to time, inbetween absolute debauchery. 🤷♂️ I would love to meet one of these guys who wants a normal relationship but with a kinky side lol. Like, let’s go to Ikea for that new wardrobe we need but whilst we’re there, have a little fun where no one can see us lol! " Haha I did that with an ex, found a quiet corner in IKEA Warrington , pulled her skirt up and bent her over a set of drawers, next thing a couple walked round and looked horrified, we burst out laughing and ran off quickly with our packet of 100 tea lights  | |||
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"Yeah I’m struggling to find what I’m looking for. Going to go to some socials soon and meet new people This sounds good - which socials are you going to (if you don’t mind me asking)? X" I’m not sure yet. I’ll have a look and see what’s happening, this Friday is the night I will find the woman I’ve been looking for !  | |||
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"There is a kinky dating app or two, unsure how they are. " Do tell  | |||
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"There is a kinky dating app or two, unsure how they are. Do tell "Unsure if I can actually say the name on forums/messages but Google should help! Starts with an 'f' and ends with a 'd' | |||
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" I think more guys would be up for than you think?? Just need to find a decent guy. And that's what I wanted when I first joined fab? A like minded filthy animal, that wants to kiss cuddle and snuggle from time to time, inbetween absolute debauchery. 🤷♂️ I would love to meet one of these guys who wants a normal relationship but with a kinky side lol. Like, let’s go to Ikea for that new wardrobe we need but whilst we’re there, have a little fun where no one can see us lol! Haha I did that with an ex, found a quiet corner in IKEA Warrington , pulled her skirt up and bent her over a set of drawers, next thing a couple walked round and looked horrified, we burst out laughing and ran off quickly with our packet of 100 tea lights "no Swedish meatballs were consumed I presume 🤣 | |||
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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " I do t think it exists and never will exist. This site should be a great example to that. A person's profile, gallery, inbox everything shows who they are sexually and personality wise. Yet guys resort to the same things they did in cave man days..dick in hand bed notch, rinse repeat. Then attach looking for discreet no strings no drama as an excuse to carry on, either cheating or being incapable of anything resorting a good human, simply because this is a "sex site,not a dating site". | |||
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"My 11 year relationship ended because she classed me as a “sex pest”. I was stuck in the normal relationship often going months without any sex. I’m hoping to find someone I can enjoy both worlds with. " But didn't you know she was boring before the 11 years, as I find most men want that "bore" in public but cheat in private with the one they are sexually compatible with. Not saying you cheated or a cheater. But that's generally the kinda of guys that are on here that cringe at the idea of dating a female that's on here. | |||
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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " It isn't a dating site but you do see it happen. Met some lovley couples with both singles and couples accounts at socials. It's something I am open to the idea of just recently after a long period of being single for 15 years. Though for me would have to happen organically. | |||
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"I met a woman on here and had a 5 year relationship, we came off fab though. 24/7 relationships isn't for me, plus I'm a pain in the arse "A pain in the arse can be rather delightful | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx " Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me  | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me "If you have managed to navigate the fab onslaught of single guys then you will manage the dating sites no bother, less attached men and more open to taking you on real dates. You still have to dig deep to find the good ones but good things don't come easily. Good luck xx | |||
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"I met a woman on here and had a 5 year relationship, we came off fab though. 24/7 relationships isn't for me, plus I'm a pain in the arse
A pain in the arse can be rather delightful "I'll take your word for it but it wouldn't be for me | |||
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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " Girl I just wanted to jump on and say I relate to this SO HARD. I am fully ENM and trying to find others who are the same is a reeeeeal struggle 😭 | |||
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"Thank you to everyone who has commented and contributed to this post, I’m shocked by the response of I’m honest 🥰🥰! Who knows, maybe my future partner will slide in my DMs off the back of this thread 😁 xx" I tried, but I'm too old 😭😭😭😭 😁😁 | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me "Dating apps are soul destroying. This is what I’m looking for also but impossible to find. Maybe a fab speed dating night. | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me
Dating apps are soul destroying. This is what I’m looking for also but impossible to find. Maybe a fab speed dating night. "Sign me up! | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me
Dating apps are soul destroying. This is what I’m looking for also but impossible to find. Maybe a fab speed dating night. "There may be plans in the making.....😜 | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me
Dating apps are soul destroying. This is what I’m looking for also but impossible to find. Maybe a fab speed dating night.
There may be plans in the making.....😜"Yay! | |||
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"We found eachother on a regular dating site not fab. We took time to get to know eachother and made it all about us for a couple of years and now we have the best of both worlds. You have to take time to be secure in a relationship before you open it up to swinging and even then you will always have bumps in the road. I couldn't go back to vanilla now xx Sounds the best way! Might give dating sites a go. It would be a whole new experience for me
Dating apps are soul destroying. This is what I’m looking for also but impossible to find. Maybe a fab speed dating night.
There may be plans in the making.....😜
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"Does anyone else struggle to find a partner/BF/GF who is interested in the kink scene but also wants to have a normal relationship outwith it? I feel like I kinda fall into this weird middle ground where the usual dating apps are no use because if I mention it, all chat turns into guys just thinking I’m a sex pest and want me for only that but then on here, obviously Fab isn’t a dating site so… where’s the middle ground? Where’s the app/site for people like me who want a relationship but with someone that will bend me over in front of a crowd of people 🤣🙈?? " I’m the same lol let me know if you find out!! Everyone’s response the same too on dating apps lol xx where are the naughty men who want to play with me for the crowd  | |||
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