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"Would not have a problem with that answer ... it's clear, precise and not nasty in any way ... "Think its ideal and if the person replies giving abuse it shows you that you dodged a bullet as well  | |||
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"I would rather have a not my type response. However I do get that people can then be abusive so will go back to the no reply is a no." That end bit is important, wish more got that. Likewise a polite no thank you from anyone should be accepted gracefully  | |||
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"I would rather have a not my type response. However I do get that people can then be abusive so will go back to the no reply is a no. That end bit is important, wish more got that. Likewise a polite no thank you from anyone should be accepted gracefully "Exactly this ! 👍🏻 | |||
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"I would rather have a not my type response. However I do get that people can then be abusive so will go back to the no reply is a no. That end bit is important, wish more got that. Likewise a polite no thank you from anyone should be accepted gracefully "I think for the ones who respond abusively, they take the polite no thank you as a rejection of them personally rather than just an indication that they're not what that particular person is currently looking for. I really wish everyone would just accept it with grace and humility. | |||
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"I would rather have a not my type response. However I do get that people can then be abusive so will go back to the no reply is a no. That end bit is important, wish more got that. Likewise a polite no thank you from anyone should be accepted gracefully
I think for the ones who respond abusively, they take the polite no thank you as a rejection of them personally rather than just an indication that they're not what that particular person is currently looking for. I really wish everyone would just accept it with grace and humility."Yep, that would be nice | |||
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"I would rather have a not my type response. However I do get that people can then be abusive so will go back to the no reply is a no. That end bit is important, wish more got that. Likewise a polite no thank you from anyone should be accepted gracefully
I think for the ones who respond abusively, they take the polite no thank you as a rejection of them personally rather than just an indication that they're not what that particular person is currently looking for. I really wish everyone would just accept it with grace and humility."I’ll accept anything with Grace ( as long as she accepts me dressed )    | |||
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"I would rather have a not my type response. However I do get that people can then be abusive so will go back to the no reply is a no. That end bit is important, wish more got that. Likewise a polite no thank you from anyone should be accepted gracefully
I think for the ones who respond abusively, they take the polite no thank you as a rejection of them personally rather than just an indication that they're not what that particular person is currently looking for. I really wish everyone would just accept it with grace and humility.
I’ll accept anything with Grace ( as long as she accepts me dressed ) "  | |||
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"Yep, that would be nice "I've been meaning to ask you, btw: do you also go by "Fuctifano" on a Facebook page called "The Styrofoam scots are at it again"? Or is it just a funny coincidence? :D | |||
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"Yep, that would be nice
I've been meaning to ask you, btw: do you also go by "Fuctifano" on a Facebook page called "The Styrofoam scots are at it again"? Or is it just a funny coincidence? :D"It’s a funny coincidence  , I chose the name because it sums up my thoughts on fab after around 14 years here | |||
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"Yep, that would be nice
I've been meaning to ask you, btw: do you also go by "Fuctifano" on a Facebook page called "The Styrofoam scots are at it again"? Or is it just a funny coincidence? :D
It’s a funny coincidence , I chose the name because it sums up my thoughts on fab after around 14 years here " 
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"Yep, that would be nice
I've been meaning to ask you, btw: do you also go by "Fuctifano" on a Facebook page called "The Styrofoam scots are at it again"? Or is it just a funny coincidence? :D
It’s a funny coincidence , I chose the name because it sums up my thoughts on fab after around 14 years here "Well then consider yourself informed that you have a namesake elsewhere. :D | |||
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"Yep, that would be nice
I've been meaning to ask you, btw: do you also go by "Fuctifano" on a Facebook page called "The Styrofoam scots are at it again"? Or is it just a funny coincidence? :D
It’s a funny coincidence , I chose the name because it sums up my thoughts on fab after around 14 years here
Well then consider yourself informed that you have a namesake elsewhere. :D"Fuctifweallknow | |||
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"So here's one for debate You message someone and they reply saying "sorry not my type", How does this make you feel?... ..." • In the four years that I've been here over 90% of my engagements have been on the back of women sending the first message. I rarely message outside of the forum. Oh the rare occasion when I've messaged, one or two result in a radio silence. It's a form of "no thank you" or perhaps "not my type". You have to be battle-hardened for this place, but it doesn't really affect me. | |||
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"So here's one for debate You message someone and they reply saying "sorry not my type", How does this make you feel? Moi personally I'm totally fine with it as everyone has their own tastes. Wee ditto, however, tonight in the chat room, there were a few saying the same, especially to guys but got the impression most were just being polite due to their creepy messages in the chat room. So what's your feelings on the subject, folks, you ok wit this or does it annoy you or disappoint you etc...?" What chatrooms? And id prefer that than my message being deleted tbh? Thats pretty rude, but then again, no-one needs to reply to you. 🤷🏻♂️ | |||
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"It all depends on how the person has introduced themselves to me. If they send a 1st message like - omg you look so delicious I wanna stretch your pussy hole and make you cry with my big dick’ or words equally as vulgar. I will most likely block or reply No…. Regardless of them being physically my type or not. If someone has manners and says ‘hey I’m so and so and I was wondering if you fancied a chat’ with a face pic and they are not physically my type I will reply with ‘not my type, thanks. Happy fabbing’. I like to give respect where respect is given. "How often do you get messages like the first one? Still baffles me theres guys that chat like that. | |||
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"So here's one for debate You message someone and they reply saying "sorry not my type", How does this make you feel? Moi personally I'm totally fine with it as everyone has their own tastes. Wee ditto, however, tonight in the chat room, there were a few saying the same, especially to guys but got the impression most were just being polite due to their creepy messages in the chat room. So what's your feelings on the subject, folks, you ok wit this or does it annoy you or disappoint you etc...? What chatrooms? And id prefer that than my message being deleted tbh? Thats pretty rude, but then again, no-one needs to reply to you. 🤷🏻♂️" Talking only about when in the Scots Chat room as it’s not a directing room and people usually go into the room to chat and chill about anything Actually if I sent a message and it was just deleted, I think that is fine. It usually means they are not interested or one of the partners has read it first and deleted it as they not interested. I suspect the majority of messages from most are read and not replied but I’d probably think that they get that inundated they just cannot be bothered going through the hassle of replying to everyone. These are all fine and good but the post is more about the reply of ‘sorry not my type’ | |||
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"So here's one for debate You message someone and they reply saying "sorry not my type", How does this make you feel? Moi personally I'm totally fine with it as everyone has their own tastes. Wee ditto, however, tonight in the chat room, there were a few saying the same, especially to guys but got the impression most were just being polite due to their creepy messages in the chat room. So what's your feelings on the subject, folks, you ok wit this or does it annoy you or disappoint you etc...?" Getting a reply as a dude on here is a bonus. Like everyone in life a rejection ain't nice but it saves a lot of time and effort. Give me the opportunity to get the baldy half incher out and see what other lady may be interested It's not what you've got. It's how you use it | |||
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"No’s we can manage. We are grownups and have each other, so rejection is easy to handle. However we do tend to get ignored from time to time and that sucks. I understand we all have our lives and busy profiles but we always read the profiles and always reach out with a long personal message inc. images so getting blanked does feel a little rubbish "I get that, couples and females usually have a higher rate of responses and guys don't. Everyoen has their reasons for reply, not replying, blocking, messaging etc... I just think that I'm not them and don't know what they are thinking so I don't get bothered even if I am or not their type. It's great to get a response, of course it is but if I'm not their type and they let me know, i am appreciative | |||
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"I am totally fine if I don't tick someone's boxes....let's not waste time x" Well you ticked a few of mine. Just looked at your videos. Awesome nails. | |||
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"I am totally fine if I don't tick someone's boxes....let's not waste time x Well you ticked a few of mine. Just looked at your videos. Awesome nails. "Hmmm after having a look at your profile, I'm not sure I am over a 7 but I do like cake. 😏 Who am I kidding? My nails push me to a 7.5....call me 😈 | |||
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"Who am I kidding? My nails push me to a 7.5....call me 😈" You’re too modest. Go higher. 💅 | |||
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"Who am I kidding? My nails push me to a 7.5....call me 😈 You’re too modest. Go higher. 💅" Still waiting for you to call me ...you have my number 🫦 | |||
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